As the saying goes, knowing the face but not the heart, how do you know if a man is worth marrying?

It is necessary to look at his daily behavior and look at the details, which is the best aspect of showing a person's heart.

If you want to know whether a person can get married, you must first look at whether he has a sense of responsibility? I can't shelter you from the wind and rain, but when something happens, I stand up for you.

Looking at this man's usual actions, you can see the man's nature from the subtleties, and you can know whether this man is worth marrying.

It is recommended that you cut it according to the number of words you need to answer "Knowing the person and knowing the face but not the heart", the "heart" here refers to the psychology. This is because the "psyche" is on the inside, and it is impossible to know it from the outside. It is precisely because of this statement that people think that psychology seems to be a special science, with special doorways, mysteries, and secrets, and can know the "mind" that everyone thinks is unknowable.

Simple psychology is easy to know. For example, at 8 o'clock in the morning, he saw a second-grade elementary school student in his neighborhood running to school with a schoolbag on his back, what did he think? If we know that he was late yesterday, criticized, and judged in class today, then we can guess that he is mentally calculating now

Don't be late today, run! The reason why this conjecture dared to be sure was that we also knew that he was a relatively obedient schoolboy, and we could see that he was anxious on his face, and the list goes on. They show that mental phenomena, like other phenomena, are subject to the laws of cause and effect, so that the psychology of others can be inferred.

There is nothing mysterious about the things we can deduce from what we see in the hearts of others that we can't see. This example illustrates that human psychology inevitably influences human behavior. We can infer the invisible through the visible—behavior—the unseen—the psyche.

Since human speech is governed by human psychology, it is also possible to understand human psychology based on human speech. Of course, people's speech and psychology will be inconsistent in some cases, and it doesn't matter, cause and effect are often complex, not one-to-one, for example, the same disease can have different symptoms in some cases, but the doctor's diagnosis is not based on only one symptom, but through many symptoms and various tests to compare. Understanding people's psychology is not based on just one word and deed, but through multiple words and deeds and various investigations.

For example, a person's fear should be said to be afraid and has the behavior of dodging, but he neither dodges nor says that he is afraid, and through the investigation of his various aspects, it is found that he not only has the psychology of fear, but also the psychology of not wanting to show weakness. It can be seen that words and deeds are sometimes inconsistent with psychology, not only can not cover up psychology, but can expose more psychology. Therefore, knowing people and knowing their faces but not their hearts is just a relatively one-sided view, and when they have a deep understanding of human psychology and human behavior, they can know their faces and their hearts.

People live to experience joys and sorrows, birth, old age, sickness and death, in order to understand what people live for?

In order to realize their own ideals, pursuits, goals, desires and values.

It's tiring, it's hard.

Because society is very unfair, it is very helpless to live.

If you are sad and sad, you have to cry, and if you find something to do, you will not be bored.

Because that's how life is.

No one's life is smooth sailing.

As long as you work hard, it's wonderful!

Be optimistic about anything.

Keep a normal heart.

Life is inevitably about falling and waiting.

Be brave enough to look up.

The sun is always after the storm!

I'll give you advice, can you see it?

1.Look at the world with another eye, not everyone in this world is very smooth, just look at how you solve it, for example, you were hit by someone when you were walking, others apologized to you, sometimes you still feel very angry, but you didn't expect that the person who hit you was actually more uncomfortable than you, or think about the sentence "Happy is also a day, unhappy is also a day, why not be happy every day".

2.If you think that you are in a bad mood, you will be in a bad mood, then you don't need to think about it, if you still want to, then keep yourself busy, let yourself have no time to think about it, let yourself live every minute to the fullest, and then don't fall in love with the bed after waking up in the morning, get up when you wake up, get busy, open the window, breathe in the fresh morning air, relax your whole body, and let yourself imagine a happy little angel ......

3.Choose a place with fresh air, quiet surroundings, soft light, undisturbed and free movement, and take a position that you feel comfortable in, standing, sitting or lying down.

4.Move some large joints and muscles of the body, the speed should be even and slow when doing it, and the action does not need to have a certain format, as long as you feel the joints let go and the muscles relax.

5.Take a deep breath, inhale slowly and exhale slowly, saying "relax" in your mind whenever you exhale.

6.Focus your attention on some everyday objects. For example, look at a flower, a little candlelight, or anything soft and beautiful, and look closely at its subtleties. Light some spices and inhale the aroma of it.

7.Close your eyes and try to imagine some tranquil and beautiful scenes, such as blue waters, golden sandy beaches, white clouds, mountains and water.

8.Do activities that you enjoy that have nothing to do with the specific things at hand. For example, swimming, taking a hot bath, shopping, listening, watching TV, etc.

