What should I do if my girlfriend scolds my parents?

Updated on psychology 2024-02-28
23 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    You should be sincere in their apologies and give them some gifts.

    First of all, when repairing specifically, it is necessary to make the other party feel more loved, pay more attention to the other person, care about his care, interests, values, existing situation, etc. And respect the person himself, accept the differences between the other party and yourself, and try to find and appreciate the shining point of the other person. And express these to the other party through "sweet words", pass them on to the other party, and let the other party feel that we care about him.

    Second, show weakness in front of the other party, let the other party feel his role and value, and we care a lot about his value. To put it bluntly, it means to speak our true words. Express what we really feel inside.

    For example, when I heard you tell my mother like that, my mother was a little sad; Hearing you and your mother say a few more words, your mother feels very happy, etc., be sure to start with "I". And remember to only express feelings and not expectations, so as not to cause pressure on the other person.

    Third, there must be rules. Rules can be easily enforced, standards can be lowered, but they can never be absent. Otherwise, our efforts to the other party are easy to be alienated into stammering or flattering, on the one hand, it encourages the other party's improper practices, and at the same time makes us feel more aggrieved, which ultimately leads to repeated behaviors in repairing the relationship.

    Fourth, the accumulation of time. Freezing three feet is not a day's cold, and resolving three feet of ice is not a day's heat. The rigidity of a relationship does not happen overnight, and repair will not be immediate.

    It must be a process of continuous accumulation, quantitative change to qualitative change. In this process, the strong love and affection for each other is the biggest motivation for us to persevere.

    In this process, we continue to see what we have done, and constantly pay attention to the little changes in the relationship, including the relationship does not continue to deteriorate, etc., is where the hope and strength of our persistence lies.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    First of all, you have to make it clear that she scolds your mother, whether the content of the scolding is true, if not, educate her well, if it is true, talk to her calmly, and ask her to endure more in the future, after all, you only have one mother, and at the same time, you must also talk to your mother well, so that she can change it. If it really doesn't work, break up, after all, she is not the only woman now.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It's your fault to beat her, but I don't like the girl who scolds her parents, if you love you, you should love your family, your parents are always elders, and even if you don't like it, you can't scold it.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Intolerable! Be sure to apologize.

    She couldn't realize that this was not good, and it would become the norm in the future.

    Thankfully, you're not married.

    Scolding parents is a reflection of being uneducated!

    When you get married, do you want your children to be full of swear words and disrespect for their elders?

    Remember, you can't be connived!

    Even if it's a breakup.

    You can't change her, you will be changed by her.

    Have a great day!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Don't be rash, it's okay to make a mistake once or twice, as long as you can change it, give her a chance, it's only 3, it's really the 3rd time, I suggest you divide it, go coax her now, and go on.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    My thought is that you might as well break up with her! There's nothing to be reluctant to, it's useless for her to be kind to the old man and be good to you.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I think parents should come first in love, at least most people think so. No matter how much you quarrel, it's an elder after all, right?! It makes sense! But your girlfriend scolds your parents at every turn, as a man, you have a bit of backbone, okay?

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    She doesn't love you enough, if she loves you enough, she will love your family as her family, and a joke will scold her family, which can only show that your girlfriend is too.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Have a good talk with her and tell her, you can't scold your parents, you can't slap your face!

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    You should break up with her, and if she loves you, she will love everything about you, including your parents.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    You'd better split up with her.

    It's all like this now, what has become of it after getting married?

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    My aim is that I will never find a girlfriend who is not good to my parents!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Cherish the present, don't be angry with beautiful girls, and kneel down to her.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Forgive your girlfriend and don't be insulting and rude.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Forgive your girlfriend, she is as beautiful as a flower, and she didn't mean to scold people.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Break up directly, there is nothing to say.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    You're going to scold his mom too!! It's better to be in front of him.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Let's see why you scolded your parents first (of course, scolding is definitely wrong). Not all elders are worthy of respect, there is a kind of person who wants to trample on others everywhere, bullies people everywhere, there is nothing wrong with fighting back against this kind of person, such a family will not choose you without you choosing a girl. On the contrary, there is no problem with the character of the parents, it is the quality of the girl herself, and now it will be repaid in the future, and you will suffer hardship.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Your girlfriend insults your parents and is domineering, you still can't have such a woman.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    If your girlfriend is abusive to your parents and is domineering and unrepentant. I think you should break up with her as soon as possible, seeing that such a woman is a tigress, and you will be guilty of marrying him. Hope you can.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Summary. Your girlfriend must be very sad to be scolded by her mother, and you need to give him some strength at this time. You can reply:

    Baby, with me here, I will always support you, no matter what happens, I love you unconditionally. I can always make your trash can if you want. Accept your negative emotions and help you regain your sunshine.

    Your girlfriend must be very sad to be scolded by her mother, and you need to give him some strength at this time. You can reply: Baby, with me here, I will always support you, no matter what happens, I love you unconditionally.

    I can always make your trash can if you want. Accept your negative emotions and help you regain your sunshine.

    If you want to talk to me, I will be here with you at any time.

    Does girlfriend often quarrel with mom?

    Right. Have you ever wondered how you can help him? How can we ease the relationship between the two of them?

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Two people are very impulsive when they quarrel, at this time, people's IQ is basically zero, and after some words are said, he may regret it immediately, so after the quarrel, see if the other party has any remorse, and the two people should promise not to involve the parents of both parties when they quarrel in the future.

    The second point is to see what kind of tone the other party scolds their parents, whether they really scold each other's parents by name, or those scolding words that we can usually hear, may just be scolded by mouth, not in the real sense.

    Girlfriend: Due to the development of free love, the concept of girlfriend in people's minds has also developed from a single girl friend to a synonym for the object before becoming a wife. What people understand about "girlfriend":

    She's a girl who has a relationship with you", now that people are open, there is also a relationship of friendship between men and women, people call it a female friend, and the difference is different emotions.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Forgive your girlfriend, really don't be spicy.

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