Is happiness a matter of contentment?

I don't think exactly, that's my opinion. Life is too short, and you can find your other half in the vast sea of people. It's not easy, and I have to help me through this life.

As the saying goes, the flowers can be broken straight and must be broken, don't wait for no flowers and empty branches. When you meet someone you like, you work hard to pursue it, and if you finally catch up, of course, you can't just live this life satisfied. I have to look at the flowers, grass and trees of this world with her, and the years are withering.

Happiness is not the same as satisfaction, happiness comes from the hearts of two people, the proximity of two people's hearts. When two people are happy, they laugh sweetly, and the sweetness makes people happy. It's a joy to grow old, the world is so big, it's not easy to meet.

And the satisfaction is actually a little inferior, a little cowardly, and a little unconfident. How can you behave like this in front of your beloved? You appreciate me, I pay to you, it's a beautiful thing.

Isn't there a saying that husbands sing with women? This is how to describe two people working together to make their small family happy? This is the opposite of satisfaction, so satisfaction is humble, not self-loving, not brave to show ......

The harder it is to get, the deeper the love, the more happiness you have, and the more difficult it is. A person who always does not feel happiness is his greatest sorrow. Happiness is a feeling, and if you are not satisfied, you will never be happy.

When it comes to emotions, everyone measures happiness differently. But happiness must be inseparable from contentment. As the saying goes:

The greater the hope, the greater the disappointment", people must know how to lower their expectations to a certain extent, and know how to "be content and happy" in order to live a happier life. "There is a kind of woman who is not unhappy, but not content! ”

When we were studying, we used to learn the story of a fisherman and a fish, the fisherman saved the life of a fish, and the fish promised to grant him a wish. The fisherman, who was originally destitute, asked for a small wooden house, but the fisherman and his wife were still not satisfied. In the end, the fish punished the greedy fisherman and his wife, and the two became nothing.

Although this is a story, it also tells the truth, people always see watermelons, and in the end, even the sesame seeds are lost.

Liu Mei is such a woman, she and Wang Liang have also been in love for a year or two. But Liu Mei was still reluctant to introduce Wang Liang to the friends around her, and even hid the fact that she was in love. Liu Mei looked for a spare tire everywhere, hoping that she could find someone who was better than Wang Liang and had better conditions.

And Wang Liang didn't know Liu Mei's thoughts, he felt that the two of them had been together for so long, and their relationship was relatively stable, and they would definitely get married when the time came. Wang Liang has always regarded Liu Mei as his wife, no matter what good things are, he thinks about Liu Mei in his heart, always buys all kinds of good things for Liu Mei, and cares about Liu Mei in every detail.

And although Liu Mei likes Wang Liang's goodness, she wants to find a better person. She always felt like she could find something better. Finally one day, Li Xing appeared in Liu Mei's world, Liu Mei concealed the fact that she was in love, and then hooked up with Li Xing and became Li Xing's girlfriend.

Liu Mei was afraid of the fact of falling in love**, so she broke up with Wang Liang ruthlessly. Openly and honestly became a couple with Li Xing. And as time went by, Liu Mei could always find Li Xing's shortcomings, and then Li Xing became the next Wang Liang.

No matter how Li Xing stays, Liu Mei will leave in style when she meets a better one.

Liu Mei never knows satisfaction, and she has changed boyfriends one after another, always feeling that she can have a better one. Many years have passed, Liu Mei's face has begun to have wrinkles, and excellent men with successful careers don't look down on Liu Mei anymore, Liu Mei finally met a person she thought she could get married, but this man looked down on Liu Mei and humiliated Liu Mei. At this time, she remembered Wang Liang's goodness, but it was too late.

Liu Mei didn't get anything in the end, there was no love, and no man treated her with all his heart and lungs like Wang Liang and Li Xing.

The best state of being a person in the world is neither humble nor arrogant. Caring too much about other people's eyes and evaluations can only make you unable to do things, hesitate, lose yourself, lose your personality, and lose your self-worth. Sticking to what you choose and believing in what you insist on is the right path for you.

It doesn't matter what others think of you, what matters is that you are who you are and do what you think is right.

