Why did I fall in love with a bad man???

I know it's a prodigal son, but I still like it

<> "Why You Always Like Bad Men."

Have you ever felt that the person you find attractive to is always the bad guy type or the kind of "urgent" project, the kind that is either bad for you, or you end up having to help them solve their problems and be their mentor and psychologist? When a good man appears, he makes his life clear, he doesn't need you to "correct" him, he won't treat you badly, and he won't disappear from the cold. When you meet someone like that, you'll want to say:

Wow! He's such a good man" "But I don't have feelings for him".

A lot of people face the problem that the qualities they find really attractive are the qualities that are not beneficial to them. The reasonable reason may be that you know their flamboyance, they have a kind of confidence in them, and you find it attractive. They seem to know what they want, they seem to have a natural charisma, and it's understandable that you're drawn to these qualities.

And then the other one is, so you're always attracted to these kinds of people, "because they're so mysterious."

If that's what attracts you, then you're not attracted to that person, you're just attracted to things you don't understand, and there's no mystery to people who really know them. That's why we often see certain celebrities speaking on social **, and the more they talk, the more stupid you think they are. Because you want to say:

Oh, you feel so much cooler when you talk less." It is very dangerous to be attracted to the mystery, because the mystery is only a phantom in the lake.

And then there's "I'm attracted to these people because they .......""You know ......They make me itch "What is it that makes us itch?" Usually this feeling is a description of a person who gives us a lot of attention one day and then suddenly disappears. When they're gone, we have a heartburn craving, and because you think that if they're hard to see, they must be valuable.

The person who can't always be dated must be very valuable, this is a very common psychology, isn't it?

So when someone is in our lives very infrequently, you suddenly feel that they are valuable, and it has nothing to do with their actual value. Because when you really have someone by your side, someone who is always willing to be there for you, and take the time to communicate with you, that's what is valuable. That's what really precious.

But just because you have to have it, you feel like "how it's everywhere" and "I don't ......."This person will reply to me anytime and anywhere" "I don't need this" "It's so cheap! ”

That's the difference, so we have to be very, very careful with that instinct. Because it's not an attractive quality at all, and if you say that what attracts you like this is "I've got that person all over my head" that's the problem.

There will be no result, because some men can't change, even if they like you again, but their nature is still very bad.

I don't think the result will be too good, because this kind of man has no sense of responsibility, and his character is not particularly good, so it is difficult to have a good result with such a man.

Men end up falling in love with bad women, just because of bad womenKnow how to attract men, bad bad womanKnow how to turn yourself into the best person you can be, bad bad womanI like to toss, and I like to be smart, so women are not bad men do not love.

A bad woman, a very honest woman, men usually choose bad women. Because bad women know how to attract men, how to capture men's hearts, and how to capture men's stomachs. Men are born to like curiosity, so women are very honest and responsible, and it is likely that women can't keep men, so women need to know how to take the initiative to attract men.

Men like new things, men like beautiful women, so women must know how to dress themselves, women must know how to wear makeup, and women must know how to wear beautiful clothes.

Men are not bad, women are not loved, in the same way, women are not bad, men are not loved. Whether it is a man or a woman, you must know how to cultivate both inside and outside, so that you can become a very good person. To be a bad woman, know how to cultivate both inside and outside, women are very good, and the more men like to be close to women.

Happiness can't be kept, happiness is earned by fighting, and happiness is attracted by charm, so be a bad woman, be a woman who knows how to cultivate both inside and outside, and find a man who likes you.

Bad women especially like to toss, others think that this kind of woman is too noisy and restless, but men like it. Because women like to toss, women know what they want, and women know how to toss so as not to offend men's bottom lines, so women like to be clever in front of their beloved men. Because women know that men love her and like her, women like to toss.

Men like women with a bit of personality, and if a woman is too honest, it will appear very old-fashioned and stubborn, which will make men lose interest, so women should stick to their individuality. Men like women's vigorous appearance, men like women's beautiful appearance, men like women's coquettish appearance, women can have a little fault, and men can tolerate women.

Bad women are very beautiful, have a very good figure, have a very high emotional intelligence, know what men want, and are very empathetic to men.

Because this kind of woman understands men's minds very well, and can grasp men's temperament, it will make men addicted.

