What s wrong with me, I m so crying now, I want to cry when I m not happy at all, hide in the corner

Parents shouldn't ignore you, they must also love you, but you give them the feeling that you may have grown up and have your own thoughts, so they let go a little bit and didn't control you too strictly. You say that you don't have a good rest and a headache, you have to talk to your parents about these things, you have to say it as soon as possible, and then take you to check it as soon as possible, it's best not to make any mistakes, after all, it hurts in the head. You don't say they don't know at all.

You are in Dalian, you can meet new friends, even if you are an otaku, you can also find a better friend on the Internet to chat, but it is recommended that you go out for a walk, travel can also be, scatter, don't close yourself off, sometimes there are things you don't say, others still think you are very good, which is easy to misunderstand.

You are not yet 16 years old, then you will still grow taller, you have to exercise more, and you have to adjust your mood, so that you can have more appetite, you are growing your body now, if you don't even want to eat, then you will not only have to buy some inner pads, maybe you can only wear a small mask, my sister is not scaring you. You're in adolescence right now, and things like to get on the cusp.

You also say that you have a biological little brother, you should be happy, he is still young, his parents must often take him, you must be like this when you were a child, you must also need your parents by your side, but the matter of taking children will wait until you have children yourself in the future You will experience how hard and tiring it is to take a baby, because I have just become a mother, so I know that it is really difficult to bring children. You should be considerate of your parents, and help your parents bring your little brother when you have time, and don't eat your own little brother's vinegar.

Some things are really difficult to talk to your parents, your parents should be relatively young, then they should also be more reasonable, so you should tell them about your situation as soon as possible, and don't turn small things into big things.

Seeing your supplement just now, your mother's worries are justified, to put it bluntly, you are still underage and not so rich in social experience.

Are you still planning to go abroad? Do you think it's better to go abroad or stay at home?

You are still so young and your family is not short of money, you can choose a major you like to continue your studies, so that you can meet more friends and classmates. If you're locking someone in your own space, you're going to think a lot of things yourself. You have to find something to read or learn some technique to distract yourself, find something to do, keep yourself busy, so that you don't have time to think about other things.

To put it mildly, if you go on like this, you will be decadent at any time, you still have a long life, while you are young now, you should find something for yourself to do, don't let yourself be wasted. Maybe you don't lack money to spend, but you lack knowledge and experience, and it will be difficult for you to gain a foothold in society in the future. You should bring out your shining points, and your 16 years old should be the season of flowers, not the season of withering.

Honey, are you suffering from depression?

Don't be so autistic, you're still young, you shouldn't be so sensitive.

Try to communicate with Mom and Dad about something.

You have to believe that there are no parents in the world who do not love their children.

Even now that they have a younger brother, you are still the only daughter they love.

At the age of 16, it should not be lonely, it should be full of vitality and dreams.

Because life ahead will be wonderful.

Destiny is in your own hands. Be optimistic, cheerful, and happy.

Sometimes, mental depression can cause physical depression, headaches and the like.

Don't be alone in your room. Communicate more with the outside world, integrate into the new environment and life, and discover new friends and new spaces.

It is because of your heart imbalance, feeling aggrieved and lonely, so you should be more open-minded or go to see a psychologist.

Hehe, it's actually nothing that you always cry alone, don't care, if a person sneaks and always laughs, it's a little scary Tell you, in fact, everyone is a doctor, the difference between a good doctor and a bad doctor is: mood. If you want to open it, you won't get sick Not long ago, I heard that a casual and happy person blocked the disease of cancer.

So, just don't think too much

You should go to school, you have to go abroad until you can go out, you are too lonely at home, and it is easy to be autistic.

Sister, you go to see a psychiatrist, if you continue to be in this state, it will not be good for your growth and your life. Maybe you can find a confidant to solve problems for yourself, at this time your psychology is not mature, and there are many things that will become obstacles in your heart, bravely cross over. Adjust your mood and don't be autistic.

If it doesn't get worse like this, the result will be unimaginable, so go to a psychiatrist.

I'm confused, I'm going to be independent, it's good to be independent, I'm a brother, I've got more responsibilities, work hard.

I think you may feel that you have been neglected and can't get rid of it, so just vent it by crying. Crying can help you vent your emotions for a while, but your mentality still depends on you to adjust, doesn't it?

First of all, get out and about and find more friends. I think you're actually trying to adjust your current state, otherwise you wouldn't be posting here. That's great, but it's not enough.

Connect with your friends and go out and relax. You can also tell your parents about your recent discomfort, I'm sure they still love you very much, they just don't pay too much attention to you, and tell them if you feel it is necessary.

Adjust your mood and have a good plan. Have a regular schedule and plan your time!

Hysteria? It is best to go to the hospital for examination.

People like you are the most likely to have accidents.

I'm the same way, and I know it very well.

Later, I analyzed it myself, and most of the reasons for crying in these situations were pity for myself.

Here's my explanation:

In these cases, there is no reason to cry, we are not wrong, we are justified, and many times we even just have been wronged to clarify ourselves. Logically completely below others. But as soon as I arrived at that scene, I was-for-tat, and I choked up without saying a word, and I couldn't help crying.

Maybe you have also noticed that if someone next to you comforts you and helps you talk, you can't stop crying.

First of all, we need to get to know this kind of person well.

Such people tend to be more sensitive and think more. They are not good at blushing with people, and they usually like to be amiable, but they are by no means the kind of people who have been wronged and swallowed their anger and closed their eyes when they see crooked reasoning rampant.

