It s so uncomfortable! What should I do, am I not in my right mind? 30

If it's just a momentary impulse, engagement is not marriage, before you get married, you still have hope to recover, the key lies in your attitude, since his family let him get engaged, it means that his family hopes that he can settle down as soon as possible, if you really like it and don't want to let go, think clearly, go to redeem, even if the result is not ideal, at least you work hard, you will be sad, but you will not regret it, bravely catch up, at least just disappointed rather than despair. Come on!!!

First of all, you must be sure that you love him, or that you have loved him, and that you are also rational. I don't know what's going on with you, but in reality and ideals, a lot of times it's not balanced, and everybody is a human being, and no one is a saint, and a saint has joys and sorrows. Time is the best healing medicine, and if you feel unacceptable, then you can be advised to change places.

He's not your only one, your husband is only one, it's realistic, of course it's uncomfortable. It's normal. You've found your one, and that's it.

Scatter your mind and forget everything about him. All about him, you don't have to know. It'll get better slowly.

Is there no grass at the end of the world? Time can be all traumatic.

Friends have sympathy, he loves me very much, I love him very much, he is very good to me, especially love me, but because something happened today that has been very unpleasant, maybe I was wrong but I also have good intentions, he turned his head and walked away I went to pull him He ignored me, I was very sad, I said to his back that I don't need to contact him again, he didn't look back and left, because he I got off work early today, but he left I felt very uncomfortable, so I ran to the company to work overtime, I decided not to contact again, because he really broke my heart this time, I didn't want to give affection to anyone anymore so I decided to give up, and at the same time I decided that even if he came back and apologized to me, I wouldn't forgive him, I was hard enough now, I didn't want the same thing to happen to me a second time, so I wouldn't forgive him, maybe I would regret it, but I would go on anyway, he was a very nice boy. Maybe he can find a better one after I leave, and I hope he is happy, and his happiness is my greatest wish.

Engagement is not marriage, you go and ask him if he will forgive you, can he give you a chance Otherwise, you will not be at ease, after asking, you will die if you don't agree

If this stop is not happy, then the next stop will be happy, believe in yourself, since he is not dumped, go to your next stop, you know: do one or two wrong buses, you will never be able to return home. Go find your next stop.

While he is not married, chase him back, this is the dare to love and hate.

When some things are over, don't think about him anymore, if there is any problem, you can hi me.

Don't think about him anymore when it's over.

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We live in this complex, impetuous and materialistic society, and we will inevitably have such and such troubles and exhaustion, which may be life!! So we should think about it, how can we be happy if there are no troubles??? It's just that when you are worried, you must learn to self-regulate and learn to release your boredom and tired emotions!!

It is recommended that you go out for a trip and change to a new environment, which is easy to let yourself jump out of the original environment and circle, easy to release your mind, easy to open your mind, and naturally calm down when thinking about problems;

2. Find good friends to get together, drink and chat, and vent your depressed mood through alcohol, which is also a way of catharsis;

3. Find an exercise to do and persist for a period of time, so that your heart can temporarily forget everything, immerse yourself in sports, and divert your attention, so that it is easier for you to see your own situation more clearly and make correct judgments;

4. Of course, you can also find someone who no one shouts loudly, which may also release your mood;

Of course, everyone's situation is different, and I hope you can find a good adjustment method according to your own situation!!

Finally, I wish you a happy !!

It shows that your heart is still not strong enough and is easily influenced. The concentration is also insufficient. The goal is also not clear enough.

As someone who has come before, I don't think I'm going to get farther and farther away from my roommates. If you really go farther and farther, then it can only mean that you are not all the way. In that case, why do we have to get closer and closer?

First of all, do you have a clear goal? For example, taking relevant qualifications, or going to graduate school, or other academic goals, entrepreneurial goals, and so on.

Secondly, during the study time from Monday to Friday, please focus more time and energy on your goals. On weekends, you can go shopping with your roommates, no problem. A college roommate is just a roommate. After graduation, you can rarely get across.

Finally, stick to your dreams, there are many things you can do in college. Multi-bubble library to expand your knowledge. For example, an accounting student, in addition to obtaining an accounting certificate, can also take a teaching certificate.

In this way, you will have one more choice than others after graduation. Isn't it?

Everything you do is about preparing for what you will do when you leave the university campus. Don't be caught off guard after graduation, choose employment without a purpose, and then keep changing jobs.

Actually, it's quite normal. People will go through such a process, some people like to be comfortable and comfortable, get by, just enjoy the moment, and their conditions are not bad, so they will not have such a long idea. And the influence of your family education since childhood, and even the family environment and other factors and the pattern are a little farther away than those of your peers, so you naturally want to struggle more.

But no matter what you think, there will definitely be people who are different from you and are not on the same line as you. Calm down, think about what you want to do now and in the future, and don't waste too much time. Don't worry about losing them, they're just passers-by in your life, really.

If I really want to be friends with you, I will definitely understand you.

You're looking for roommates who share at least three of your views, who can understand your thoughts, who can comfort you, and who can set an example for you at certain times. You have to learn to be independent and strong. In fact, your circle of friends will also change with your changes.

Find out why you're uncomfortable. Don't think too much, concentrate on doing one thing well, how happy you are.

You may go through such a confused stage in college, do you want to be yourself seriously or get along with the classmates around you? My personal suggestion is to improve yourself, after all, four years of college is a rare period to study seriously, if you graduate from college in the future, there will be no such opportunities and resources. If you feel uncomfortable, go to the bubble library more often, and choose some books for psychological counseling to read, which is also very useful.

When you can become a better person among your classmates, the confidence and sense of accomplishment that comes with it will not make you feel uncomfortable.