Can our relationship continue? If not, how do we end it? 100

You can only go to court. Because you don't have a marriage certificate, you can't go to the Civil Affairs Bureau to handle it.

Coordinate child support issues with one person taking care of the child and the other paying child support.

The property should also be divided, and it should be half of one person.

How can you get a divorce if you're not married, you can't have children if you're not married, and the man is too irresponsible.

Come directly to my house, I'm 36, divorced, I have a boy, like a good boy, you don't need a beard, just go.

I think his departure from you has been well thought out, and there may be no way to get it back. Although there is no way to recover the relationship, as an adult, not everything can be disagreed without feelings. You have children in common, you have been in a de facto marriage for 8 years, and although there is no formal marriage formalities, he is also responsible as a de facto husband and father.

I think you can talk to him and tell him that he has to be responsible for you and the child, and if he still doesn't come to his senses, I think the only way to do it is to take it into law.

Don't be hot-headed, communicate well with your husband, you and your husband don't need to go through the divorce procedures because you haven't gone through the marriage procedures.

After February 94, the new marriage law was promulgated, even if you have children now, it is not a de facto marriage, and if you want to separate now, it is as simple as breaking up with ordinary couples.

But now you have children, you can use the property and sue for child custody, child support, depending on 30 percent of your annual income, of course, you don't want to pass the law, you can negotiate privately, if she wants children, she also has to pay child support. You can't mention other conditions, and he can't mention them. If you negotiate with him well, I think he can understand, I hope mine can help you, and I hope you can find a lawyer and consult in detail, so it is safer.

You and he are not married, but the marriage law stipulates that you are in a de facto marriage, find a lawyer, and the children have custody, parental rights, education rights, etc

Without a marriage certificate, even if you have a child, it is not a legal marriage under the current marriage law, it is not protected, and you can leave him at any time and choose your own life path anew. I think since a man like him is so irresponsible and has no sense of responsibility, then don't take the opportunity to leave, what are you waiting for him to do, choose your life path from the new, while you are still young, there are relatively more opportunities to choose.

From now on, you live with yours, he lives with him, and then find a good man, there are more good men in the world, brothers, are you right?

It would be nice if you could talk about it.

Not really, courts. Consult a lawyer first.

Let's go through the marriage formalities first and then think about divorce, it's time for this kind of relationship to stop.

I asked the Civil Affairs Bureau for a list.

Can I get a divorce if I am not married?

You're going to go to your community and get a certificate of cohabitation, that's fine, consult a lawyer.

You haven't gone through the marriage formalities, so why should you leave! The child is already 6 years old, so how did he get his household registration?

It's best to consult the civil affairs, if the conditions permit, it's best to find a lawyer for consultation, such problems are full of trouble!

First of all, are you registered?

If the child settles down, go to the community to open a cohabitation certificate, and then go to the local court to sue for custody of the child.