Hurt, hurt, what should I do?

Dizzy! How did their family do that? A little sympathetic to you!

I don't have a formal job to find! Mainly, I think your "boyfriend" (expired) how can he be. You must go to him for this, otherwise if the condition worsens and causes infertility or something, your life will be over!

This man is too irresponsible, the child he is carrying is his, and if he says to break up, he will break up, and he will be defeated, don't be afraid, go to him, he should be responsible.

Hello friends! First of all, you can see that you are a kind girl. Since his family is against it, and he himself is so ruthless (maybe he did it for the sake of his family, but he shouldn't treat you like this anyway, after all, you love each other and developed to that part), please don't be sad or blame yourself for being discouraged, cheer up, muster up courage, and start a new life of your own, because you are still young and should enjoy your good life.

As for what you said, you can talk to him through acquaintances or classmates, and let him help you solve some difficulties or urgent needs. I wish you happiness, may you be happy!

Of course you have to find him, he's not in charge, who is responsible.

All I can say is that your ex-boyfriend and his family are very inhuman.

Go to Him, that is His duty to you ...

You'd better find a formal job, live a better life, and then go up to him and his family and say: I'm glad I didn't marry into your family at that time, otherwise I wouldn't know what would have happened in my life...

When looking for a boyfriend in the future, you have to find a man who is responsible and really loves you...

This kind of person should stop contacting him, and even if he gets married, he may not be happy.

Long pain is better than short pain, go to other places, relax, find some hobbies, and live happily.

Many things are always experienced before you know that you can't afford to gain or lose. Just like feelings, after the pain, you will know how to protect yourself; If you are stupid, you will know how to persist and give up in a timely manner. Let us learn to give up, turn away before we cry, what we exchange for tears is not reliable; Let's learn to give up, bury yesterday in our hearts, and leave the best memories; Let's learn to give up so that we can all have an easier start for each other.

Holding on to it will only make you indulge in memories and pain and become sluggish. Let go of your hand and let it pass away with the wind of memory, you will find the other side of the sky, and you will revisit the fragrance of flowers in life and feel the warmth of the sun.

Giving up is not evasion, not cowardice; Giving up is an open-minded attitude. Think about it, how many people and things a person has to experience in his life, and if you don't know how to give up those things that have been lost and irretrievable, how can you grasp what really belongs to you? If you find that the only door in your world is no longer open for you, you don't have to linger in front of the door or hit your head and never wake up.

Learn to give up, then turn around and look for a skylight that opens for you, where you can also see the stars.

Hurt by whom? 1.Friend.

Then I'll know that it's just a joke. Don't take it seriously, maybe it's your own fault, talk to him, explain, and don't hold this grudge, if he really deliberately hurt me, then I will ignore him, because he is not someone worthy of my trust.

2.Beloved.

There are only secret tears, will I hate him? But, I am willing to forgive him and wait for him. Or, painfully forgetting about him.

At last. Find a friend to chat with.

Forget all the sad things.

I also have a trick: write down my sad things in a small note, read it again in a few days, and if it can't be solved, tear it up.

To deliberately forget is to forget. Because I care about whether I still remember, I often remind myself to forget, and this group is just the opposite, every reminder is to let me remember him more deeply. So don't try to forget the person you don't want to forget.

One day, when you don't care if you forget it, you really forget it.

If you can't forget it, bury him and this feeling deep in your own heart, hidden in a place that can't even be reached by the smoke of the city. That's a beautiful place in your heart......What do you think it will be to give up, is it so easy to give up someone, and is it still called true love? Love filial piety will make you happy, and thinking of her "him" will make you very happy and powerful.

But you know how you'll feel when you don't get her? Do you feel that the sky is falling, people are tired, and your heart is tired? I'm sure you've encountered it, because I've also encountered it now in trouble, in pain.

I can understand your feelings. I want to love so much, I give love, but she wants you to give up on her, I said I will, but is it really okay? When I was lonely, when I was lonely, I quietly thought of her, her voice, and every word she said, it was so unforgettable and heart-wrenching.

I really want to love, but I get a lot of pain, and my body and mind are haggard. Is this called abandonment? Therefore, it is impossible to give up a person you really love, you can only cry and remind yourself that you want to forget, to escape, although you don't want to, you are very unwilling, but what else can you do besides escaping?

I'm like that now, and I can understand your mood somewhat. If you want to let go, I think the best thing to do is to change your focus. Turn your attention to something else.

People will inevitably be hurt when they live, let him pass the past, let him become a good memory and a deep memory. To forget your pain, you have to do what you like to do the most, try to go to the mountains to discover your interests, when you immerse yourself in what you like to do the most, you will forget the pain of suffering and get happiness from it. May you come out of your pain and be happy every day!

How can we say that if we forget, we may forget the source and remember it.

When hail Zheng Shenran.

You can't hurt because you've been hurt.