At the same time, these people all have a certain degree of narcissism. In other words, I love myself too much. I can't bear to let myself be misunderstood by others, and I can't bear to let myself be attacked maliciously. Rush to clarify yourself, express yourself.

Also, such people often have a weaker mental capacity. Although I don't want to admit it, it's a fact. Even if you are justified and confident, in the white-hot scene, there will be a little bit of stage fright.

After all, the situation is tense, and as mentioned above, these people are not good at blushing with people (regardless of the other person, you have pushed yourself to a state where you are about to explode or have already exploded. ）

Sometimes, even if you have already thought of the lines, you can accumulate good explosiveness.

will collapse at that moment, feeling that you have no momentum and no dignity.

It would be much better if you argued with the other person at the moment of being wronged and angry. The kind that immediately cries as soon as you argue is usually that you have been thinking about it for a long time.

This is because, in that scene, in the face of someone who misunderstands you and is opposite you, those scenes are repeated. Those angry and aggrieved emotions all came up in one go.

You are subconscious. I am obviously right, I should not be wronged like this, I am obviously right, I should not be targeted like this. In the midst of justice, I am right, but I will still be attacked.

Thus bursting with sympathy for himself.

If someone speaks for you a little at this time, then the feeling of self-pity will skyrocket even more, and with the weak ability to bear it, you will be even more unable to stop crying.

I've thought a lot about the solution.

Now that you have figured out the reason for crying. The way to do this is to focus on the theory and forget about yourself in the middle of the argument. Forget your own justice, forget your innocence. At the same time, you have to hone yourself to be stronger: I am right, I don't need pity.

Sometimes I can't help crying, and I really regret that I can't say it. It's really not good, even if you're crying, you have to say what you think. In theory, never lose.

It is normal to cry when you are excited, which means that you are emotional, usually give more, often think about others, rarely think about yourself, and are easily moved by some things. I hope you will do what you can in the future, don't get tired, don't stay up late, and ensure the quality of sleep. In the diet, use some lily, poria, lotus seeds, etc. to make porridge.

Crying when you are excited It should be your true feelings Although you don't want to cry, but the tears still flow out A more emotional person You should learn to control your emotions and try to make yourself less excited.

There are many such people in life, they want to cry when they are excited, whether it is watching TV or reading books, or some things in life, they don't want to cry, but they just can't control their tears, this kind of character is born, there are years and sizes, they will be like this, I don't think there is any good way, only to control their emotions.

This is the somatization of emotions, and the characteristics of hysteria, which is the physical manifestation of emotions, in another way, is a self-defense mechanism, a means of protecting oneself from harm.

Note: Psychoanalysis is a bridge between normal people and symptomatic patients, so many views and practices are abnormal and incomprehensible to many normal people, but according to this line of thinking** is effective.

In the first paragraph, my point may need to be carefully thought out and understood later. Once understood, it will be curative.

This may be a habit to develop, or it may really reach the point of being sad and crying, so if you don't want to cry, just hold back your tears!

People live to experience joys and sorrows, birth, old age, sickness and death, in order to realize their own ideals, pursuits, goals, desires and values.

It's tiring, it's hard.

Because society is very unfair, it is very helpless to live.

If you are sad and sad, you have to cry, and if you find something to do, you will not be bored.

Because that's how life is.

No one's life is smooth sailing.

As long as you work hard, it's wonderful!

Be optimistic about anything.

Keep a normal heart.

Life is inevitably about falling and waiting.

Be brave enough to look up.

The sun is always after the storm!

I'll give you advice, can you see it?

1.Look at the world with another eye, not everyone in this world is very smooth, just look at how you solve it, for example, you were hit by someone when you were walking, others apologized to you, sometimes you still feel very angry, but you didn't expect that the person who hit you was actually more uncomfortable than you, or think about the sentence "Happy is also a day, unhappy is also a day, why not be happy every day".

2.If you think that you are in a bad mood, you will be in a bad mood, then you don't need to think about it, if you still want to, then keep yourself busy, let yourself have no time to think about it, let yourself live every minute to the fullest, and then don't fall in love with the bed after waking up in the morning, get up when you wake up, get busy, open the window, breathe in the fresh morning air, relax your whole body, and let yourself imagine a happy little angel ......

3.Choose a place with fresh air, quiet surroundings, soft light, undisturbed and free movement, and take a position that you feel comfortable in, standing, sitting or lying down.

4.Move some large joints and muscles of the body, the speed should be even and slow when doing it, and the action does not need to have a certain format, as long as you feel the joints let go and the muscles relax.

5.Take a deep breath, inhale slowly and exhale slowly, saying "relax" in your mind whenever you exhale.

6.Focus your attention on some everyday objects. For example, look at a flower, a little candlelight, or anything soft and beautiful, and look closely at its subtleties. Light some spices and inhale the aroma of it.

7.Close your eyes and try to imagine some tranquil and beautiful scenes, such as blue waters, golden sandy beaches, white clouds, mountains and water.

8.Do activities that you enjoy that have nothing to do with the specific things at hand. For example, swimming, taking a hot bath, shopping, listening, watching TV, etc.

9.Life is easy, life is easy, life is not easy. Don't worry, there are a lot of people in this society who are almost like you, but they are all living happily, not everyone can succeed, as long as you work hard to treat everything, take life seriously, as long as you take every day seriously, no matter how your life is, I believe it is wonderful.