How do roommates handle interpersonal relationships?

If there are three or four, five or six, or even more people living together in a dormitory, it is advisable to have a unified schedule to adjust it. Only when everyone is in harmony and abiding by it can we reduce disputes, eliminate friction, and maintain normal order in life. If you are a "night owl" and go to bed late at night, you will wash up and go to bed only when all the dormitory members have slept, so that it is easy to wake up others and affect their rest.

Over time, you will arouse the disgust of your roommates. Therefore, all members of the dormitory should try to unify their living hours and reduce the gap between work and rest. If something happens, members who wake up early or go to bed late should also minimise the impact of sound and lights on their roommates.

In the dormitory, everyone should be treated with an equal attitude, and do not favor one over the other, and fight with some people while alienating others. Some people like to be very close to one of them in the dormitory, and in normal times, they always whisper to the same person, and they are with one person no matter what they do, whether they go in and out. This can easily cause displeasure among other members of the dormitory, who think that you disdain to associate with them.

As a result, the relationship between the two of you may be good, but you are alienated from the others. This is not conducive to the establishment of a harmonious dormitory relationship, and it is also worth the loss. We are not opposed to friendship with depth, but never at the expense of its breadth and breadth.

Therefore, in the dormitory, we should try to maintain a balance with each person, try to be in a state of inseparability with our roommates, and do not engage in "small groups".

When your roommate buys some fruits, melon seeds and other snacks to the dormitory, and when you give them to you, don't push them, and don't refuse because you are embarrassed to eat others. Sometimes, if a roommate invites you to dinner for a birthday or other event, you should gladly go there. Even if there is no money to "return" him, it does not matter, because mutual remuneration is not only material, but different from that in the commodity economy"Equivalent exchange"principle, it is more embodied in the psyche.

When you accept someone else's invitation, in a sense, you also give someone face. If you refuse any snacks or feasts, over time, others will inevitably think that you are arrogant and will treat you"Stay away"Finish.

Everyone has their own secrets and enough curiosity. When it comes to the privacy of our roommates, let's not try to find out. The other party has a special sensitivity to this field by turning a domain into privacy, and any topic that tries to break into this field is not welcome.

In particular, it is important not to tammage through the clothes of your roommate without their consent. We must pay special attention to this issue, and do not ignore the details because we think we are acquaintances. In addition, living in the same dormitory, sometimes it is inevitable to know some of the privacy of the roommates, and we must also keep our mouths shut and tell others that it is not only disrespectful to the roommates, but also immoral.

We must do the above aspects, otherwise we will anger our roommates and happen"Rivalry"It's inevitable.

The dormitory activity is not only an activity, but also an important form of bonding between residents, and should be actively participated in. Don't be naïve to dismiss group activities as just a frivolous and dismissive activity. In fact, it is all an emotional investment, which is indispensable.

Roommates decide what to do together, and we respect their choice. If you really can't participate, you can put forward your thoughts and opinions, don't force yourself to participate and make your roommates feel that you are coping with something, and don't hurt the interest of your roommates by refusing. It can be said that the presence and absence of collective activities also reflects the degree of unity of this dormitory from one side.

If you don't participate in such activities, it will more or less seem like you are out of place.

Good interpersonal relationships are premised on helping each other. Needless to say, when a roommate is in trouble, we should take the initiative to lend a helping hand. So, when we have a problem, is it advisable to ask our roommates for help?

The answer is yes. Because sometimes asking for help can show that you trust others, can rapport and deepen relationships. For example, if you need to ask someone for help with something, if you give up your roommate and ask for someone else, your roommate will think that you don't trust him.

You don't want to ask others, how can others be embarrassed to ask you for help when they have something to do in the future.

As a third-year student, the dormitory life in the past two years summed up one thing: learn to get used to it. I am a student who only lives in college, and I live at home in high school and junior high school, but this has not affected my independent living habits.

I was able to do a lot of things on my own, and I developed them at home. The other three people in the dormitory all have experienced residential life. It must be acknowledged that everyone has their own habits, but it must also be admitted that under the same roof we must learn to change for others.

It's easy for me to adapt to an unfamiliar environment, but I don't like people who don't care about hygiene. Everyone has lived in a different environment since childhood, and the habits they have developed are also different. When I try to correct some bad habits with him, such as not paying attention to hygiene, others still sleep on **, etc., once or twice, you still won't modify it, I won't tell you a third time.

Because in the future you will meet people who live with you, and your parents have not taught you well, so wait for the later people to teach you slowly. In addition, everyone has different priorities and different ideas, and when I can't reach an agreement, I can only choose a conservative approach, which is to deal with things without affecting friendship.

I'm a junior. I changed majors halfway through and was not in the same major as the other three. Never bother others, very self-disciplined.

Even if his roommates who are sensitive to sound and light stay up late and make noise, they have never said anything, and they are as good as they can, although they are not treated as girlfriends, at least they are treated as acquaintances. At the beginning of this year's school year, I was unhappy with one of them because of a trivial matter, and I immediately dealt with it in a private chat, and both parties at least said on the surface that it was not a major event and could forgive each other. However, after that, the three of them hugged together and ignored me, and I have not spoken a word to me in the dormitory for more than two months now.

I feel like roommates are heart-to-heart, and you do what they do to you.

Different people have different personalities, some people like to be quiet, and some people like to be funny. When I was in college, I was also struggling with the problem of work and rest. But as soon as I graduated, I loved it from 5 o'clock and started at 5 o'clock, so I didn't have to worry about it anymore.

College is really a short time, try to solve it, it doesn't matter if you can't solve it, take it easy. There's a lot to worry about and focus on what really matters.

Don't force your roommate to follow you to do the so-called business. Everyone is an adult and has different choices, so when you see others as you call "not doing your job", don't worry about the overflow of the Virgin's heart, there is no right or wrong to do this kind of thing, it can only be said that everyone chooses differently.

There is a certain sense of distance, and there is a certain intimacy.

1.Learn about your roommate's lifestyle and privacy beliefs. If roommates are very concerned about others interfering in their private lives, then it is best not to interfere. If roommates are willing to share their lives, then you can offer support and advice where appropriate.

2.Determine if your interference will have a positive impact on your roommates. If your intervention helps your roommate solve a problem or improve their life, then you may consider stepping in.

But if your interference might cause resentment among your roommates or make things worse, then it's best not to meddle.

3.Avoid criticism or accusations. If you want to give help or advice to your roommates, do so in a friendly and supportive manner. Avoid criticizing or blaming roommates, as it could make things worse.

4.Respect the privacy and space of your roommate, Dongyo. As much as you may care about your roommate's life, respect their privacy and space as well. Do not try to spy on or interfere in their private lives, as this could ruin your relationship.

In conclusion, consider your own intentions and your roommate's feelings before meddling in your roommate's private life. If you think you can provide support and help without causing unnecessary conflict, consider stepping in. But if you're unsure or don't want to interfere, it's best to keep your distance and respect your roommate's privacy and space.

How to get along with your college roommates.

know how to praise, not the kind of particularly hypocritical praise, to be sincere; Know how to share, share food and interesting things, and others will sometimes share them with you; Help each other, when roommates encounter difficulties, they can help if they can, and give some advice if they can't help.

How to deal with roommate relationships? If you deal with the relationship between roommates, you must maintain the relationship between roommates, clean up, pay attention to personal hygiene, do more good things when invited, do not violate the rules of the dormitory, unite roommates, do not make loud noises in the dormitory, and keep quiet.