What should I do if my work and family are at odds?

When I was pregnant, my husband was still a chief engineer, and he was also on a business trip, and he was not by my side at all, and he didn't come back until the first week of the due date, and he also came over, there was no way, our construction unit is in this kind of work nature, it is obvious that your work is much better than ours, at least ten days can go home once.

I'll give you a suggestion:

1. The child is already four months old, your wife will not divorce easily and be a single mother, she is just wronged, why is it that other women are pregnant, and her husband can take care of them by her side, but her husband cannot; In fact, your job has always been like this, and your wife knows it, but women are a bit of a bull during pregnancy. (I was the same at the time, as a woman, I can understand your wife's mood very well).

If I can't do my wife's job, I can add her as a friend and enlighten her.

Second, be prepared to resign, I don't know if your company is state-owned or private, how much room for your own appreciation is?

If it's a private business, I suggest you can consider quitting your job and staying at home with your wife for the rest of the year, how many children can a woman have in her life? In the case of 2 at most in the city, or the parents are only children, this year is very important, since you are a project manager, then you can do the same everywhere, this year is only a rest, earn a year less money, and then struggle when the son is born;

If it is a state-owned enterprise and the chance of promotion is relatively large, it is a pity to resign; In fact, state-owned enterprises do not have to completely resign, and it is normal to leave without pay, take a sick leave, take a year off, but the promotion opportunity will not always wait for you.

In short, what I said above is based on the premise that you will never get divorced. Then what is said above is useless!

A man's career is the mainstay, but there is only one wife. You can discuss it with your wife.

You should be a responsible person, that's why you are so entangled, go home and discuss with your daughter-in-law, and also go to the company leader to talk about your current situation, there will always be a solution

I don't know what kind of person your wife is. You tell her: If you don't go out to make money, how will you support your family in the future?! But if your family is rich......Then stop working for a while.

You can take some time to go back to see your daughter-in-law halfway, and make it clear to her, it's a last resort, but you will still try your best to find time to go back to accompany her.

Resign: Be worthy of your family, worthy of your wife and children, others will say that you are affectionate. No resignation:

Be worthy of the company, worthy of your colleagues, others will say that you are righteous. Choose one of love and righteousness, no matter which one you choose, it is right. So, choose to resign.

It is the so-called home and everything is prosperous.

"Personal composition" refers to one's personal social status before participating in revolutionary work or joining the Party. It should be regarded as an individual's occupation that had been engaged in revolutionary work for a longer period of time before joining the Party. If you are a student, you can fill in "student", if you are a worker, you can fill in "worker" or "teacher", "employee", "retired worker", etc.

Family background can be written as a worker.

Ingredients and family origins are the same content. It is divided into poor peasants, workers, landlords, etc., which are no longer used now, and if it is a form filled in by a unit, it is too old and can not be filled in.

"Family origin" should be filled in with the class composition of the family before the person obtained independent economic status or participated in revolutionary work.

1 worker; 2 members; 3 Farmers; 4 hired farmers; 5 Poor peasants; 6 Lower middle peasants; 7 middle peasants ; 8 Upper middle peasants; 9 Wealthy middle peasants; 10 cadres; 11 Revolutionary soldiers; 12 Revolutionary martyrs; 14 Staff; 15 the urban poor; 16 Freelancing; 17 clerks; 18 Small craftsmen; 19 Petty traders; 20 merchants; 21 Small Business Owners; 22 Nomads; 23 Capitalists; 25 Houses for rent; 26 Small land for rent; 28 landlords; 29 kulaks; 30 Rich peasants and commerce; 31 Landlord Merchant and Industrialist; 32 clerk and landlord; 34 Bankrupt landlords (bankrupt landlords); 35 Pipe Court ; 41 Former staff; 42 Old Officers; 43 Former Soldiers; 44 Old Officials; 46 Overseas Chinese handicraft industry ; 50 herdsmen; 52 slaves; 53 serfs ; 54 Lords; 58 Toast; 59 Toast Headman; 60 hundred; 61 thousand; 99 Miscellaneous.

My ingredients: meat is pure ridicule.

Family origin: Military.

Composition: Student.