There is no lack of beauty in life, what is lacking is the eye to find beauty; There is no lack of happiness in life, what is missing is the eyes to find happiness, happiness is the feeling of the heart, happiness and sorrow often knock on the door of people's hearts at the same time, who is invited in, who will be with whom; Misfortune often comes from oneself, trouble often comes from comparison, and pain often comes from discontentment; There is no pain in life, and when there is desire, pain comes to haunt you.

Only when you are calm can you have peace of mind. Impetuous people, lack of kindness, and lack of patience in doing things will inevitably lead to an impasse in life. Restraint impetuousness, only meditation.

Meditation requires the use of reason to dilute the frantic emotions, the open-mindedness to release the imprisoned past, and the calmness to welcome the unpredictable future. Only by calming your mind can you read yourself and see the future. Meditation is a kind of cultivation and a kind of cultivation.

Treat your family with a grateful heart, treat others with a kind heart, treat your friends with an honest heart, treat your enemies with a tolerant heart, treat your career with a sincere heart, treat life with a grateful heart, cherish your living beings with a heart of awe, enjoy life with a heart of appreciation, and always have good luck with a kind heart.

Contentment is a kind of attitude towards things, and happiness is a kind of quiet and relieved feelings.

Learning to be content is the only way to persistently pursue life goals in today's society; Learn to be content, so that you can face everything in front of you with a detached attitude; Learning to be content can make life more bright and more feeling. May everyone be able to overcome themselves, be less stubborn, be more flexible, complain less, and be more sincere, so that life can be full of sunshine.

No matter how long the road is, it can be completed step by step; No matter how short the road is, you can't reach it without stepping away. Don't let too much yesterday occupy your today. Repeating the path of others is because you neglect your own feet. Greed is the truest form of poverty, and contentment is the truest form of wealth.

Those who have experienced the cold know the warmth of the sun; Only those who have experienced the hardships of life can understand the preciousness of life.

In life, there is as much pain as there is care; There is as much tolerance as there is joy. Pain and joy are both refractions of the mind, just as what is in the mirror is determined by what is in front of the mirror. If you can't let go of your heart, you will naturally become a burden, and the more burdens you have, the happier your life will be.

A calculating heart is like a pocket, and a forgiving heart is like a funnel. Complex love calculations, simple hearts are easy to be happy!

Happiness comes from struggle, we have to roll up our sleeves and work hard. I think happiness is to set a goal, we work hard for this goal, and finally this goal is achieved, and there will be a sense of happiness.

Happiness is not the same as contentment, and what we often say is contentment, nor does it teach us to be content with the status quo and not want to forge ahead. A test paper with a full score of 100 points, and the scumbag is very content when he gets 60 points. Sleepy in class, internet café games outside of class.

This kind of person's happiness will only be the moment when he kills a person of a higher level than himself on the chicken battlefield.

If this student is not satisfied with only 60 points in his studies, spend more time and energy on studying. Even if you score 70 points in the next exam, even if the gap with the top students is still very large, but after all, you have improved. He can be very happy with the ten points he has improved.

Because I have worked hard, and my efforts have paid off.

Take all kinds of unhappy things in our country, we have to pay rent every month because you live in a bustling city, not in a remote rural area, and if you go back to the poor country of your hometown now. If you live as long as you want, your parents won't charge you a dime in rent. And those so-called landlords who live a life without work, after all, they have their predecessors who have laid a solid foundation for them, and they have not paid in his generation, but they definitely have paid in the previous generation or before.

If one day you could get a stable and good income without working every month, and then live a life of clothes to stretch your hands and food to open your mouth, would you really feel happy? Life is like a five-flavor bottle, only when you taste the bitterness, you can feel the sweetness, if you have been tasting the sweetness, there is no other taste mixed with your life, you will immediately become numb to life, and feel that your life is like walking with the dead. So a lot of times the feeling of unhappiness is that we only focus on the bad side of things, and when you keep staring at the bad side of things, you will gradually magnify this bad side into the whole thing.

Love is a kind of happiness. The flowers of love bloom quietly, and when the shy heart slowly opens, you suddenly find that love has really arrived. First love is sweet, honey, and romantic.

