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Child, now you are more and more negative, afraid of school, attached to home, just like I was at that time.

I used to be like this: in the first and second years of junior high school, because of my high understanding, I didn't feel very hard to study. In the third year of junior high school, the pressure of the high school entrance examination, the high expectations of family and relatives, the pressure of friends, and the gradually increasing difficulty and burden of learning made me, a person who did not have a solid foundation, experience the feeling of plummeting in the first monthly examination of the third year of junior high school.

That kind of mood is anxious but powerless. I feel that **are all walls, and ** have hurdles that cannot be broken through. But on the surface, you still have to pretend that you don't care.

How to change?? The only way to do this is to face reality. These problems can only be solved if you make up your mind and work on them.

The problems in front of you now are actually caused by a poor foundation, and the more you avoid them, the more serious they will become. When you make up your mind, regain this knowledge, and persevere, you can truly come out of the predicament.

Of course, don't worry too much about the high school entrance examination!! The high school entrance examination is just a small test, and so is the college entrance examination, and for people, what they really learn is the most important thing.

Give yourself confidence and work hard now, it is not practical to try to pick up all the knowledge in the remaining time, as long as you work hard and have a clear conscience.

Everyone will be confused for a while, the best way in this situation is to see your own thoughts, what you really want to do, what is your task now, your current profession is a student, what should a student do? Don't just work hard and do your part, don't let your family, friends and teachers down. Not only high school but also junior high school, the first two years can be passed more casually, but in the third year, it is best not to, because it is about to face a turning point in life.

The more negative you are, the more you will continue to fall into the abyss. I hope you see all this as soon as possible, and don't let the confusion in your life keep making you fall. What is called a friend, it is not that some small things will break off your friendship and make friends with you.

This kind of person is not a friend, but a bad friend. Why would such a person contact her? It's good if he doesn't exist.

Missing one of these "friends" in your life will only benefit you.

People, when you are confused, it is not that you are regressing, but that you want to surpass your current self, just as ice begins to melt when it is at its coldest, and so is it. You're just a junior high school student, and you're going to have a lot more to worry about in high school, and you're probably thinking about it more. I like your sentence in "Ordinary World" very much, no matter when, you must love life, stand on the wheel of the carriage of life, tense the muscles and nerves of the whole body, go all out, and move forward.

There are several reasons for your confusion now, first of all, do you have a clear goal, have you thought about which middle school or even which university you want to go to? Secondly, have you analyzed your current learning situation? Do you know your strengths and weaknesses, and most importantly, are you in control?

I also came from your age, I think that if you have a goal, have confidence, and can control yourself, you will inevitably move forward, so why go back and care about how other people change. Hopefully you will get out of your current situation as soon as possible. When you're feeling more discouraged, you can try this method of mine:

Stand upright, stand on your heels while taking a deep breath and head up, and tell yourself in your heart that you are the best. Then you will feel more powerful than ever.

School is not so scary, it's just that you think about too many problems, the most important thing for you now is not to think so much, concentrate on studying, as long as you review carefully and meet the high school entrance examination well, all the problems you say you think about now will not be a problem, the more you think about these, the more you can't learn well, and your pressure will get bigger and bigger. When you are stressed, you can listen to some English songs, so that you can improve your English, you can also relax, you can also listen to ** before going to bed, take a bath or something, be sure to have hot water, you can relax yourself, relax yourself, you won't think so much, in fact, everything is not so difficult, look at your description, I think you must be a very smart person. I'm sure you'll be the same optimist as you used to be, keep everything simple, and everything will be fine.

As for your friend, you can sit down and have a good chat when you have time, but there is nothing to associate with the person who says bad things about you behind your back. But remember, you must have friends, because they can help you a lot, you can study together, share the sadness or happiness in your heart together, you can also find someone to confide in your confusion, and it will be much better to have someone to share. Come on, I believe in you

You're only in junior high school now, there are countless possibilities, don't be so negative, I'm a senior now, I feel like I haven't learned anything, I'm very distressed, if I can go back to junior high school, I'll study happily, have fun, and not be lazy. Your perseverance is more important than anything else, first make up your mind to do something, and then do it seriously. When you feel like it's too late, it's the earliest time, now work hard and overcome your inertia!

Hehe, don't go online now, go study

It is recommended that you travel more...

If you can't persevere, you will slap yourself.

Persistence will succeed! Believe in yourself and surpass yourself!

We should learn to find fun in learning, and only when we find it, will we discover the vastness of the sea of books.

Study hard and make progress every day.

Study hard and put your worries aside.

Make friends! In this case, you can't communicate with your parents casually. The best thing is to make friends, and classmates are your most reliable partners.

Of course, you need to be cautious in making friends, not hastily, otherwise it will be bad for you to make a mistake. The relationship is okay, and it's good to be able to take care of a little bit of study and life. Talking to friends about things on your mind and learning can alleviate your psychological distress.

In fact, from now on, you may be in the mind of a lover, and how to adapt is what you have to learn. After all, it's the third year of junior high school, and there is pressure to go to school, don't be affected by this mood, study first. I hope you can become full from your studies, and I hope you can be strong, in fact, you can go back when you are homesick.

Don't talk about feelings, just talk about life. For example, the recent study situation, ask your parents about their physical and family conditions, or even say that you are homesick, these can be. It's just that you can't be affected by this emotion in your own heart, and that's not good.

It's okay! It is recommended to live on campus! Understand you!

