It s not too late for a boy to find a partner to marry when he is 30, is it a pretext or a fact

Excuse! Some enterprising people think about some male stars, these are true....Ordinary people can't find this either because of their appearance or their economic base.

If getting married and starting a family is on your and your family's agenda and is going to be done as a big deal, then getting the help of a matchmaking agency may be one of the best options

You can first "see" the local matchmaking agency, or ask through acquaintances, after grasping the general situation, choose a few matchmaking agencies to go on a field trip, and then choose 1-2 matchmaking agencies to register as a member. All formal matchmaking agencies that have been established for a long time, have abundant resources, moderate fees, and high cost performance are generally credible and reliable, and the success rate is not low.

Now there are a large number of single groups in the country, old, middle-aged and young people of all ages and professions, so everyone has no shortage of corresponding love choices. The way that marriage events are introduced through formal matchmaking agencies is an extension of the old-style Chinese matchmaker tradition, which has a certain degree of rigor and is much more reliable than online virtuality, so it is still an important blind date channel for singles around the world, and it has endured for a long time. This is especially prevalent in Japan, South Korea, Taiwan, Southeast Asia and other regions, and is also recognized by the public in European and American countries.

However, it needs to be reminded that the main thing for friends who go on a blind date is to keep a normal heart and not to have too high requirements for the other half, otherwise it will increase the difficulty of matching. Asking for marriage and blind date is like going to college to see a serious illness, it is a lot of work, everyone's situation is different, and the final result is different. But meeting is the last word.

Although there are always lucky people in the world who keep the plant and win the rabbit, the satisfaction of the vast majority of people or a relatively satisfactory marriage can only be achieved in the docking of continuous appointments in various ways. I wish you a dream come true soon!

Everyone is comforting you, how can you think of it as sarcasm?

It shows that you have a bad mentality, always think about things in the bad way, and good things will become bad things.

Negative thoughts, low self-esteem, like a hedgehog, how can you find a partner?

With the fate in the next 33 only to the object.

You can be relieved.

26 is not big, the key is to have self-confidence and capital. Don't be foolish, have a goal. I don't think that's the problem.

Being young is a fact, and the standard of a good man is responsible, caring, kind and capable of working. Work hard, and your success is your shining point, and it will also attract the attention of others.

It's okay buddy, I'm 26 too, and I haven't had a partner yet, it's not your personal problem to find a partner, sometimes there's always a reward for paying!

There's no way, it's time for your generation to catch up with the lack of daughters-in-law.

No problem, my eldest brother is 40 years old, and I'm looking for a fucking younger than me who is only eighteen, you can brother.

No, fate will come soon.

It's normal, there is a saying called thirty and standing,

Brothers are as big, fate has not yet arrived.

It's young, it's good to get married around 30, and then it's a little late.

Now it is popular to have a thousand purples and a little green, and if you don't work hard now, you won't have a chance in the future.

Do not disturb if you are not sincere, or the folks love each other.

26 It's not too soon, it's not too late, now it's time to find a woman and start a relationship!

Hello, look for it, it's just right now.

I suggest that you better get married while you are not successful and you are in the beginning stage, and when you have money, it will be difficult to find a woman who really loves you.

If you are really successful in your career after ten years, are you willing to spend all your hard-earned wealth on a woman who does not love you but only your wealth? Even if there are so many beautiful women around you, does that mean that they love you? When you're down, they'll leave you.

So it's better to find the purest love at the purest time, and then start to manage a marriage that shares joys and sorrows. There are also girls around me who value feelings, they don't care about money at all, they just feel that true love can't be bought with more money. Of course, there are quite a few vain girls.

And you can't guarantee that in another ten years you will definitely succeed and there will be money. Many men around me thought they would succeed when they were young, but only a few of them succeeded in the end.

When you are in your thirties, whether you have money or no career, it will be difficult to find a partner. Most women of the same age are married, and those who are not married are not willing to marry you. Girls in their twenties either choose potential stocks in their twenties, or choose the rich second generation, and if they want to find old men in their thirties and forties, they must be very rich and have a very successful career.

