How do I choose between this emotion?

In fact, it is useless for others to say anything.

The best way is to follow your heart, want to be with her, be with her, laugh with her, cry with her, be happy together, and suffer together, so that it won't take much time for you to get tired of it, you will be numb, and then you won't worry about whether you can let go of her or let go of this relationship. Doing so may take a long time, but it will reduce your pain.

The second is that you force yourself to leave her, smoke every day until you are nauseous and dizzy, often get drunk, and in the end you still find that you can't forget her, you still hurt, and you still miss her. After tossing around, you may still come back to her and continue the current confusion, even so, you will still go to the first method, so why not just use the first one? Let it take its course and fade slowly.

This will minimize the damage to both of you.

Trust me, there's nothing wrong with that.

Man! Your pain is something that fucking men will understand! I am sad!

It's true. I'm sad that you've been through this and are ready to continue! You and her are fruitless, brother!

Even if you are strong together, it is a permanent scar, and you will not feel happy. Because the marriage after falling in love is not the same, there are firewood, rice, oil and salt, human affection, etc., or there are discordant quarrels. Judging from your situation with her, you have given her a chance before, I don't know what the reason is that she has no determination to be with you, in short, maybe she loves you but doesn't know how to live with you in the future, she may not love him but knows how she will live with him.

This kind of choice, I don't think she will choose you in the end. Your love for her can give everything, can she? Also, how can you live together after you have given everything, can she endure a hard life?

Love and marriage can't be designed for everyone, forget it, men have other things to do, don't force it, but seize the opportunity, you did your best when the opportunity came. It's not your fault that you can't get it, you can only blame the birth and the environment. When you are old, when you reminisce, I hope it will be a sweet nostalgia, and you will feel that you are stupid now.

But I say that you are not stupid now, but the experience of our young people. Let's treat it as an experience, and give up this relationship and bury it, okay?

When a person doesn't love you and wants to leave you, you have to ask yourself if you still love him, and if you don't love him anymore, don't refuse to leave for the sake of poor self-esteem;

If you still love him, you should want him to live happily, hope that he is with the person he really loves, and will never stop him, if you prevent him from getting real happiness, it means that you don't love him anymore, and if you don't love him, what right do you have to accuse him of changing his mind?

Love is not possession, you like the moon, it is impossible to take the moon down and put it in the basin, but the light of the moon can still shine into your room.

In other words, if you love someone, you can also have it in another way, so that the lover becomes an eternal memory in your life, and if you really love someone, you have to love him as he is—love his good and love his bad

Love his strengths and his shortcomings, and never want him to become what he wants because he loves him, and if he can't change, he won't love him.

You can't tell the reason for really loving someone, you just know that no matter when and where, good or bad, you want this person to be with you;

The real relationship is that the two can stay together in the most difficult situation, that is, without the slightest requirement.

After all, feelings must be given, not just wanted to be gained;

Separation is an inevitable test, and if your relationship is not stable enough and you have to admit defeat, true love will not turn into resentment.

How can I tell you! I've really seen a lot of your problems, and I think the reason why she's with him is because of family relationships, and so on, things that you don't know yet, and these things force her not to be with you, what do you say? I think she still loves you, and if you really want to be with him, you can give him a little space and don't always hit him, so that he will be in a bad mood.

Have your own space, tell him to calm down and think slowly, don't force everything, even if you can really be together! Do you think you'll be happy? Like you, I have an unforgettable love, but that's all in the past.

I just want to tell you, don't be reluctant in everything, otherwise the consequences will not be as happy as we all imagined, I am like this, let go of your feelings, so that you will feel that everything is so natural! Don't be bound by feelings, in a word, you can be together, it's really not okay, let go of your mood, because you still have a lot of things waiting for you to do! Don't waste your time and youth, how precious those things are!

Actually, I think she said that you are the love of her life, and she just said it herself.

I don't think she really loves you.

If it's someone I really love.

He will not be faced with such a dilemma.

I know that you will be miserable and unwilling to give you an answer.

Is this what she calls love?

She makes people feel chilled like this.

I don't think it's love.

It's just an exclusivity in my heart.

I don't want you to leave like this.

Didn't believe you would leave her.

Maybe she's too aware of your love for her.

Use your love to keep your people.

I know you can't be completely disappointed in her.

I know you can't live without her.

So she had no scruples and didn't think about what it would be like to leave another him.

Didn't even think about your later life together.

It's really chilling.

At least that's not how I understand it.

If you love someone.

Even if you can't be together.

I still wish he was better than me.

Even if it's to make him misunderstand who I am.

Even if it's to make him feel like I don't love him.

As long as I think it's good for him.

I'll do it.

So I think she loves herself more than you.

Think about what you can live with.

What you want to live with.

Don't be afflicted by momentary confusion.

No one has to give to whom.

I think you should try not to let this relationship start, she told you that it is impossible for you to be her friend beyond friends, it is impossible for a man and a woman to be friends, and besides, she has a boyfriend, and besides, you just like her now and have not developed into love, it is still too late, look around you Maybe there are girls who are more suitable for you than her waiting for you, good luck!!

—！There are so many written in each of the fronts...