Communicate with your parents Also, you said that your home is far away from the school, and living in the school is also a helpless thing, and parents also want their children to be around, go home and communicate with your parents more, study hard, care more, be considerate, love your parents, and explain to your parents what you need Don't ask too much I believe that the relationship between your parents and children will be happy.

Lovers can understand But you have to look forward Many things have to be brave because they can't be with you every day You have to be strong and brave Although this is difficult to understand But this is what you have to face in the future This is the reality If you are sad Tell you about it Miss them and give them a ** Talk Don't think too much Study hard.

Between women and women is the legend of Zhen Huan. It's unlikely that there will be a real friendship. said that girlfriends are actually envious, jealous and hateful sometimes.

You're only in your third year of junior high school, so it's the right way to focus on learning. Without a good education, it will be difficult to move an inch. Falling in love should be during college, and it is safest to consider it after graduating with a stable job.

Hello, just chase it, no regrets.

If you like it, chase it!

There is nothing, do what you think.

Confess, no matter whether you succeed or not, at least say what you think, otherwise you will regret it later, maybe she likes you too.

Be a person against "bai yourself".

du's own.

Cultivate rebellion against your own ideas. dao

I miss the home version, and I want to go back right. Another self: No, the more you want to go back, the more I won't let you go back.

Mom and Dad can do it for me, but I won't do it. Another self: I can't do it myself, why should others help me.

I can't, I'm afraid. Another man himself: There is nothing in this world that scares me except death.

It's fun to fight with yourself! Practice every day until it becomes a habit, and in the process of struggle, you will find that you are getting stronger and stronger.

Find an idol of your ideal, learn from him, and imitate him.

The change is not done in an instant, you have to leave home slowly, slowly become independent, and slowly exercise your courage

Self-reliance, family love, dependence, and timidity all indicate that you always want to rely on others, build self-confidence, communicate with others, and help others.

The most important thing for you now is to take the first step, when you encounter what you are most afraid of, you will say to yourself that you will be able to do it, you don't think about anything and take the first step like this, don't shrink when you encounter setbacks and embarrassments, when you take the first step, and then tell yourself that you will be able to take the second step again.

You should think about the pain these weaknesses cause you! Draw a lesson from a bitter experience! Tell yourself I'm going to change! Think of the best and the worst in everything! Watch more inspirational movies! Listen to more inspirational songs! Get in touch with some positive energy.

Make more friends and communicate with others. Don't be afraid. Get out and talk to outsiders. There are still a lot of good people in the world.

Look for someone who can give you a sense of security and that you can rely on.

Watch horror stories to train your courage.

Take a walk around the mass grave at night (not recommended).

Always remember that you've grown up! Face something more on your own!

Traveling is a great way to get out and see the world.

Try to practice the bad section, but this character will be very likable, find a husband who can protect you. It's best to use it.

Keep yourself busy and fill yourself!

Go confess, show your man's courage to come out, if you refuse you, you kiss her, resist it, continue to study hard, and fight the world.

Give up, because you are still young, your main energy is to study, and when you grow up, you will fall in love.

Let's go. It's better to do it now than to regret it later. Be careful, don't be found by the teacher, and confess to the parents according to the actual situation.

If you want to confess, you can do it, stuffing it in your heart will only disrupt the rhythm of your life, in fact, many things in this world are very simple, just muster up courage.

Study hard When you go to high school, you will like other people.

It's good to pursue her, and now this society is more open-minded.

The third year of junior high school is about to go to high school, guy, work hard to study and struggle, because if you don't work hard, even if you have an inexplicable relationship, it's useless, the mother-in-law will not agree, girls may be very demanding in the future, besides, the girls you see in junior high school are one thing, and when you get to high school, college, and society are another, your vision will also change, young man, struggle!

Three hundred and sixty lines, the line is the champion. Learning a skill, will be more helpful for future job hunting, you can have more choices, now learn pastry, coffee, bartending these industry prospects are very good.

You can learn about cakes, bread, and the like.

This aspect is still very suitable for girls to study.

Girls will not be eliminated in their studies, and their development is good, and their skills are more popular in industries, with more employment opportunities and good salaries.

I can start my own business in the future, so I suggest you can consider it!

It is very good for girls to study automobile-related majors, they can learn auto business, and girls have good employment prospects for auto business, and they are still very popular and easy to find a job.

Insist on studying, you are still young, it is very difficult to find a job without a degree, now college students are a bunch of piles, not to mention that you don't even have a junior Chinese certificate, I can't study well, but I never gave up, and now I am also admitted to university. Stick to it no matter what, it will be little by little, at least not regretted it later.

Communicate more with classmates and friends in school, don't be addicted to the Internet, and calm down to do something you like. Everyone has a psychology of boredom with learning, depending on how you deal with it!

If you don't study well, copying shouldn't be a reason not to want to go to school. It may be that your parents and teachers are too demanding of you, this.

You can communicate with him, and if your parents can't do it, you can find a teacher and chat privately. I am a junior high school teacher, and from my point of view, for students like you, the general learning requirements are not too high, and it is a basic requirement to graduate. After all, now that you are out of school, compared with your peers, you have lost your normal pace of learning (life), and your neighbors know that you are not going to school, and they don't know what they will say about you?

Therefore, it should not be a problem for you to mix up the third year of junior high school. Be brave. If you can endure the hardships of the third year of junior high school, you will definitely be able to face greater difficulties when you enter the society in the future, believe me.

Bless you.