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There are two major turning periods in the process of human life, one is adolescence, the other is menopause, it is really a narrow road, often this adolescence just meets menopause, and there will be a lot of friction and disputes between the two generations at the bend of life.
Adolescence is prone to impulsivity, and menopause is prone to anxiety.
Mishandling and even accidents.
So there are psychologists who also put these two turning periods in life.
It is called a bottleneck period, and in reality, many lives are stuck in a bottleneck.
Life is not easy to come by, but it is easy to go.
Life belongs to us only once, and if it is lost, it will never come back.
I don't want to judge what you have suffered, whether it is real or false.
All I can do is give you a suggestion.
No matter how great your suffering is, when you are uncomfortable, please be sure to record your feelings at that time in a diary in detail, and after a year, two years, look back again to see what different feelings you have.
It can also be assumed that at extreme times, a life has ended, and a new life is born like changing baby teeth.
Remember! Life can be joked, but life can never be joked......Have a nice day! <>
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The situation you said is really sad, your current mood may be very bad and very bad, but life has to go on, you can't end your life with death, life won't go on like this for a long time, you have to be patient and confident, because you can't choose the family you were born into, what kind of parents you meet, you can't choose, if you have the ability to leave them, if you don't have the ability, rely on them first, then you should turn a deaf ear to what they say and do to you, ignore it, Like your mother dancing at the door of your room, then let him dance well, don't you get angry, don't tell her what to do? Because your thoughts, if there is already an opposition, then he will not listen to you, you plug your ears, you can continue to sleep, if you are critical of each other, then the thumb feelings will not be able to get along, so you must learn to adapt, but should be to change yourself when you can't change others.
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You are a kind person. Adolescence is not only easy for you to be irritable, but also for your family to be overwhelmed and unable to cope with it well. It takes time, and if you can't put your energy into studying well, I recommend doing some exercise and doing something to divert your attention.
will help you.
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Children don't think so, your idea is a big mistake, the only person in this world does not harm you, to consider for you, to tolerate you to the greatest extent you can tolerate you is your parents, your so-called bad, maybe they usually feel you too strict, nagging too much, but this is not a bad thing, if there is no you in the mouth, say you a little, or say that there is no nagging, not necessarily to you He doesn't care about you, you have nothing to do with him, So you should believe to see clearly who is good for you and who is bad for you? Cherish the present affection, for it is precious to you.
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First of all, thank you for pouring out your feelings to everyone, this is good, you are a good child, it should be adolescent rebellion, many children have this idea at this age, but just think about it, don't really do it, there is no reason for us to give up life. Your parents love you very much, maybe they are not very good at communicating with their children, but the heart that loves you is the most genuine. You can also try to communicate with your parents, study hard, try to put all your energy into studying, and set a goal in your heart so that you don't get impatient.
Study hard! I wish you a great future!
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I don't know if you are a boy or a girl, girls obviously have a rebellious period, maybe it is due to the generation gap, I always feel that my parents are doing things for me, and I am irritable, and it will be good to wait for this stage.
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No, it's a loss to die for yourself, just go to live in another city.
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Is it puberty, every child will encounter it, and it will be relieved by reading, and it will pass quickly. Life is precious, don't give up easily.
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How can you say that, can you come into this world without your mother, as long as your mother talks to you, isn't it over if you obey her a few words, for example; Your mother said; Hurry up and get up. You said you got it, Mom, okay, I'll get up. Mom will listen more comfortably, I hope you understand the good intentions of your parents, I used to be rebellious, and now I get along well with my parents, isn't it good.
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No matter what happens, always think about it. That's it. What is alive and undead? It's good.
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Behave well, let them feel at ease with you, and talk to them well.
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I don't know how old you are, are you an adult?
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1.We must always remember that our parents will always be the ones who love us the most; Understand that no matter what the outcome is, they always think it's for our good. 2.
You must understand why you are bored with your parents. Maybe they're staring at you too closely, or maybe they're acting in a way that makes you unhappy, etc. This must be seriously and clearly thought through.
3.After thinking it through, communicate with your parents in a timely manner and tell them what you are thinking. Let's work together to solve this problem.
4.In daily life, we should develop a good habit of communicating with our parents, so that we can enhance family relationships.
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Summary. Dear little brother, you hate your parents and want them to die, which means that the contradiction between you and your parents is irreconcilable, can you talk to me about it? What the hell happened between you that made you hate them so much? They are your dearest.
Dear little brother, you hate your parents, Feng Di wants them to die, which means that the contradiction between you and your parents is irreconcilable, can you talk to me? What the hell happened between you, Silver Core, that made you hate them so much? They are your dearest. Shan Xun.
They are special, special, very selfish, they only care about themselves.
Little brother, what did they do to make you think like this?
Little brother, can you be specific?
Never cared what I thought.
Little brother, thank you for telling me this, it's really infuriating that they don't care what you think.
Little brother, when you have an idea, you must communicate with them, if it doesn't make sense, you can try to empathize, if you still can't figure it out, you can do it according to your own wishes.
Little brother, many times, parents do not care about their children's thoughts, they feel that their children are still young and do not understand anything, so they often make ideas for their children, which is the source of conflicts between parents and children. So, you need to tell them briefly that you can take responsibility for your actions.
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There are several reasons why children annoy their parents.
1 Do not love him because he is obedient, but love him because he is your child.
2. Don't compare other children with your own children, for example, the comparison between a parent without money and a parent with a wealth is the same. If the child is wrong, educate the child that you are wrong, and it is not right to do so.
3. Don't let your child have no freedom at all, and give your child some freedom when it's safe to do so.
4. Don't force him to learn, but guide him to learn, the more he is forced to learn, the more disgusted the child is.
5. When a child makes a mistake, parents can't help but understand the situation is a scolding, your ignorance will cause a psychological shadow to the child, and the child will not tell you something in the future.
6. Parents should respect and trust their children.
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Children are getting older day by day, experiencing adolescence, their minds are slowly maturing, they are eager to become adults, and they are also changing their own standards, such as dressing and speaking in the world. Children begin to have their own independent thinking, and when these consciousnesses collide with their parents' thoughts, it is easy to have a rebellious psychology if they are not satisfied and recognized. Parents have a main requirement for their children at the student stage - grades.
Parents will demand everything from their children based on achieving better grades, but ignore what their children have in their hearts.
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As an adult, admonish you. At the age of 17, you are in adolescence, playing games all day long, and you don't study well. Are you still annoyed with parental supervision?
Before school really starts, go to work near your home, try the hardships of working to earn money, and see if the work is hard or the study is hard. Or is it the game that makes you happy for a lifetime.
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Personally, I think you and your parents should calm down and communicate well. Parents love you. There is no parent who does not love his child.
When encountering something, you must communicate well. Suppose you say that what you are doing is right and your family refutes it. Then you have to reason with your parents.
Say your point.
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Why are parents so annoyed? Because parents do everything for the sake of their children, they will nag a lot, and for your future, your parents have become your enemies.
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