Because there are many men who feel that such a woman is very worthy of their cherishment, and there are many men who think that such a woman is very good-looking, and there are also many men who think that such a woman is very good-looking, so there are many men who end up falling in love with a bad woman.

Because such girls are very attractive to men, and will make men have the desire to conquer, many men will like such girls.

<> "The Way Women Pinch Men."

Clause. 1. Praise him skillfully.

Don't think that praising him will make him float. When you master the way to control a man, he can't float at all. The American psychologist William James once said:

The deepest psychological motivation in human nature is the desire to be appreciated. So when a man is affirmed and praised, this is the easiest way to mobilize his positive emotions. And what you need to be clear about is that praising him is not only to make him happy, but what it can bring you after being happy.

Clause. Second, he is accustomed to knowing proportion.

Men will be tempted by the little woman's softness, but they will be obsessed with the motherhood of the big woman. This is not what I said, there is a study in evolutionary psychology that the more mature a man is, the more he needs the maternal care of women, and when he can obtain maternal tolerance and love from his partner, he will take the initiative to release his inner "little boy" and give his whole heart to you. Therefore, he is accustomed to knowing how to soothe his emotions like a mother instead of letting go or blowing.

Men don't like bad women, men like attractive women, but different men like different types.

The Art of LoveThe current society cannot eliminate the differences between men and women, so women take love and marriage more seriously than men. Because for men, it may be just love, but for women, it is always everything, including the pursuit of ideals. For any woman who is adored, rejecting love while maintaining friendship is the most complex diplomatic art.

Women are a quiet harbor for men, the starting point and destination of men. People think that men have power, but in fact, men's power should belong to women after all.

The best way for a man to impress a woman is often to show her his charm for other women; The best way for a woman to impress a man is to show him how attractive she is to other men. The childish first love in fantasy is changeable, and the real first love is the most concrete. It is dangerous for two girls to have a crush on a guy at the same time.

In potential competition, they tend to give up their feelings easily. Being loved by two women at the same time tends to foster a man's selfish sense of superiority. He can not only maintain the state of being loved by the other person, but also maintain the right to choose calmly in an ambiguous attitude.

A man's criteria for choosing a girlfriend are not the same as those for choosing a wife.

Mate selection criteria are a complex and multifaceted system that involves and includes age, appearance, personality, thoughts, feelings, temperament, morality, politics, social status, etc. Pure love choices, which do not require any practical considerations and trade-offs, are based solely on sex and affection, and belong to youth. With the passage of youth, the increase in age and experience, in the choice of love and marriage, the proportion of pure sex and pure emotion gradually decreases, giving way to various practical considerations.

Morality is the most immoral obstacle to happiness; Helping people strive for happiness is the most ethical. It is an ancient traditional morality to restrain and suppress love with an unreasonable family shell; The content of love determines the form of the family, which is a new civilized morality. This is the conflict between the two morals.

In fact, our society is still superior to women. Machismo seems to be a family affair, but in fact, all the old ethics are built on it. Women should dare to pursue their own lives.

It is superficial to think that advocating a new morality is the truth. You can look at those who preach a new morality. As thinkers, they hold this view; But as a husband, she often holds opposing views, sometimes even typical old morals.

Sometimes, the excessive indignation at "not being serious" is often because you are not serious; Excessive indignation at "romantic love" often reflects envy of romantic love.

No matter when and where, a woman should never give up her right and freedom to pursue a beautiful love. When you accidentally fall in love with the wrong scumbag, your top priority is to end this painful relationship quickly, you have to learn to keep a certain distance from the scumbag, and then you have to continue to believe in love.

Yes, because he can't give you a future in the future, and the two of you are wasting your time when you're together now.

I feel like I should give up. A bad man can't give you the love and warm home you want, has no sense of responsibility, and won't care about you, and if a bad man is with you, you won't get the approval and blessing of your family.

You should give up, because you don't have the ability and charm to conquer the other party, so when you meet such a person, you are likely to get hurt, so it is better to give up as soon as possible.

Men are not bad and women are not loved, and the "bad" here does not refer to bad character, it is essentially different from "evil". The so-called bad men are often out of common sense, more interesting, have a sense of humor, are good at creating a romantic atmosphere, are good at expression, are thick-skinned, don't care much about face, and are very lethal to women.