We love each other, but we can t get married, should I let go? 30

Why don't you think you can't marry her? Since you feel that you can't marry her, why should you be with her, it's unfair to you and her, since you can't give her a family, you shouldn't be so selfish and hold on to her, she has the right to be happy, and no matter what kind of man is like in her pursuit, you are only qualified to care about her, and you are not qualified to decide whether that man is qualified to be with her, and I think if you really love her, instead of thinking about giving up on her, you should consider the reason why you can't marry her And then take it seriously, and when you think you can give her happiness, go to the man generously, tell him that she's your woman, and tell him to stop harassing her.

If it doesn't bring her happiness in the first place, don't start a relationship. She still loves you now, but you can't promise her, and she's waiting for the promise you give her. Let it go, because you don't have confidence in yourself, don't let the other person be obsessed with you.

Maybe your departure is also a kind of love and responsibility for her. Bless her. I wish you happiness too.

Now that we've all broken up, what's the point of talking about the past?

It doesn't matter if his current boyfriend is qualified or not, if you like her, talk to her well, and if you don't like it, let it go, others still have other people's lives. Was she sad when you broke up? Anyway, the two of them are fine, and it's not fun to drag mud and water.

If she's willing to be with you, you can start and try to talk to her so you can get together and ......

Is it true that you can't get married??? If it's true, then since you are already destined not to get married, it is not a way for you to drag it out like this, because people will always get old, men are nothing, but women will age faster, if you don't work hard when you are young, when she is really old, it will hurt her, and this matter will become a thorn in your heart, forever stuck in your heart. Now that someone has confessed to her, let's give her a chance!!

It's not up to you to decide whether another person is qualified or not, in fact, you are the least qualified to comment on another person. Women need a sense of security, and if you can't give it, please let it go. Otherwise, in the end, it still delays people and hurts feelings...

The love between you has deteriorated, it is a kind of family affection, a bit like brother and sister love.

If you don't plan to get married in the future, then let go of each other and stop calling each other boyfriend and girlfriend.

If you can't give your own woman happiness, let go of your woman and let other men give her happiness.

If you can't give your woman a sense of security, let go of your woman and let other men shelter her from the wind and rain.

If you can do it, then hold her hand.

Walk for a lifetime!

Well, my boyfriend and I are in a similar situation to you, although he loves me very much, but he finally gave up on me, I really cried for most of the year, and when I just relieved up, he came to me again, then I relented, but in the end, he said that because he was not sure that he could give me a better future, he still gave up on me, I was very sad, but I was still grateful to him, because he was the one who really cared for me!

Let it go. Give yourself a chance to love others, give her a chance to let others love.

Note! You "actually know that you should let go", but you are "reluctant". Adults should be responsible for themselves and others at the same time. I believe you know how to do it.

It's time to let go! In that case, learn to give up! It's a little better for everyone!

Just ask, do you still love her?

It's better to choose a good way, be friends, and let it go.

If you can't give her marriage, let go of your hand, marriage is the beginning of a woman's second life...

It's a bad experience to marry someone I don't love, and I wouldn't choose to marry someone I don't love. Because all people know that love is definitely based on two people liking each other, and if there is no love, then there is no way for you to go on. In fact, in a ruined life, everyone will have a lot of contradictions when they get along, but because you love him and you care about him, you are willing to tolerate him and change for him.

But if there is no love between the two of you, you don't want to settle with him at all, and no matter what happens, you will feel very annoyed. So in such a situation, how can you spend the rest of your life with him? A person's life is very long, he has decades of time, if you have to face a person who does not love Biyu for decades, then what do you think is the meaning of such a marriage, such a life?

Personally, I don't think that even if we don't get married, we can't just choose someone we don't love, or choose to get married in order to cope with the people in the family.

I wouldn't have made such a choice anyway, and I felt that if I couldn't find someone I loved, then I'd rather be single. Because I think this kind of day may make me live a little more comfortable, so that I don't have to face a person I don't feel every day, then I will really feel very broken, and there is no way to stay with him at all.

And after getting married, you still have to have children, if you don't love him, how can you willingly give birth to a child for him? If you think about it, if a child grows up in a loveless family, and his father and mother do not love each other, do you think such a child can grow up physically and mentally healthy? I don't think so, so we can't do anything like that for the sake of our children or for ourselves.

You can not love, you can not get married, but you must not be able to compromise, and you must be responsible for yourself.

When your family doesn't agree, don't you think about working together to get your parents to agree with your feelings? Every parent wants their child to be happy, and if they don't agree, they must feel that the other person can't give you happiness, so they don't agree.

You can work hard in this direction, if you are happy and live happily, they see that you are living well, and they will definitely not think about breaking you up, you are good now, the family does not agree, and the middle is still divided and merged, and the family must think that the other party is not good, otherwise they will not always be separated.

Although the current relationship advocates freedom, the family will always say this and that, but parents have only one purpose, that is, their children find someone who gives her happiness. The more you are like this, the more your family will feel that you will not be happy together.

You should talk about it together, and if you can work together to convince your family, or show them your happiness, things will work out. Unless the parents are the kind of people who don't care about the lives of others, they will not understand.