Another thing you need to understand is that a considerate and capable woman cannot be missing in the life of a successful man, which will speed up the pace of your success. Fighting alone can be tiring, lacking sufficient motivation, and not getting spiritual comfort when injured. It is a fact that men need the help of women to succeed.

A man looking for a wife represents responsibility, so he needs to wait until he can shoulder the responsibility of the child before looking for a wife, a boy can bear too little when he is a child, and he has nothing, can not bring the so-called happiness to his loved ones, has no economic ability, no ability to bear, bad mentality, easy to impulsive. But as he grows older, his career gradually matures, and he slowly has his own savings, which can give him basic material happiness, mentality, and personality slowly succumb to maturity with the tempering of time. So I recommend getting married later, and I'm doing it right now.

In this way, we can promote the development of society.

Alas, now men have a heavy responsibility. I don't have a career, I have low self-esteem, and I don't dare to harm others.

I'm not married. However, I have already planned not to get married before 30.

In fact, men are not like men, who want to earn money to support their families, buy houses, and slowly save money, and then they get older, so they get married later.

Marriage is not child's play, and the idea of getting married later will be more mature.

Economic problems, natural problems, everyone has said, the only thing that does not mention the population problem, the special structure of our country's population is the main reason for the edition, one right.

In general, men in families are about five years older than women, but in the past five years, our country is still improving, and there are many strange age combinations, which is the structure formed by the population problem.

Women born in the baby boom in the eighties, from 1984 to 1992 due to the overbirth, the family planning population in the seventies was too small, the competition crisis was very large, and there were many single people, and by 2018, the second baby boom born before 1975 had more than 100 million remaining single population, and men accounted for the main proportion, and the remaining unmarried population was born during the family planning period from 1976 to 82, more than 2 million unmarried people, more than 98 percent of men, From 1984 to 1992, the remaining unmarried population of the third baby boom is also close to 100 million, 70% of women, during this period the pressure of male single population has been released downward, if you are the third baby boom unmarried women and unmarried men, then the scientific disaster can be imagined, it is too difficult for men in their thirties to go down to no one, if you find the same age may be easier, otherwise you need to wait for younger women to appear, women in their thirties are even more difficult, if you find a younger one may be easier, After 94 years, the population experienced a precipitous decline and formed a new disaster, and this result was a disaster that those pampered population experts did not expect, demography is a big science, not a matter of a man's words.

The reason you mentioned is a very important reason, and the imbalance between men and women is the root cause of this problem.

One reason is that wolves have more meat and less meat, and the other reason is that the material requirements are getting higher and higher. In short, there are many reasons.

Why is it so hard to find a partner these days?

Is there too many men? Or what is the reason?

The reason why it is so hard to find objects nowadays is.

People are busy with work all day long.

In addition, there are too few circles of contact with others.

It doesn't have to be the reason why there are too many men.

It's really hard to drink now, the ratio of boys and girls is too large, there are too many boys, too few girls, plus now girls demand Tene's high, and boys.

Because Rong can't afford most of the bride price, it is very difficult to find a partner, which is also one. The factual problem facing the whole country, both in urban and rural areas, is facing this problem. This requires you to improve your ability and earn more money before you can find a partner.

aqui te amo。

One is that there are too many men, and the most important thing is that people are too realistic now. It means that your conditions are not good enough. If you have good conditions, you won't have to worry about finding a partner.

This can only be said that the woman's requirements are too high, and the man needs to be rich, powerful, housed and car, how can it be so easy to find.

Is it an imbalance between men and women? Still not fate.

If a five-year-old child doesn't go to school, he says he can just eat, sleep, and play like this for the rest of his life. It is true that he may be telling the truth, and this is what he wants, but in your opinion, will you fulfill his "reasonable and good expectations"?

