It s so tangled,,About love, who will help me

There are many examples of abandoning their studies because of love, and those who are particularly envied in the eyes of others and have good grades in love can only be done by two particularly rational people. Young and frivolous, there will always be mistakes. Love and school, when you really understand and measure clearly, then you may have fallen out of love, or gone to college.

When you look back, you'll wonder how you made these mistakes in the past. Based on my own experience and opinion, studies are far more important than love. When you go to college, you have time to find someone who is a good fit, and that person is not necessarily the person you are liking right now.

The reason why the society keeps saying that college students are not good in school is because college students spend a lot of time falling in love and playing games. Unless you are both relatively rational at this stage, you can join in the learning part of your love. There is also an example around me, the girl's mother knew that the girl had a boyfriend, and then the mother grabbed the two of them to study, and finally both went to undergraduate college.

The girl's one is one.

I haven't been in contact with you, I don't know what kind of personality you are, and your psychological maturity. But generally speaking, when a person is in a problem, his judgment and thinking will be much lower, and if you think that you are mentally mature enough, then you can try to calm down and think about the pros and cons. The calm way of weighing the pros and cons I think you, as a good high school student, should have your own set.

And I don't think that falling in love and declining grades are necessarily contradictory, I think that as long as your relationship does not affect your concentration in class and study, and properly handle the time relationship between your study and love (in fact, the time of study and love coincides, mainly depends on what you think), I personally think that you may have better academic performance because of mutual supervision.

Also, no matter what you choose now, it doesn't really matter, your life path is still long, long, if you are together, your academic performance really drops, you don't get into a good university or your grades don't drop and you get admitted to a good university, or you are not together. It's just that the path is different. Life is faced with choices all the time, and maybe the choices you think are wrong now will be the right ones in the future.

It is said that a person who loves to learn, a person who works hard, can achieve his life goals without going to a good university, but going to a good university and having a good guide may make you achieve your goals faster.

Finally, add that the power of time is powerful and no matter how painstakingly memorable things time can dilute it. Hehe, no matter what you choose, in a few years or more you look back on the past deep down and maybe there will be a little pleasure.

If there is anything else you want to ask me, you can ask me directly).

I'm a girl in her 20s, give you an analysis of your personal feelings, everyone will encounter such a choice of bread and love, love is something that can not be met in the world, in front of true lovers, love is still the only thing that money can't buy, in fact, you are very tired, if you really want to love your boyfriend boldly, you have to bear everything you choose, like you said, he doesn't understand why you lose your temper, he doesn't understand the suffering you endure behind your back, he can't buy you what you want. You are a little tempted by the person your parents introduced to you, but I can tell you clearly that even if that person is in good condition, you will still encounter the problems you say, quarrels, incomprehension, suspicion, and doubt. Many people have said that the person who gets married in the end is often not the person they love the most, I can't tell you how you should choose, I can only help you analyze, and in the end you have to make your own decision.

In fact, you have the answer in your heart, you just want to be with this boyfriend in your heart, but you are a little tired in the face of pressure, you just want to find comfort here, let people affirm that your choice is right, right? You just need strength and courage. I'm also a girl who struggles with love, sometimes happy and sometimes sad in love, but I never regret my choice, are you like this?

Oh, girl, that's all I can say, it's all the truth I said from my heart, good luck.

1. The conditions are 100 times stronger, how do you know that your classmate has no development ability, and if you love someone, you have to have some expectations for him.

Second, everyone has the right to choose their life, of course, parents always want their children to be happy, which produces that women must marry high, so men have to work hard.

Third, classmates are immature, what is maturity, that is a relative noun, of course, you have not long since you graduated, and what you need is to grow up after experience.

Fourth, I do not need to be too anxious now, you can test your classmates more, feelings are going through wind and rain, learn to let yourself learn more to see the big thing of this choice, but there is a way to choose happiness, you may have to choose hardship at the same time, choose to introduce this now, of course, you may also be happy, but this may bring material satisfaction, spiritual food, you consider yourself, the third eye provides is very objective, because I don't know much about love, which needs you to grasp it yourself, with reason to grasp the feelings, will make you much easier.

I don't think your mother did the right thing either, because who you are with is not a person who can know the conclusion of the future blessings. You may want to consider meeting the man to ease your mother's mood. You also have to find out the reason, see what your mother really didn't like about your former boyfriend?

Is there really a wrong side of him to hide from you to solve the fundamental problem, at this time you must be calm, don't believe the surface, and listen to a person's voice carefully. If you understand someone's mind, then you will know who to choose, because people always change. The choice of happiness can only be grasped by oneself.

No one can help you. Happiness should be in the future, because the happiness in the present is very unreliable, and people will always become good or bad. Whether it's him in the past or him now, doesn't this mean anything?

Everything in life should start after you choose. The voice of the heart is the most beautiful. You have to believe.

You think too much, it's easy for girls to get old when they're so entangled. You refuse to go on a blind date because you can't let him go, and the only thing you want to go on a blind date is because you are afraid that he will change his mind. Then why don't you tell him about your troubles and pressure, the pressure you are bearing for him, he should know that he should bear it with you, so that he will not give up the hard-won feelings so easily, and you will no longer hesitate.