The boy loves you more than his family, this is not something you can change, it only shows that you are still an outsider to her now, not her family. On an emotional level, you love him more than he loves you. Choosing between your family and you, if he loves you very much, he will not know what to do, no one will give up, you have divided many times, and now you have to divide again, I can only tell you that he only loves you, not deeply.

If you're together, if his family gives you little shoes to wear, who do you think he will help? Affection is the foundation of a marriage, but it is not entirely a dominant one. If you are only an attachment to him, then it is better to let go, give yourself a piece of the sky, and find a man worthy of your life.

Wait to respect his choice but will not come close to silently paying attention to everything good and bad in his life.

As long as you work hard, do your best!! I don't regret it!

When faced with this situation, you must be brave to love, two people together, just to form a new family! It doesn't have to be anyone's house.

Hello beauty, I don't know what the reason for his family not to let you be together, is it justified or unreasonable. But this is not the most important thing, it can't be said that he is not good, and he may really be a filial son. It can only be said that he does not love you more than you do for him.

My advice is that you should make it clear to your face, and if he can convince his family for you, then I wish you happiness. If he still gives up, forget it! My brother tells you as a person who has come over that it's not good to be friends if you can't stay together.

Don't wait, a happy love is to get the blessing of your family, then it can be regarded as perfect love. Although it will be painful for you to leave him, I think your boyfriend has a very valid saying, we can't be too selfish, our generation has too little time left for our family. If you are sad at home because of such a thing, then those of us who are so-called children are really a bit too much to say.

Have you ever thought about getting married? The following passage was told by my wife to tell you!

Don't love a man who tries to be more important to her family, and besides, this man doesn't really love her, and he won't deal with the relationship between his family and her, so leaving is the best result.

A marriage that is not blessed by the family will not last long, and the matter of the two families when they get married

It's good, it's good, if you can't hold on, let it go.

Falling in love is a matter of two people, but marriage is indeed a matter of two families. Do you want to be in love forever and never get married? Love is fragile, and I mind if you give up as soon as possible, otherwise you will only fall deeper and deeper and be bad for each other. Let yourself go, and let him go!

A dilemma.

You didn't say why your parents wouldn't let you be together. If you can get rid of that, you can stick together.

If this point can't be resolved. In fact, in the long run, it is better for two people to live like this, as well as to be separated.

People and people's ideals are different. A deeper word is that loving him doesn't have to be with him. I wish you all happiness, but you also have to communicate with both parents first, and you can't just give up.

People who love each other can't get married, and I won't accept it.

Reasons why people who love each other can't get married:

1. Meet the right person at the wrong time. The love story of the former milk tea girl and Chen Sheng has also touched countless people. However, Chen Sheng already has a family, although he loves milk tea girl Liu Ruoying very much.

For 10 years, they have silently loved each other and cared about each other, but they have never crossed the line, Chen Sheng did not betray the family, and Liu Ruoying did not destroy Chen Sheng's happiness as a junior.

The two of them love each other very much, but they meet the right person at the wrong time. If Chen Sheng had fallen in love with Liu Ruoying earlier, maybe they would have entered into marriage happily.

2. Parental blocking. Now most of them are only children, and the woman's parents are not allowed to marry far away, and the man's parents are not allowed to marry a daughter-in-law from other places. There are many reasons for this.

If you don't listen to your parents, they will cut off the parent-child relationship with you. Parents dismantled a pair of mandarin ducks alive. They don't care about their children's affection, they just think that their children will be happy when they stay with their parents.

3. Unwilling to bow your head. Each person has a different personality, just like there are no two leaves in the world that are exactly the same. Whether it is marriage or love, there will be friction between two people living together.

In "My Predecessor III", when Meng Yun and Lin Jia, a pair of people who love each other very much, quarrel over a trivial matter.

But when Lin Jia moved out of Meng Yun's rental house, no matter how reluctant the two were, both of them were very stubborn, and both of them took dignity very seriously, but Meng Yun never lowered his head, not even a word of retention.

If Meng Yun could lower his head and stay, Lin Jia would not have moved away. After they separated, they still loved each other in their hearts and missed each other. But in the end, the two did not bow their heads and missed each other's beautiful love.

4. The result of loving someone too much will lead to gains and losses. If you marry someone you love too much, then you will definitely not be free in this marriage, because you love someone too much, so you will give everything for this person. All your focus will be on this person.

In other words, you will be trapped by this person for the rest of your life. Loving someone too much can make you suffer from gains and losses. This is undoubtedly a taboo in marriage and love. In a relationship, the person who is the first to be emotionally attracted loses the most.

I won't accept it, the ultimate goal of love is to get married, and if you can't get married in love, the relationship is incomplete.

Yes. Marriage is not the only way to love, and it's good to be in love all the time, as long as I and the other party feel happy.

No, the love that can't get married will make me very insecure, and I will think that he must not love me, otherwise he will not marry me no matter how he marries.

I can't accept it, it's too painful for the person I love not to marry me, and I don't want to have such an outcome, so I might give up.

I feel unacceptable, because the person I love can't marry me, and the person I love who marries me is not the person I love, then I won't be happy.