Relationship problems that reconcile after a breakup are urgent

Updated on society 2024-02-20
39 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Alas, I didn't know how to cherish it in the first place!

    But my boyfriend is very accommodating with me!

    I love him so much now! But not so long ago because of some very hands! What a pity!

    I'm still trying to get it back!

    Maybe he'll learn how to cherish you soon! I love you deeply!

    At least I am!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Love is not to hurt each other, but to give each other happiness. Don't let your behavior become a habit, it's dangerous, it will hurt each other, and in the end, you will end up with nothing.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Why do you want to think so much. If you like him, be nice to him. He will naturally be nice to you.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Don't do this to her Since you like her, don't hurt her

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Keep loving and don't hide anything! Ask directly.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Why hurt like this, stop.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I think it's really bad that while it can be done. Because after a breakup, you start a new relationship immediately after a short period of time, and you will not be serious about such a relationship at all. After most people break up, they will more or less stay in their previous relationship, and sometimes they will remember their previous experiences.

    Therefore, starting a new relationship immediately after a breakup is irresponsible for the current person, because you will sometimes stay in the previous relationship, and the best way is to completely get through the previous relationship and then start a new relationship. Many people want to start a new relationship right away and forget about the past, which is an irresponsible behavior. Many people fall out of love, but you can't use the next relationship to forget the previous one.

    I'd like to share my thoughts on whether it's a good thing to start a new relationship immediately after a breakup.

    First, you can't fully devote yourself to the new relationship.

    Many people can't enter a new state immediately after a breakup, they will have a little idea about the previous relationship, and it is likely that they will think about the previous experience at night or when no one is around, so if you find a new relationship at this time, then you can't fully devote yourself, and you may still think about the previous things, so I feel bad about this.

    Second, it is irresponsible to the current object.

    Although many people will start a new relationship immediately after the breakup and get along with the current partner, I personally think that this is also irresponsible to the current partner, and the other party will more or less mind, and may think that you are using yourself to forget the previous relationship, so this is irresponsible to the other party.

    3. You may feel some unhappiness yourself.

    If you can't forget your previous relationship and start a new relationship, then you will be a little unhappy, and when you get along with your current one, you will think more or less about your ex, so I feel that this is also an unhappy behavior for me.

    You should try to calm yourself down after a breakup before you start looking for a new relationship.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    This is still better, because it allows you to forget about your last relationship as soon as possible, and it also has a lot of benefits for yourself.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    This is not good, because such behavior is very irresponsible for the next president, and it is also very offensive.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    This is not good at all, and you will also be perceived by others as a more attentive person, and you are also irresponsible for your feelings.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    To get back together, you need to do these 3 steps!

    The first step is to know how to let go of the past. In the question of how to get along after breaking up and getting back together, what we have to understand is that after getting back together, there will be mixed with past emotional problems, and even some people will leave a shadow, always uncontrollable and suspicious, so that not only do you get tired, but also make the other party very tired, since you choose to get back together, then you must know how to let go of the past, no matter what the reason for the breakup is, and talk about the showdown with the other party, tell yourself and the other party, everything starts all over again.

    The second step is to find the problem and change yourself. Breaking up should be a baptism of opinion, if you get back together, neither party has changed, then you will easily get along again because of the same problem in the future, how to get along after the breakup, first of all, we must learn to find the problems of both parties, make changes after communication, if you want to change others, you first need to change yourself, when you see your changes, the other party will also begin to reflect on yourself, so that the common change and common progress can make the relationship between the two people better and better.

    The third time, maintain a normal posture. No matter which party takes the initiative to redeem or asks to get back together, after the reunion, we must maintain a normal posture to get along, don't always be entangled in which party takes the initiative, the party who takes the initiative to redeem can't lower their posture because of fear of losing, loving too humbly will make the relationship unequal, and the redeemed party can't be too arrogant, once the balance of love.

    tilted, the relationship also becomes precarious, because love is equal and reciprocal rather than giving and being given.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    The two are still very sad after breaking up and reconciling, this is because you think that this kind of thing should not happen, you should have lived well, why did you part ways for a trivial matter? I didn't reconcile until I regretted it, but you still have some shadows psychologically, so you're still a little sad. It is recommended to cherish this lost and regained relationship more, the two of them are more tolerant, trusting and considerate, continue to live happily for the two of them, have children in the future, and send off the elderly for both parents, and strive to shoulder their own responsibilities, so that the family is harmonious and the cause is developed, and everyone is safe, healthy, happy and happy!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    This is because after two people have gone through a breakup, there is always a gap in their hearts, and it has not really been unraveled, so they will feel sad, in this case, you can try to communicate with each other, or you can enlighten yourself, so that you will get out of the previous kind of strange circle.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Maybe you don't really love each other in your heart, so even if you reconcile, you are not so happy in your heart, and two people have quarreled and broken up before, there must be a gap, just after reconciling, there will be a little sadness in your heart.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    After breaking up and reconciling, I am still sad in my heart, because the rift in my heart has been generated, and the two parties have already had some differences and contradictions, which can easily lead to some things happening later.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    may be because they don't get along well together, why should the feelings that can't be run in be entangled and continue to waste each other. First of all, the reason for reconciliation is that you like it? Or will it be settled?

    Still unwilling? What is the difference between after reconciliation and before? If this relationship is destined to not go long, why should it be reconciled.

    The reason for being unhappy may be that nothing has changed before and after the breakup, and that you feel that you can't continue for long or whatever.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Although you are reconciled now, when you broke up, you hurt each other, and you will say some hurtful things to each other. At this time, there was already a gap in my heart.

