What is the hardest thing in life to bear?

It's that after winning 5 million two-color balls, I found that the ticket was missing, which was the most unbearable!

Gathering and separation, seeking and disillusionment throughout the ages, never stopping, maybe the only meaning of life is, you think, it is meaningful.

If it weren't for the shortness of youth, who would want to live a long life? The young and frivolous Du Fu made a heroic oath of "being at the top of the mountain, looking at the mountains", he stood in front of the examination room, a breeze blew through the hem of this young man's clothes, but it did not take away his disillusionment of the dream of "being a marquis immediately". The young man who was bound to win before the release of the list was now knocked on the head by the "cat man", and he was sad.

Do dreams really exist? The sudden Anshi Rebellion brought a document to Du Fu. At this time, Du Fu was no longer the high-spirited young man, and that letter disrupted his originally stable life, and quietly tugged at his heartstrings.

It is useless to regret and hate, and the road is bumpy like this. Du Fu stood in front of the prosperous Chang'an City in the past, and a thousand wisps of emotion came to his heart. Who would have thought that the soldiers who came to "greet" him were here to capture him?

Du Fu was trapped in Chang'an, and this captivity, that is, ten years. Ten years is not a long time, but it is enough to bring the capital to fall; Ten years is not a short time, and the mountains and rivers are still the same. Spring came to Chang'an City, but the grass was overgrown in front of him, Du Fu sat in a shady corner, staring at the trembling and yellowed documents in his hands, "feeling the flowers splashing tears, hating the birds and frightening", I don't know when the official army will be able to quell the rebellion; I don't know how my wife and children live in the chaos of war; I don't know when that letter will come to him ......All kinds of thoughts haunted him, how could he weep without seeing the flowers, and be frightened when he smelled the birds?

I don't know anything about regret and envy, but I sigh that the sea has changed into a mulberry field.

Disillusionment again and again, always pursuing, is it really meaningful? Du Fu spent his whole life looking at it from afar and sighing in vain. Even if there is the ambition of Lingyun, there is no chance of soaring; He was already in the twilight of his old age, and it was still too late, he looked up at Hengshan in front of him, and was discouraged.

How he had longed to reach the top and see far away. However, in the second year of his "hardship, bitterness, hatred, frost and sideburns, and pouring down the new turbid wine glass", he was robbed of his life by time. Is there really such a thing as fate in this world?

I don't have an answer, and the world has never done it to anyone.

Should people be content with life, or should they pursue it desperately? Du Fu's life can be seen as a process of continuous exploration and disillusionment, in the end, his dream has not been realized, so is his life wasted? I don't think so.

Isn't the only meaning of life that you think is meaningful? Whatever the outcome, isn't it the process of seeking that matters? Regardless of the disillusionment of the world, if you work hard, it is meaningful, and I think this is the unbearable weight of life.

Adapt measures to local conditions, time conditions, and people's conditions:

When wandering in a foreign land, not being able to return to the roots is a burden that life cannot bear;

When thousands of families are reunited, not being able to share the family is a burden that life cannot bear;

In a slave who keeps money, suddenly being nameless and penniless is the unbearable weight of life;

For a person who chases fame, it is the unbearable weight of life to be unable to make a name for himself;

Yu is a profit-seeker, and he can't see that the house full of gold and jade is the unbearable weight of life;

In a fist, the son wants to raise but does not treat the family is the unbearable weight of life;

Complicated world, thousands of human feelings, what you value the most, but you can't get it; What you care about most has been lost.

-This has become an unbearable weight in your life!

Adapt measures to local conditions, time conditions, and people's conditions:

When wandering in a foreign land, not being able to return to the roots is a burden that life cannot bear;

When thousands of families are reunited, not being able to share the family is a burden that life cannot bear;

In a slave who keeps money, suddenly being nameless and penniless is the unbearable weight of life;

For a person who chases fame, it is the unbearable weight of life to be unable to make a name for himself;

Yu is a profit-seeker, and he can't see that the house full of gold and jade is the unbearable weight of life;

In a fist, the son wants to raise but does not treat the family is the unbearable weight of life;

Complicated world, thousands of human feelings, what you value the most, but you can't get it; What you care about the most, but you have lost it--- which has become an unbearable weight in your life!

Man lives. In order to experience joys and sorrows, birth, old age, sickness and death, in order to understand what people live for?

In order to realize their own ideals, pursuits, goals, desires and values.