9.Life is easy, life is easy, life is not easy. Don't worry, there are a lot of people in this society who are almost like you, but they are all living happily, not everyone can succeed, as long as you work hard to treat everything, take life seriously, as long as you take every day seriously, no matter how your life is, I believe it is wonderful.

It makes a lot of sense, and generally such sayings make a lot of sense, such as what, close to Zhu is red, close to ink is black, and so on.

is such a truth, people nowadays have quite a city, how can others easily understand it, not to mention seeing people's hearts over time. It is simply impossible to get to know a person all at once. To be honest, I can't fully understand myself, how can others guess thoroughly?

There are many aspects to a person's personality, and there is more than one side of the personality. And people are fickle, and everyone is like that. So even if you know a person, it's nothing, today he likes to eat apples, tomorrow he will probably like durian that he has never eaten.

Therefore, it is good to deal with people and go with the flow, and in today's society, it is good that you can not suffer losses.

Well, it is、Appearances can deceive people、Who doesn't have his own little ninety-nine、

The human heart is unpredictable, and only by contact can we understand a person;

Over time, we will see people's hearts

Then just become like the people who wear masks.

The road knows the horsepower, and the people will see it for a long time.

This sentence should be complete "It is difficult to draw dragons and tigers, and it is difficult to draw bones, and it is difficult to know people and faces, but not hearts", from "Qingping Shantang Words: Cao Boming's Wrong Investigation of Stolen Goods".

Pinyin】huà lóng huà hǔ nán huà gǔ,zhī rén zhī miàn bù zhī xīn

Interpretation] refers to the fact that it is difficult to understand the essence through phenomena or that the human mind is unpredictable.

Literally] you can draw dragons and tigers, but it's hard to draw bones directly through their flesh and skin; You can get to know a person and know what he looks like, but it's hard to know what's going on in his heart.

Sentence formation: 1, this person said good things to his face, but he had a bad heart behind his back, it turned out that I was mistaking him, and I didn't know my heart when I knew the person's face!

2. I took this person in, but he was a habitual thief who stole half of my life savings, which was really a candle in the wind.

3. Everyone's shortcomings are not written on the forehead. Knowing the person knows the face but does not know the heart.

4, this guy knows people and faces, but doesn't know his heart, and blames himself for not making friends well.

5. You despicable guy, you really know people and don't know your heart!

Source: 見區設文。

The previous sentence is difficult to draw a dragon and a tiger.

From "Cautionary Tales".

The second volume of Zhuangzi rests and drums into a road.

Before death, everyone said that they were deeply grateful, and after death, everyone wanted to fan the grave.

It is difficult to draw dragons and tigers, and it is difficult to draw bones, and knowing people and faces does not know their hearts. The watchtower lord adopted it

Source: Yuan Shang Zhongxian's "Single Whip Grabbing the Lance" second fold: "Brother also, knowing people and knowing faces but not knowing hearts, you have no two hearts, how did he carry Liu Wuzhou and surrender to me." "Zengguang Xianwen": "It is difficult to draw the skin and bones of the tiger, and it is difficult to know the face but not the heart." ”

According to the time, it should come from the water margin in the early Ming Dynasty, not the three words and two beats at the end of the Ming Dynasty.

Knowing the person knows the face but does not know the heart.

Explanation]: An old saying. It means that it is easy to know a person, but it is difficult to understand a person's heart.

From]: The eleventh episode of Qing Cao Xueqin's "Dream of Red Mansions": "Sister Feng deliberately put her feet late, and when she saw him far away, she secretly thought in her heart: "This is 'knowing people and knowing faces but not knowing hearts'." Where are there such beasts? ”

Grammar]: complex sentence form; as an object, a clause; It means that it is difficult to recognize people.

Before death, everyone said that they were deeply grateful, and after death, everyone wanted to fan the grave. It is difficult to draw dragons and tigers, and it is difficult to draw bones, and knowing people and faces does not know their hearts. ”

Knowing people, knowing faces, not knowing hearts, classmates, helpless

People are fickle.

Man is the best at disguise.

You can't sway other people's minds.

Of course, you don't know what other people are thinking.

Maybe one gives feelings to others.

Calm and sophisticated.

In the end, it was discovered that it was actually a human-faced beast heart.

That's what I think.

Knowing the person knows the face but does not know the heart.

"Knowing the face but not the heart" means: "It is easy to know a person, but it is difficult to understand a person's heart." ”

1, from: "Zhuang Zhou Tries His Wife": "It is difficult to draw dragons and tigers, and it is difficult to draw bones, and you don't know your heart. ”

2. Introduction to "Zhuang Zhou's Trial Wife": "Zhuangzi's trial wife is adapted from the Cantonese opera "Zhuang Zhou's Butterfly Dream", which is based on a passage from "Fan Grave", the plot is to the effect that Zhuangzi's wife, whose husband is not cold, has a new lover, and in order to please the new lover, he does not hesitate to disturb the grave of her husband who has just died. And this lover is played by Zhuangzi.

