The relationship between me and my girlfriend is urgent, and I beg for an answer

You still remember her when she was in school, and she was very cute and innocent at that time. Time will change, you talked for four years. In fact, they don't understand each other at all.

Or that you haven't been together for a long time, you are strangers, you fall in love with a person you imagine, or you habitually keep it, in this case, one is to learn to understand each other and integrate into each other's lives. This takes time. The second is to break up, you obviously want to break up, this is really not good, just like you have been longing for something for a long time, and you feel bad, I advise you to run in with her again.

She is not good to me, and she has paid for you for four years. I also went back with you to meet the parents, if I really feel that it is not good. Besides, whether it is a breakup or not, there is a run-in period between couples.

After the run-in period, the relationship will get better and better. In fact, falling in love with any woman is like this, surprise, excitement, sweetness. Peaceful, plain.

Doesn't matter. Have the ability to love and be happy with whomever you want. If you really can't accept being with such a woman for the rest of your life, deciding that a breakup is the best.

People will change, what can I feel like when I see them once a year? It's because of habit and your own little sense of responsibility (eaten. Now your feelings for her are not so much love as getting used to it Get used to her existence (often calling, contacting, similar to spiritual love) There is a tendency to develop towards the so-called light death in online dating A lot of things can be said without meeting But as soon as you meet, you can't say it I suggest that you live together for a period of time or maintain the status quo (you miss the previous relationship and live together After all, there is a relationship foundation, and it is not enough to maintain the status quo).

Understand. It's been a long time. Separated, I'm sorry she feels guilty, it's normal.

Because you've been together for so long, you will feel guilty about breaking up on your own initiative without contradicting anyone or anything. As for you, you can choose to live together often but not together, often together will reduce your YY for other women, and at the same time you can sincerely exchange your inner views, and will not bring too much psychological pressure and worry to the other party, communicate more.

Is it some of her bad habits that make you feel disgusted, or do you just hate her as a whole? If it's the former, you can bring it up and discuss it, and if it's the latter, you should think about whether you like the new 、、、and hate the old

It's been boring for a long time, but after all, after being together for so long, there are feelings after all.

I think long-distance relationships have caused a lot of trouble for you, and long-distance relationships can be more challenging than normal relationships!

For example, at the beginning, I said BMW, in the middle I said that I was wronged, and finally I said that I was experienced, between the lines, it was very self-centered, and on the whole, it seems that you understand everything yourself, and asking questions is actually confiding.

Then I don't understand, the truth hasn't been figured out yet, it's all your words, how can we make suggestions? Empty words to comfort you, paste a few good words, and you are satisfied?

2. Of course, it may be that I have a low IQ, and on August 16, the contradiction broke out, before that, was there anything abnormal?

Since he said that it is fate, then it is estimated that you are out of play, or maybe he likes machismo people, you say that you wait for her, give her a period of time to think about it, don't rush her, otherwise she will be even more disgusted.

Since you like it, don't break up. Boys, I think you always have to learn to endure more or less, endure again and again, and endure if you can't bear it.

However, your girlfriend is also a bit excessive.

My suggestion is that you have a good chat, express all the displeasure and grievances in your heart, and want to express your inner thoughts like a good friend.

If you don't do it, you can't let it go. What is lost is the most precious.

With your girlfriend, don't be so honest. As long as you remember, whenever your girlfriend asks you, the first thought that pops into your head, don't say it. After that, it's best to say the other way around, such as asking if your clothes look good.

If you say that you are good-looking, you will say that although the clothes are beautiful, they are not as beautiful as you, and wearing the clothes is your brilliance that overshadows the clothes. The subtext is that the clothes are not good-looking, in other words, it expresses the same meaning. But your girlfriend must be happy to hear it.

A woman is sensual, and what she likes is not your truth, but your praise. Besides, it is also a virtue to praise others. For women, sweet words are still needed, don't think about whether it's appropriate or not.

I think this kind of relationship for you is the least strong, because you just push the fault on the other person's life, and it has nothing to do with it, and you have done something wrong. I think as long as you sit down and talk about everything, it's not a problem, come on!

In fact, 2 people who love each other need to tolerate each other, not one-sided, I feel that the landlord can think more about what kind of person she is when she talks and chats with her, and when she does things, analyze and analyze what kind of person she is, is not suitable for herself, if she is suitable, see clearly what she is in character, what she likes, what hobbies do you think I should do to make our relationship better, think about it more, it will be good.

Such a woman is not only used to not caring for her and is not sensible I suggest that you don't give up on her easily Because you must have feelings for each other, you can try to change her and communicate with him, if there is no improvement in this area It is recommended to give up From what you said, she is a very ignorant person, and there will be a lot of problems like this and that when you live in the future, if she is always like this, you have no way to live.

I also have this situation, and I feel that it is really that we are too tolerant and understanding and loving to the people we love, and it is wrong to forgive and tolerate each other when there is a mistake.

Have a good talk with her, see what she thinks in her heart, my husband and I are like this, he depends on me for everything, but his words, I will be unhappy, but sometimes it's not really unhappy, I just want him to coax me. Maybe your girlfriend is also such a person, did you catch up with her when she came home alone, apologize to her, and learn the next step?

How is it the same as me and my husband. Clothes thing. Everyone's vision is different.

Since your girlfriend asks if you look good, he must have some liking. In fact, women buy clothes to dress themselves. It's all for.

Show it to your boyfriend. Since you say it's not good-looking. What else does he look at.

I'm sure I'll throw off my clothes and leave! One more point. You say it's not good-looking.

She may also find you impatient at all. As for kidding. It must be something she is more sensitive to.

You're kidding. I'm not happy!

In fact, it will be better to communicate with each other with good intentions. . .

The egg hurts, and if it's unpleasant, break up.