Thank you for adopting.

"Family origin" refers to the class composition of the family before the person has attained independent economic status. The class composition shall be subject to the delineation of land reform or land reform review and democratic reform. If, after organizational review, the conclusion of a change in family origin has been made, it should be filled in according to the changed circumstances.

Individuals are not allowed to change without explicit changes by the organization. If it is not demarcated, it can be filled in according to custom, but it should be explained. The children of cadres, soldiers, and workers who have grown up with their parents should fill in their family background according to their parents' occupations, such as cadres and soldiers.

"Personal composition" refers to one's personal social status before participating in revolutionary work or joining the Party. It should be filled in according to the occupation in which the individual participated in revolutionary work or was engaged in the Party for a long time before joining the Party.

Refer to the people of Yiyuan County**.

Workers or peasants.

Party members or the masses.

I don't have any use for this kind of bird stuff right now.

The identity is mainly to fill in the one's own job position, etc., and the family birth mainly refers to the class composition of the family when the person obtains an independent economic status or participates in the work, and the class composition shall be subject to the period of land review and democratic reform. If, after review, the conclusion of a change in family origin has been made, it should be filled in according to the circumstances of the change. The children of cadres, soldiers, and workers who have grown up with their parents should be given a family background according to the revolutionary occupation of their parents, such as cadres and soldiers.

The children of peasants who were landlords and rich peasants were born into peasant families. The children of cadres, soldiers, and workers, regardless of whether they are from working people's families or from exploiting class families, and who are raised by the economic income of their grandparents, relatives and friends, their family origins should be determined according to the class composition of their grandparents, relatives and friends.

By the standards of the past, family origin: farmer, personal composition: student.

The country's highest archives management department should introduce a new standard for personnel information!

The "origin", "family origin", and "personal composition" that have been used since the 50s should be changed! Or simply cancel.

Or introduce a standard for filling in the form to answer the doubts of the person who fills in the form. Otherwise, there are a variety of things to fill in, and there is no standard answer.

Since your parents are farmers, you should fill in the peasant family.

of the composition.

If you are a student, you can fill in "student", if you are a worker, you can fill in "worker", or "teacher", "employee", "retired worker", etc. If you're working, it's up to you to see what you've been doing for the longest time.

These things are out of step with the times, and it's long overdue to retire from the stage of history.

Family origin refers to the class composition of the family at the time of the person's independent economic status or employment. Regardless of whether the children of soldiers, cadres, and workers from working people's families or from exploiting class families, if they grow up living with their parents, their family background should be determined according to their parents' occupations, such as cadres, soldiers, workers, etc. Those who are raised on the financial income of their grandparents, relatives and friends should be determined by the class composition of their ancestors or relatives and friends.

If, after organizational review, the conclusion of a change in family origin is made, it shall be filled in according to the conclusion of the change; Where the conclusion of the change has not been determined by the organization, it should not be changed on its own. The children of peasants of landlord and kulak origin, their family was born as a peasant.

Personal composition refers to the personal social status of the person before he or she joined the work or joined the Party. It should be filled in according to the occupation in which the individual has been engaged in work or joined the Party for a long time. For example, before joining the work, I have been going to school, so fill in the student; It has always been farming, just fill in the farmers.

If you join the party first and then join the work, it refers to the personal social status before joining the party, and if you are a student, you will fill in the student.

Yours should be.

Family origin - peasant.

What am I a student for?

Family background: workers, peasants, soldiers, and businessmen, that is, workers, peasants, soldiers, cadres, etc.

The same goes for me.

Don't fill in the political attitude, not everything needs to be filled.

Family background: landlord, rich peasant, middle peasant, poor peasant.

My composition should be a scholar's degree.

Political attitude (because it should be the political outlook) Party members, League members, and the masses.

Family background: Fill in the nature of the parent's work (cadre, soldier, worker, peasant) and choose one.

What am I a student for?

If you are a single parent: Fill in the nature of the work (father or mother's) of the relatives who are directly raising you

Family backgrounds fill in farmers, cadres, workers, and the masses; My composition refers to the political outlook, the members of the League who write the members, the members of the Party who write the members of the Party, and the people who are not the masses.