If she wanted to be with you, she would have left that person a long time ago, which shows that she can't let go and still has love for that person. For such a hopeless love, why waste time. However, since you will come here to ask, it can be seen that you love her very much and do not want to break up at all.

You just want us to strengthen your resolve. Then ......Leave her!

Dragging on like this will never solve things!

She has two choices, one is with you and the other is with him. For the sake of everyone, you should ask her to make a decision, and if she can't, that is, she hasn't thought about separating from him. So what else is there to say, aren't you torturing yourself with her?

So friends, think clearly!

A woman wants two husbands? Do you think it's possible.

Actually, I can't figure out which man has what's good.

Attracted her, is it rich?

Doesn't the woman love you anymore?

If I love you, why don't I follow you? The most hateful is cohabitation with men.

To be honest, if it had been me, I would have broken down and broken up with my girlfriend a long time ago.

But I feel great about your way of doing this, and being able to endure it shows that you love you very much.

The guy who makes me feel good about your determination is either with you or with him To be honest, I insist on your determination if he really doesn't know what to choose.

That means that he still can't do without a man.

Then such a woman is not worthy of the love of such an infatuated man as you,I have the right to you.

If he chooses to follow you, then I wish you happiness and a good start I suggest: you give him some time to think about it, and then give you an answer.

Make yourself the most important absolute in life

What to do? You have to do what you have to do. None of us are saints, just people who love her.

Love is very selfish and hard to tolerate, oh no, it should be said that half-heartedness cannot be tolerated. If I really love you, to the extent that I can give up my life, I'm afraid I can also give up another person. However, think about it before leaving, will she have any hardships that she can't say.

Obviously, this woman is stepping on two boats, as the saying goes, men are not bad and women are not loved, this sentence is also applicable to men, you are coaxed by her, if a woman does not love that man, she will not live with that man. Leave her to find your new lover, don't you feel very tired from being tossed by her during this time? If you give it to me, you won't like her in the first place.

She accommodating you means that she still has you in her heart, but maybe she hasn't suffered any setbacks on the road to love, maybe she belongs to the kind of obedient type, she can do anything, she listens to you, maybe she has always been confused in her heart, she doesn't have a clear plan for the future, and she hasn't really thought about life. You should enlighten her more, give her a little more warmth, if you feel that you have done a good enough, her attitude towards you is still so casual, maybe she is still longing for how wonderful the outside world is, and she is not completely willing to live with you for a lifetime, if you really can't let go of her, then you can only bear what you should bear.

In strong feelings will also become dull, the main thing is to see the essence of your and her character, if you are the kind of person with a responsible heart, and you also want to manage your feelings well, then why not continue. But the premise is that you have to make up your mind first, and sometimes a man's strength is also very attractive to women. If you're not sure if you love her or not, there's no need to talk about it anymore.

Ask her what it's like to have a powerful love? What is strong? We've been together for three or four years, and I don't think we can just rely on the so-called feelings, we should be sensible, think about the future life, plan for the future, and not talk about feelings.

Sit down and talk about the future, see if there are any like-minded people, and then make plans.

I just wanted to ask if you still love your girlfriend, accommodating love is painful. You've been together for so many years, do you still need to cultivate a relationship? Love is not the one that accommodates that, the point is, whether there is still love.

I think you can be apart for a while, and when everyone is calm, you're thinking about it. Let's not talk about breaking up and keep friends. The complex issue of love will take time to prove.

I want to say that you are looking for nothing to do, what is a strong feeling.

Three or four years are not sure, let's divide it.

It doesn't matter what kind of psychology he has, I'm too lazy to analyze his psychology, I just want to say, you are so willing to be a junior? Don't admit it, although undocumented is not a legal couple, but in the eyes of his parents and locals, it is already a fait accompli, so you have become an out-and-out junior. Moreover, if you think about it, since that marriage was made by his family, if it breaks down, his parents will most likely think that you seduced their son, and it would be good not to settle accounts with you, do you still want them to accept you?

It doesn't matter if he loves his wife or not, why did he give birth to a child if he didn't love him? No matter how stupid a man is, he will not be stupid enough to have children with a person who does not want to live for the rest of his life, which will only add a burden to himself.

As you, the most important thing to do now is to give up and leave, if he really loves you and really can't do without you, he knows how to do it. He will take care of his own "housework" as soon as possible and come back to you.

Society is realistic! How old are you?

Just my personal opinion.

This man is too selfish and wants to take it for himself both inside and outside the home. Can't you find a man? He's married and has children, what are you waiting for!

Do you still want someone to divorce and marry you with a child? If so, are you willing? His parents don't approve of you being together, will such a marriage be happy?

As a woman to find a boyfriend who really cares about you, loves you, and knows to take care of you, there is a responsibility between you now, he says he is responsible for you, what do you expect him to be responsible for? Don't be stupid, give up! The man who really loves you is not his behavior anymore.

This statement is for reference.

Just look at your description, this person is not a good type, listen to my sister's advice, divide it, this will delay you!

I'm not a man, but I answer you from a girl's point of view, a woman, if you think he's reliable, you think he'll be your life's support, and it's okay to fight, but. Sometimes you have to be willing to give up, you have to learn to give up, maybe it will be painful for a while after giving up, but everything will become less important after the baptism of time, and when you have the next relationship, you will know how right it is for you to give up.