Just reject everything.

Time will make your pain fade away.

Will let your wounds heal slowly.

The most important thing is yourself.

Accept the pain slowly.

This hurts. Don't dwell on it.

Don't always feel like you're in the most pain.

Be optimistic about all this.

Do you understand. Know that there are many more people who are suffering than you.

You have to love yourself more.

Face the ...... of lifeAnyway, it took five years for my sadness to fade ...... the first timeAt that time, I felt that everything in the world was not important without her, and my life was not important; But in order not to make myself sad, I unconsciously do everything in my life more seriously - because since I don't know what the meaning of my life is, I can only focus on what I can do now, by focusing on things (at that time, I was desperately reading books, playing basketball, and even on rainy days, I would practice basketball crazily alone......) to escape their own hurtful ......Once you are idle, sadness will unconsciously come out of your heart.

In this way, five years passed, and slowly, with the seriousness of life and the help of friends and family, the trauma from the bottom of my heart finally faded, and the ...... was completely faded

It's strange that because of escaping from one's sad heart and living seriously, one is finally able to transcend and sublimate. Now I also feel that the pain from the bottom of my heart is also a rare beauty in life, and I miss it very much, but I don't want to taste it again.

Five years, I believe you will definitely "live" back without such a long time! I wish you the happiness you deserve by taking life seriously!

If you are injured, you have to prescribe the right medicine, maybe you used to take someone, something as the whole of your life, and suddenly you lost it and felt that there was no motivation, you should try to do your work for the heart, isn't there a friend above who said: "Time is the best medicine"? I'm sure you'll be able to come out!

You may be hurt and trapped by love, but you must understand: "To be angry is to punish yourself for the mistakes of others!" "Whether it's a relationship or a career, as long as we have a clear conscience, it's enough that we have worked hard!

Emotionally, there is no one who is sorry for whom, only who does not cherish whom! ~~

Sometimes it's not the heavens that are playing tricks on us, it's us playing tricks on ourselves! Remember not to waste your time with those who are unwilling to spend it on you. Falling in love with someone who doesn't love you is doomed to hurt

Yes, I know that we can't let go, we can't let go of the people we love the most, the people who hurt us the most, and if we can let go easily, it's not love. But we have to try to "let go". What can wash everything away except tears is time, and time is used to change feelings, and the longer the time, the lighter the conflict, like a constantly diluted tea.

Let time take us out of pain! Happiness must be accompanied by sadness, and there should be sunny weather after the rain. If it rains after rain, if sorrow comes after sorrow, let us face this parting calmly.

Smile and look for an impossible you! Linghu Chong said"There are some things that we can't control, so we have to control ourselves.

My dear friend: Life is short for decades, don't leave yourself with any regrets, laugh when you want to laugh, cry when you want to cry, love when you should love, and don't suppress yourself needlessly. hits, constantly someone leaves or enters.

So, what is seen, what is not seen; What is remembered, forgotten. In life, there are constantly gains and losses. And he that which was not seen, saw it; Forgotten, remembered.

However, what is not seen is the same as not existing? Remember, is it never going to go away? Please take these words into consideration

Since you can't forget it, let those past events remain silently in the bottom of your heart, maybe sad, maybe sour, but everything is over! ~~

Love doesn't deceive people, and it can't deceive itself. A relationship, instead of burying it deeply, is better to take it out and clean it up, throw it away or keep it, give it an explanation, and give yourself an explanation. Think about whether it's worth it, you can go to the guard if it's worthy, and don't be demanding if it's not worth it!

Forget it, let it go, and then, go on the road clearly. Look forward to your own happiness

I wish you eternal happiness and happiness every day.

Fang: I'm the same as you now, I want to open it, you will feel that everything doesn't matter, and if you don't know how to cherish you, he will regret it!

Leave TA for a better tomorrow.

It is fundamental to eliminate confusion and sadness, relieve psychological pressure, establish a life path, and establish good living habits and attitudes.

1. Life is only a hundred years, it is still easier to be a man--- don't be in a hurry, don't be burdened by trivial things, take a step back and open the sky.

2. Maintain inner peace to feel relaxed--- content, indifferent to fame and fortune, tolerant of others, and learn to be calm.

3. Be kind to yourself, you will feel more relaxed--- accept yourself, applaud yourself more, learn to rest, and vent the troubles in life.

4. To be a relaxed person, you need to learn to enjoy life.

In life, it is inevitable to encounter some unpleasant things, but sometimes you just need to look at the problem from a different angle and face it optimistically, and there will be a scene of "another village in front of you", which requires discovering and creating the beauty of life and learning to enjoy life.

Think more about the benefits of everything, help others, make friends, don't take things too seriously, think about everything, don't be burdened by perfection, enjoy the fun that life brings you, discover the beauty of life, and enjoy the current happy life.

Whether he is injured or self-harmed, external or internal.