About my husband and me, do you want a divorce?

After reading your statement, first of all, I think that there is something wrong with you, why should you quarrel about what you have promised him? Still mentioning divorce so easily, do you want him to sign? Do you really want him to sign it?

In case he gives him a good time, it's also a momentary anger, is it really for such a little thing to leave? Your husband is not the kind of unreasonable person, divorce for such a thing, a woman in her 30s has been divorced, and the person she finds again may not be satisfactory, or even worse. Forget it, talk about it well, tolerate each other, the original couple is the best.

Don't just talk about divorce in the future.

Can't leave. At a glance, you know that none of you can leave anyone, what else? Happy to leave?

Such a man is not a human being.

Do you want to get your ex back? Do you want a divorce?

No, although divorce is related to the children, but it is the happiness of their own life, and they will not choose an empty shell marriage for the children, which is not good for the physical and mental health of the children.

Getting married and having children is not impulsive, and getting along with each other in life is not a momentary confusion! From meeting and following each other to seeing each other and hating each other now, it will not be a whim, there are always various reasons!

Life is like a flower, what kind of seed bears what kind of flower, but some are delicate and some are withered. Peonies can never produce roses! Because the cost is too great!

What you have to think about now is the problem between the two of you, it won't change much, but it's up to you whether you can tolerate it or not!

Many people will always talk about children, and an unhappy life is the real misfortune for children, and not all children of single parents are unlucky! Maybe children can't understand it now, but they will always grow up, they will always know life, and they will always have their own thinking! The grievances of the husband and wife, the husband and wife solve it themselves, if they must be imposed on the child, whether they are separated or not, the child is a sorrow, because misfortune is an infectious disease, infecting the people around them who care about themselves!

Let's break down the situation in detail:

First, since you already have children, it means that your relationship foundation was still very good. If you can resolve the conflict reasonably, and the parents love their children, then I suggest that you relax your divorce thoughts before thinking about it. Giving a child a healthy and harmonious family is very beneficial to his growth.

Second, if you are meeting an irresponsible husband, then it is advisable to take the children to divorce decisively. Although it is not easy to raise children, it is a waste of time and life to continue to hesitate.

Third, if neither of the above two is the case. So I suggest that before the divorce, think clearly, whether the children can be properly settled, and the life after the divorce will definitely be better than before the divorce? If you can't be sure, I think it's better to cherish the present moment and live the present life seriously!