It's tiring, it's hard.

Because the society is very unfair, the ants are early, and they are very helpless to live.

If you are sad and sad, you have to cry, and if you find something to do, you will not be bored.

Because that's how life is.

No one's life is smooth sailing.

As long as you work hard, it's wonderful!

Be optimistic about anything.

Keep a normal heart.

Life is inevitably about falling and waiting.

Be brave enough to look up.

The sun is always after the storm!

I'll give you advice, can you see it?

1.Look at the world with another eye, not everyone in this world is very smooth, just look at how you solve it, for example, you were hit by someone while walking, others apologized to you, sometimes you still feel very angry, but you didn't expect that the person who hit you was actually more uncomfortable than you, or think about the sentence "Happy is also a day of sullen sparrows, unhappy is also a day, why not be happy every day".

2.If you think that you are in a bad mood, you will be in a bad mood, then you don't need to think about it, if you still want to, then keep yourself busy, let yourself have no time to think about it, let yourself live every minute to the fullest, and then don't fall in love with the bed after waking up in the morning, get up when you wake up, get busy, open the window, breathe in the fresh morning air, relax your whole body, and let yourself imagine a happy little angel ......

3.Choose a place with fresh air, quiet surroundings, soft light, undisturbed and free movement, and take a position that you feel comfortable in, standing, sitting or lying down.

4.Move some large joints and muscles of the body, the speed should be even and slow when doing it, and the action does not need to have a certain format, as long as you feel the joints let go and the muscles relax.

5.Take a deep breath, inhale slowly and exhale slowly, saying "relax" in your mind whenever you exhale.

6.Focus your attention on some everyday objects. For example, look at a flower, a little candlelight, or anything soft and beautiful, and look closely at its subtleties. Light some spices and inhale the aroma of it.

7.Close your eyes and try to imagine some quiet and beautiful scenes, such as blue waters, golden beaches, white clouds, mountains and waters, etc.

8.Do activities that you enjoy that have nothing to do with the specific things at hand. For example, swimming, taking a hot bath, shopping, listening, watching TV, etc.

9.Life is easy, life is easy, life is not easy. Don't worry, there are a lot of people in this society who are almost like you, but they are all living happily, not everyone can succeed, as long as you work hard to treat everything, take life seriously, as long as you take every day seriously, no matter how your life is, I believe it is wonderful.

Living in a dream and unable to extricate yourself.

It is said that it is an unbearable weight, as big as life and death, as small as sesame trivialities. I think the question is reversed, what weight can be carried in life. For something to be able to bear weight, it needs to have a certain amount of strength.

This weight can be less than its mass or greater than its mass. Returning to the question itself, the key is whether you yourself feel that life is powerful. If you don't think there is, then you also feel that sesame seeds are very heavy, and if you think there is, then life and death are all feathers.

Because life is accidental, death is inevitable, and when you are born in this world, it is doomed (of course, discarding possible biological means in the future), so I think the question is mainly about your self-knowledge.

I think it should be the death of a loved one! Everything can be started all over again, only life, only the sudden departure of loved ones, which cannot be remedied and irretrievable, this is the unbearable weight of most of our lives!

In fact, whether it is "The Unbearable Weight of Life" or "The Unbearable Lightness of Life", it is a part of weaving our complete life, for nature, some things should be understood as soon as possible The laws of nature cannot be changed, even if the body falls into the abyss, the soul flows into the infernal hell, you can't refuse, everything that happens is inevitable, since it happened, face it bravely, don't go to the poetry and wine to sigh that life is short, to let the sun fill every tomorrow, and then naturally go through life is the most complete life, Looking back, it's ridiculous and tearful, and it's enough for a lifetime.

Probably the death of a relative, the grandfather who loved me the most died last year, I was preparing for the exam at the time, my family was afraid of disturbing me and didn't tell me, and when I finished the exam, I found that the grandfather who loved me the most was gone, and I couldn't see her for the last time, which was a heart-rending pain.

Have it? Yes, there must be. At least for most people.

Forgive me for not being able to go into details. Just wanted to tell everyone that death is not the most terrible thing. Knowing how to die and not being able to change is the most painful thing.

Don't overthink it, wash and sleep. I wish you all good health and all the best.

We can't be demanding of external changes, the pillar of life is always to seek inward, only in this way when the outside world no matter what changes happen, you can have the courage to live calmly.

My father died, and his heart hurt so much that he couldn't breathe, and life was better than death.