    After something happens, it will always remain in the memory. So even if we reconcile now, it will not be the same as before.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    I think that after experiencing a setback in the relationship, it should cause a certain amount of damage to my emotions and a certain amount of distrust to the current person, so I will feel very sad in my heart.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    It may be that you are still sad about the last breakup, thinking that the feelings of both parties have been tested again, there are still some flaws in the relationship between the two parties, and the relationship between the two parties is not as natural as before after reconciliation, so you will feel a little sad about happiness, and I believe that over time, this feeling will slowly disappear.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Reconciling after a breakup or being sad shows that you haven't let go of a lot of things, and you're still thinking about some things from the past, which means that the fundamental problems between you have not been solved well, and you still need to endure and manage your love together. Two people are together, give way when it's time to give in. If you can give way in case of trouble, many problems will be solved, and it will cause damage to the feelings between two people.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    It is difficult to break the mirror, and sometimes there are obstacles in the heart after reconciliation, and getting along is not as natural as before, and if there is a little turmoil, there will be no sense of security, and it is difficult to maintain such a relationship for a long time.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Because after all, you may have suffered hurt and pain, then you may still feel that something is wrong in your heart, because you broke up, there must be a reason, and that reason may have been there all the time, and it has not been resolved, so you are still a little sad in your heart, but if you are reconciled, this can only be a temporary reconciliation, and there may be related quarrels and breakups in the future, so you will definitely feel more uncomfortable in your heart.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    After breaking up and reconciling, I was still very sad. This is because the two have broken up after all. There has been a small scratch on the emotional side. Actually, both of them are trying their best to cover it up, but this is very right, and it will be revealed inadvertently.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    In a word, it is called a broken mirror reunion. reconciled after the breakup, but the cracks of the previous breakup are still there, so I still feel sad that there is still a gap in my heart.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    You still have love in your heart It's just that you treat love as a burden Repeatedly haggard in your heart Caused your misinterpretation of love You haven't changed your mind If you change your mind You won't be sad Reconcile and get bored It can only mean that you have been in a bad mood recently Or that you have a problem with the way you communicate with the other party Don't use an impatient mood to understand everything The best way to vent your discomfort is to go to sports, play basketball happily or go to square dance with the old man and old lady, and participate in group activities will make you happy quickly.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    It may be that you understand in your heart that this reunion is not a real reunion, when the real reunion, you will have the feeling of being reunited, and you will be very happy, you will think that it is a regret to be made up When you are still very sad in your heart, it means that the two of you have not crossed this hurdle.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Generally speaking, after the breakup, the two people reconciled, the relationship should be very good, if there is reconciliation after the breakup, but the heart is still very uncomfortable, which shows that you and the other party actually have no feelings at all, just think of the previous things to reconcile like this, so you have to think about it, you should make it clear to the other party, it is also a relief.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    After breaking up and reconciling, I still feel very uncomfortable, that is, I feel that I have been wronged, I thought I was a treasure in the hands of the other party, but I didn't expect to be abandoned like a mustard, so I also felt very uncomfortable when I broke up and reconciled, but after a long time, I will slowly forget the previous unhappiness.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Maybe it's because you've just broken up, and you're a little unaccustomed to how to get along with each other, and after you reconcile, you will feel a little twisted, or you feel that he once really wanted to leave you, so you will still be sad.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Because your relationship has been broken, just like a piece of paper that is crumpled and can't be restored to its original state, the scar of your relationship has always existed, and you have always had that pimple in your heart, so you will always feel awkward and sad.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Because even if you are reunited, there will be cracks, and maybe the pain caused by the breakup has not completely disappeared because of reconciliation, so you will feel sad when you have doubts about each other's love in your heart.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    After breaking up and reconciling, I still feel very sad, maybe it's because of the shadow caused by the loss. I've found it, but I'm still scared. So it's understandable to have this kind of thought, and it will get better slowly.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    After the breakup and reconciliation, the reason why I am still sad is because the breakup has caused emotional rifts, and the psychological knot has not been opened for the time being, and the heart is not able to get over.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    If you are still very sad after the breakup and reconciliation, then I think there is still a problem in your heart about the fact that you should break up, or you still have not completely eliminated some thoughts in your heart, so the words are actually reconciled, and your heart is not really happy, and it is still sad.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    The pain caused by the breakup will not be reduced by reconciliation, because the conflict between you has not been eliminated, so your heart is still very uncomfortable, you need a period of time to recover, to forget about it, but there is already a crack in your heart.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Even if you reconcile after a breakup, you will feel uncomfortable, which is normal. Because two people have a certain emotional foundation, after breaking up, it will cause a deep emotional rift. Even if it is reunited later, it will be difficult for this rift to recover from its original state.

    So whenever I think about breaking up, I feel very sad in my heart.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    If you are still uncomfortable after a breakup, it means that you don't like each other very much, and you are not as happy with each other as you imagined, and his position in your heart is not very important. In the end, it will be separated.

  38. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    After the breakup, I am still sad to reconcile, and that is because the fundamental problem between you has not been resolved. When you encounter a conflict, don't think about escaping, calm down and communicate to solve it, otherwise even if you get along, you will still break up if you encounter the same problem in the future.

  39. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    After breaking up, it will still be uncomfortable, because you will feel that you should not be separated, before separation, someone must have had a problem, although now reconciled, but the problem at that time was not solved, you still remember it in your heart.

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