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After the death of a loved one, before and after the funeral, some people may have some different emotions and reactions in the face of the reality of the death of their loved one, such as grief, grief, loss, helplessness, and so on.
However, some people may show some positivity and optimism, trying to face the reality of their loved one's death in a positive way. These people may talk and laugh around the funeral, expressing a sense of reassurance.
This state of mind may be motivated by respect and love for the deceased, hoping that they will have peace of mind in heaven, but also hoping to ease the grief of themselves and those around them. This mindset may also be motivated by a self-preservation mechanism to cope with the death of a loved one by diverting attention or relieving emotions.
However, this does not mean that these people do not care about the deceased or do not grieve for the deceased. They may simply express their emotions and process their emotions in different ways. Everyone's emotions and reactions are unique and need to be understood and respected.
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In fact, this is very normal, excluding the kind of relationship that is not good, if the relationship is particularly good before his death, and when he dies, you have no one to be sad at all, this is understandable, it does not mean that he is cold-blooded, but he already has this preparation in his heart to leave, so he accepts it very calmly.
However, when one day in the future, you see a scene, or a thing, which is an action or a thing that you used to do often between you, then the thoughts will overwhelm you, and it is estimated that at that time you will realize that he will never do any more actions with you in the future, then this time will really be sad.
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This normal state of mind, the funeral will leave you time to cry and vent your reluctance, and the rest of the time will be talked and laughed by your children and grandchildren, and the elderly will be considered a happy mourning as long as they do not die horizontally.
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It is normal to post on Moments when a loved one has passed away, one is to express sorrow, and the other is to tell relatives and friends about it.
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I think it's very sensational, just like a girl on Kuaishou who broadcast the death of her family before.
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When a loved one dies, he has to post it on Moments, which may be like someone else's comfort to him for his loss and sadness.
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This is also a way to express sorrow. People don't want you to see it. You can take your time in the future.
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Maybe it's a commemorative significance! I can't think of anything else.
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Well, I'm also a person who loves to post on Moments! I don't have any ideas, and I record some details of my life.
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Now that I don't post on Moments, I feel that it is not interesting, my life is happy, so why let my friends know.
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Maybe I want to vent my feelings. The person who posted it didn't have so many ideas, just wanted to express his feelings.
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This is a kind of selfish person who is not afraid of being far away and is embarrassed.
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If you don't understand it, most people won't post on Moments. Maybe it's because you need the attention of others, but some of your actions can make them uncomfortable.
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Sensationalism, jumping clowns, the world is declining, and the people's hearts are not ancient!
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If you don't understand the psychology of this kind of person, objectively speaking, the real number should not be.
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I don't understand the operation of this wave of people, and I'm speechless anyway.
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It shows that if you don't feel sad, you can't think of sadness.
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Remember this day.
Look at other people's content, it's not easy to guess subjectively.
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It is a ritual, a record, a remembrance, a remembrance and an elegy. When his relatives died, he was in a deep mood, and posting on Moments was a kind of emotional sustenance. He will feel better when he expresses his sadness through the circle of friends.
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If you don't understand any mentality, it may be a manifestation of venting your emotions.
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I don't know, I don't know much about this kind of person.
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When a loved one dies, you have to post it on Moments, what kind of mentality is this? It is a mood of longing.
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What do you say about the era when you see a turtle and have to pull it over to take a group photo?
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Well, ask this kind of question、、、 since you are very good friends, you can't go wrong with a little more money, how much depends on your own situation, when you attend the funeral, do your best to comfort your friends, and try to avoid anything "Don't be afraid, there is me." It's okay" and the other person may think you're gloating. Try to say, "His mother will be very happy, and heaven must want him (her) [your friend] to be happy" and don't be sad.
I'm only 13, don't scold me for 、、、
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It's not unfilial, but your idea is really not advisable. The death of a loved one happens to everyone, and it is very normal to cry because of grief, and no one will not understand. You will be laughed at if you don't go on the last trip because of this ridiculous idea.
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Not really.
Maybe only outsiders will see you that way.
Of course, there is no shortage of gossip.
People are inherently dead, so sadness is always inevitable.
Slowly it will get better, cherish the present.
When your relatives are alive, you should be filial and mourn.
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Yes, I feel the same way, love in the end, there is no cry left.
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The last side should be sent, and sooner or later people will die.
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Everything must be faced bravely in public.