Everything from the heart, believe in yourself, and don't say much.

Decide for yourself Don't regret deciding But I advise you After all, your relationship for so many years must be better than your later one, although the material and reality are more cruel But you can't have both fish and bear's paws If you want to love or live, decide for yourself.

First: Your parents don't like young people. What about you?

Second: Do you know that there are so many problems that linger in this so-called person you love, and so many problems are called love? To truly love one another is to accept all that he has, the good and the bad, and to accept all of him.

Obviously, you are just used to him, not really love him! Because you are not single-minded (at least ideologically);

Third: Clear all your thoughts and be yourself!

Good luck ......

Two people together is to be happy, they are happy, he is also happy, if there are other elements in love, what kind of love can be talked about, such impure love can only hurt each other, what you are afraid of is not losing but gaining the Tao again, the reality is not that fairy tales always have a happy ending, give yourself a chance to give him a chance to start a new relationship.

Don't you think, in fact, you don't love your current boyfriend very much, and you're afraid that the blind date will have feelings for him, which can only mean that you are still hesitant to be with him subconsciously... I'm in the same situation, but I'm better than you, my boyfriend has a younger brother, so he is willing to accommodate me to settle in my city, my parents are always for you, if you feel that you are sure enough in the future to persuade his parents to accept you, you can also tolerate his conditions, and if you live a lifetime, then you can continue to be together In fact, you have already compared these two people in your heart, and the things you tend to have a good family background Otherwise, you won't hesitate... His happiness doesn't have to be given by you Are you sure he only loves you in this life If you share it with him, he will be single for the rest of his life?? Think about it for yourself and for your parents.

Let's go meet the one introduced first, maybe I also have a feeling, the eyes of the family are bright, they have more experience than you in the things they like, and you are not sure of many things in your first love, so go on a blind date.

This is not a very comprehensive question, how old is your brother? How old is that girl? This has a lot to do with age, 1. Your brother's age is similar to that girl's, so you should try to let your brother get in touch with other girls, and reveal other girls' information in life and ordinary conversations, so that he can slowly fade his thoughts about that girl subconsciously.

2. If your brother is a persistent person and will not be easily shaken, then you have to consider what you have to rent for him as your brother's relative, the girl has no desire for love, then he must have a suitable reason for rejecting your brother (I absolutely don't believe that he doesn't want to deal with this statement) from your brother himself and the girl to see if there is anything to discover, such as the girl has a favorite boy, or she doesn't like your brother's character, or something else.

Probably try it from the above two aspects first, I hope it will help you, don't forget to give me and points.

Hot and cold, less talking and more eye contact, hahaha I haven't failed.

How old is your brother, you help me spread, ask your brother to tell you about the girl's situation, you help refer to it, and if necessary, I still want you to help sing the double reed.

I summarize the following points:

Your brother is a "lover", no matter whose woman it is, as long as he likes it, he only cares about what he likes.

Your brother does not cherish your brotherly feelings, knows people and faces but does not know their hearts, and you must see people's hearts clearly when making friends. If the brother can't do it, just say it, lest the two people face each other ugly.

What I want to tell you is not to treat the dog as a human being, let it pass if you can, and don't make yourself miserable because of one particular thing.

You are a good man, dare to love, dare to hate, dare to be jealous!

Your girlfriend is a very good woman, she knows who she loves knows what she loves, she knows what a husband is, and the love that never leaves is a good love, and I hope you can continue.

Don't take the little things to heart, don't make friends with dogs, take every relationship seriously, friendship or love.

I know you won't be able to listen to what I'm saying, but I hope it helps!

Let's talk to your girlfriend about it, you two talk well, no one can break it down.

Take care of your wife, nothing else matters.

This kind of relationship with no history and not enough time to meet, I am not optimistic, if it happens often like what you said, it is better for one of you to make sacrifices and live with each other, or it will be a good breakup.

I think you should break up with her She doesn't deserve your love She's depraved like this If not, she shouldn't do this to you She may still be in love with her ex-boyfriend If you don't want to do that, you can talk to her someday If you don't like the outcome of your talk I think you should break up with her Since you say you're a single parent You don't want your marriage to be like this Then I think you might as well break up with her.

Sooner or later, she will be taken on by someone if she continues like this. Talk to her and break up if you don't change

Let's communicate well, and break up if it's a big deal.

Let's talk to her! If your girlfriend can change for you and forget everything she used to do, then you can still love, the key is whether she can let go of that love now, it is better to find someone you love than to find someone who loves you!

It depends on whether your feelings are deep, if two love each other, you have to trust, don't doubt, if the two of you haven't reached that kind of heaviness, please think twice, because no one knows what you said in the future, love is also like gambling, if you think you can gamble all for her, then don't hesitate, even if you lose, you are willing. If you don't feel sure, then bet less or not at all, it's up to you.

Your girlfriend didn't do anything! Even if you break up with your ex-boyfriend, those are still friends, it's no big deal to sing k, don't care too much, usually play **, meet, you feel like she likes you.

If you're going to be together for a long time, you should communicate well.