Clause. 1. In the eyes of your elders, you don't know anything about life, marriage, and the future of a single life, and in their eyes, you are like that childish five-year-old child, so you don't have to be reasonable, the question is not whether it makes sense.

Clause. Second, if you want to convince others, you must first affirm that you are right. You're going to say it, you're 10,000 percent sure you're right. - I have the same meaning as your elders, and I don't agree with you.

How old are you? 20 years old? 25 years old?

30 years old? Do you know the difference between a girl who is 30 years old and 35 years old? Do you know what it's like for a girl to be 40 years old and unmarried?

Do you know how a woman who starts getting sick at the age of 50 but has no relatives around her can live? Do you know what it's like to be 70 years old and faint and die at any time without anyone finding out? Why did you use your twenty-something head to figure out your life for the rest of your life?

In fact, you don't need your elders to oppose you, you are a little rational, and you can't convince yourself.

Of course, you can't predict how your life will not affect your enthusiasm, and it will not affect you, and you will be happy at the moment. Now you are clear, you don't need to ask the question of why, you insist on your own opinion with a stream of enthusiasm, your elders refute with a share of life experience, each other has their own ideas, and it is normal to disapprove of each other.

Summary: Don't be in a hurry to get married, your current state should be that you haven't entered the state of mind of being ready to get married, not that you insist on not getting married. You can coax them into saying you're looking for a partner (a few months), you're in a relationship (another few months), you're going to bring it home when you're free (another few months), and heck, you've broken up (another few months), ......By the time they no longer trust your excuses, a year or two have passed, and you are no longer the person you are now, maybe you met someone you really liked, or maybe you really felt that marriage was a happy life at that time.

Think about it then.

You don't have to find a partner, you can be with him if you find someone you like, and it's not bad if you don't meet the right one.

The criteria for choosing a mate are set in stone, and we will never waver in the selection of a mate rather than an indiscriminate.

Because we are a country of traditional thought. People who have not yet reached the forefront of the world, like those countries in Northern Europe, live freely and freely, without any constraints. But it's hard for us to live arbitrarily. If you want to marry someone and don't want to have children, they won't tell you to get out.

First, you have to pay a single tax, second, you have not given birth to a second child to pay a tax on social resources, and third, your family is also good for you, maybe you are greedy for a moment of freedom with the same money, and you have not yet experienced the desolation of being single and old, and the family does not want you to regret it too late in the future

Because my parents are getting older. And you're not small. That's why they rushed it.

This is the feudal thinking of the previous people.

Not necessarily, you have to think:

It's better than a second marriage and a third marriage with a baby, right?

Better than a 30-year-old single woman, right?

There are fewer people in the countryside who are 30 years old and a lot in the cities, this is not your personal problem, it is a national problem. Concentrated outbreaks in the post-85s.

However, it is very realistic that regardless of men and women, over 30, the rest of the market either has problems with emotional intelligence, or has emotional trauma, or has an average career, or has been divorced ......Find a stealing pleasure that's basically satisfying.

Sociologists say that if you are single until 40, the desire for courtship and post-parenting will be greatly reduced (just less than nothing), rest assured, you still have ten years!

Hello! There's no need to worry about that!

You can think differently! In the past, there was really little development in the countryside, because the sales were fixed and the consultation was not developed!

But now, the emergence of the Internet is a good business opportunity, you have any specialties or good varieties there, you can find good sales from the Internet, you should consider a different mode of thinking!

Sell specialty products or buy a set of machines according to your own agricultural products to start a small factory (small workshop), or engage in purchases, and then sell them online (empty gloves white wolf)! Try it all!

If you really change the traditional way of thinking and find a way to get rich, then you don't have to think about money and women!

Don't be like some rural lazy people, who know to complain!

If you have a lot of land, you can definitely earn it! If there is less land, then it won't take much time to plant that little bit of land, don't be lazy to death!

If you don't have land, you can open a nearby store or a farm supply store!

Don't be lazy to death, then you can't blame anyone else!