No one will forget their first love, it is like a spring grass, so green, that fresh and green, with a pure luster. small notes in class; snuggling up to each other under the shade trees, comforting each other under the moonlight; a rose for Valentine's Day; Holding hands under the stars; The first kiss in the corner, as if, there are only the two of you in this world, and in each other's eyes, who is destined for whom, as if they have already made up their minds. The pressure of studying, the opposition of parents and teachers, and the difference in life goals determine that the love of most first lovers cannot blossom and bear fruit.

God has destined you to have no fate, so wait with peace of mind and wait for a real and permanent love that belongs to you. Whether it is love at first sight or long-term love, we can not sit and wait stupidly, passively wait, we must take precautions, grasp the fate tightly, do not take into account the disparity in each other's status, do not be afraid of the opposition of relatives and friends, do not let the "bread" block the desire for love, belongs to the happiness of love, after all, we are not much, waiting for the opportunity to wait, "see the good to receive" depending on the situation, whether to catch or let go, just between your thoughts. When you meet in Pingshui, if you can find a soulmate, a helper in life, and emotional sustenance, then the happiness of love will really come.

People who are rich in material life have a very empty spiritual life, and they want love, warmth, care and other spiritual things, and their happiness standards are also very high. All in all, now the phrase "are you happy"? It always makes people laugh and cry.

But the rich envy the happy ordinary life, and the rich envy the dazzling noble life.

We can always see what others have that we don't have, because we are greedy, because we are not content, and we can't learn to be content easily! People are accustomed to comparing themselves with others, and when they compare themselves with people who are more capable than themselves or have more material wealth than themselves, they feel inferior and unhappy.

When you put aside the things that do not belong to you and do not deliberately pursue them, you will find that you will live an easy life, a sense of happiness will arise spontaneously, and before you know it, many things will become smooth, which is true happiness. You have to know that when people are not looking for happiness, but being happier than others, happiness will be far away from us.

Many people are asking, "What is the emotion of happiness?" What kind of marriage is happy? ”

You know him, he understands you, and having a feeling of reassurance between each other is the entry point of emotional happiness; Walking hand in hand is not tired, getting along has something to talk about, even if she is nagging, she is also adapted to such care, this is the beauty of a happy marriage.

Happiness is a state, a feeling that belongs to the emotional world, a feeling in the heart, that is, a sense of satisfaction for people.

When we were children, when our parents bought a toy, they were so happy, that was the feeling of happiness, that was a sense of satisfaction.

A reasonable suggestion at work, changed the tedious labor, worked overtime until midnight and finally completed the repair, heard the roar of the machine and operated normally, bury your head in a lazy sleep, that is the feeling of happiness, that is a sense of satisfaction.

Happiness is actually so simple, happiness is so ubiquitous, as long as you are a caring person, as long as you know how to cherish, as long as you learn to let your emotions find the entry point of "understanding you", you will be happy.

Everyone has their own happiness, which needs to be discovered and grasped with their own hearts.

It's just that in the impetuous reality, in many times in ordinary life, because you and I have too many requirements, or have unrealistic requirements for the other half of the marriage, or ignore the emotional perception of the other half, and ignore the other party's heart that can't keep up with the rhythm, so that the interaction is disjointed, the emotional gap, far away from the heart of happiness, and the original intention of marriage.

The longer you get along in such an environment, the lower the feeling of happiness, and if you are not good at adjusting in a reasonable way and method, you will even lose the beauty of the original wing of the marriage and go to the situation of hatred and resentment.

In fact, there is no absolute rule to prove emotional happiness, there is no absolute answer to a happy marriage to give an example, the key to happiness lies in your attitude towards life, and the key to the stability of happiness lies in your emotional cognition of the people around you.

What you can't get is the best", that's because you have a kind of respect, understanding, and tolerance for "what you can't get", even if the "can't get" has a little response to you, you have "happiness" touch, happiness satisfaction.

And people who know how to grasp happiness are good at developing their inner "touch", good at knowing how to grasp the "satisfaction" of happiness, because they understand that the most precious thing in the world is not what they can't get, nor what has been lost, but to grasp the efforts in front of them and cherish the efforts around them, which is the emotion of happiness and the moving in a happy marriage.

Marriage is a kind of responsibility, a mutual responsibility, a responsibility that is affectionate, righteous and sincere;

Marriage is a kind of tolerance, mutual recognition of tolerance, and tolerance of doing your best and wholeheartedly for you;

Marriage is an understanding