It turned out that Zhuangzi was not dead, and he used fraud to test his wife's loyalty. Lai Man-wai, originally from Xinhui County, Guangdong, was born in Japan in 1893 and grew up in Hong Kong. It is said that he liked to shoot ** when he was 9 years old, and his interest became stronger when he grew up.

Li Minwei was very patriotic, and after the failure of the Guangzhou Uprising in 1911, he was inspired by the revolutionary spirit of the 72 martyrs, joined the League led by Sun Yat-sen, and organized the "Qing Pingle" club to write and stage a new civilized drama that promoted the revolution. In 1913, he organized the "People's Mirror Drama Society". At this time, Li Minwei became acquainted with Brasky, who had founded Asia Film Company in Shanghai.

After negotiation, the two decided to cooperate in the production of the film, with Brasky funding and providing the necessary equipment, using the actors and sets of the "Renme Mirror Drama Society", and producing and distributing under the name of Huamei Film Company, "Zhuangzi Tries a Wife" is the first and only film they co-produced. ”

"It is difficult to draw the skin and draw the tiger, and it is difficult to know the face of the person", which means that you may clearly see the appearance of a certain person, but what is going on in your heart, it is difficult for you to know.

It's one set on the outside and one set on the inside.

The human heart is separated from the belly.

Tiger heart sweater.

Knowing the person knows the face but does not know the heart.

It is difficult to draw the skin of a tiger and draw the bones.

You want someone else to give you the right one.

It is indeed the heart of the human heart that separates the belly, and the person knows the face but does not know the heart. Without knowing other people's hearts, he revealed his own ugly meaning to me. You think you're a good friend, but others are far away from you.

The heart is separated from the belly, knowing the face of the person but not the heart, this sentence is very good, people are selfish, they will disguise themselves, it is difficult to understand a person for a short time.

You can't have the heart to hurt others, and you can't have the heart to defend people. People's hearts are separated from their belly, and they know people and faces but do not know their hearts; Being able to say something like this means that you have begun to get to know someone well. That's the reward. The road knows the horsepower, and the people will see it for a long time.

That's right, it's true. People's hearts are separated from their belly, and they know people and faces but do not know their hearts; Some people you never know what he is thinking in his heart, so people must learn to protect themselves, don't believe anyone easily, after a long time, you can see the good and bad of a person, not sincerity can be exchanged for sincerity.

Yes, that makes sense.

Give a short period of time to a person.

It's definitely not good to judge a person.

After all, some people are very good at disguising themselves.

Sometimes what you see on the surface isn't necessarily the real thing.

As the saying goes: see people's hearts over time.

Long-term relationships look at character.

In fact, this is the truth.

Want to get to know a person.

It still depends on time.

You have to rely on your usual careful observation to find out.

Even if a person can disguise again.

It's impossible not to reveal a little clue.

Just be observant and pay attention.

You can always tell what a person is like.

As the saying goes, flowers and plants should look at the roots, and people should look at the heart, people's hearts are separated from the belly, and people know the face without knowing the heart, we live a lifetime, do things, we must learn to guard against the point, be a man, and know how to keep an eye on yourself, some people are good to you on the surface, but behind them are scolding you.

Some people compliment you on the surface, but behind the scenes, they count you down, and some people seem to be honest on the surface, but in fact they have a bad stomach.

The road is slippery in the dark, the people's hearts are complicated, these years, the truth of the human heart is difficult to distinguish, not all the people who are good to you, are worthy of you to dig out your heart and lungs, because you don't know, what kind of heart is behind others, some people, close to you, because you are profitable, some people, deliberately please you, because there is a request for you, once you are in trouble, there is no use value, you see who else will hold you!

Today's society is very realistic, and people nowadays are very hypocritical, just listen to some things, don't take them seriously, just know some things, don't have to say it, some people just see through it, don't have to debunk it.

Many times, people, live too hard, take everything too seriously, and lose.

As the so-called road knows the horsepower, see the hearts of the people for a long time, after a long time, no matter how well people are disguised, there will be a time when the horse's feet are exposed, people, you must see everyone around you clearly, even if the hidden arrow is difficult to prevent, you must also see the situation clearly, and try to make yourself less deceived.

In today's society, there are too many people who are different from the outside, and there are too few sincere people, people, you must keep an eye on yourself, don't listen to the wind is the rain, what others say, just follow what you do, you know, it can't be fake, it's fake, it's not true.

True friends will not be jealous because of your scenery, nor will you leave because you are in trouble, we must cherish the people around us who trust us, no matter how difficult, we can't live up, no matter how poor, we can't deceive, because the truth is precious!