Boyfriend, we love each other, but we don t have money, it s difficult to even rent a house, and we

Updated on psychology 2024-02-22
44 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If you don't have money, I don't think you should be together for the time being, because even if you are together, if you don't have any material conditions, you will still break up in the end.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Your boyfriend goes to buy it with you, but you have the money to rent a house, and you can't be together. This is a very real problem in the material society. Is there love or bread?

    Therefore, many young people choose bread at a critical time, so that some would rather cry in the BMW than laugh on the bicycle.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    You and your boyfriend are in love, but you have no money, you don't even have money to rent a house, you have to fight on your own, work hard, struggle, start from scratch to improve your financial situation, protect your love, there is no other way.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Boyfriend, you love each other but you don't have money, it's difficult to even rent a house, you have to look for a job, and after you find a job, you can have money to pay the rent and live together.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Then go to the factory to work there to take care of food and housing, so that you can save money, and if you have money, you can rent a house, and then you can find a better job, save money, and finally buy a house.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Find someone who truly belongs to you! Every day for a person who does not belong to you, waste time not to say, but also consume energy, have so much energy to go out to do good deeds, do more things to dedicate love, you will find that happiness is so simple, when countless people recognize you, you will forget all your troubles.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    In this case, two people should work together to earn money. Slowly this can change. Two people must bear hardships and stand hard work. You can make money.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If you don't have money, then you have to continue to work hard to make money at this time, so since you love each other, two people have to work together to fight for life, so at this time, you can find a job first.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    This requires the two of you to truly love each other, it doesn't matter if you have money or not, the two of you can work together to create wealth.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Boys still have to have their own jobs and prepare for the future between you.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    If you are very compatible, and you are willing to start from scratch and share the hardships, then you will be happy, and there will be bread.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    In this case, it depends on whether he works hard or not? If he is very self-motivated and hardworking, he will be okay and slowly boil together.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    The feelings are very sweet, but the reality is very cruel. I think you should work together and share the ups and downs.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Then the two of them work together to earn money. In this way, you will not have any livelihood security, so you must work hard.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    As long as there is love, in those two people, as long as they work together, they will definitely live well, and perseverance is victory.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Boyfriend, you love each other but you have no money, it's difficult to even rent a house, and you often can't be together, it's okay, you can live a good brother's relationship.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    If you don't have money with your boyfriend, you need two people to negotiate how to work and make money in order to have a better life.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Since you both like each other, you might as well work together to earn money, and you should be able to buy a small house in about 5 years.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Boyfriend, we love each other, but we don't have money, it's difficult to even rent a house, and we often can't get together, what should we do? You two work hard together and go to work together!

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Then the two of them go out together to make money?

    Now you can make money doing anything, you must be self-reliant and work hard!

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Personally, I think that if you get along with your boyfriend, if the economic conditions are not good, you can't even afford to rent a house, which means that this man is not worth entrusting.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Then I think this is your biggest test, if you can pass, you will definitely be able to be together happily ever after. This is a threshold that you need to overcome together.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Two people who love each other are often defeated by real life, and two people should work together to change their lives.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Of course, it's still okay for two people to go out and earn money together to support themselves.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    If you can't be together, then you will break up directly, what else can you do?

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    I don't think I know, it's not good for you, you have to look at you when you have a lot of money now, and you have heard it yourself, so it depends on your own actions.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Your love won't last long, and if you're poor like this, it's basically going to end, I'm serious.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Boyfriend, you love each other but you don't have any money. It's difficult to even rent a house, there is no economy, what kind of love do you have, and now there is no financial support for love, do you think you can go long?

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Judging from your description, you and your boyfriend are very much in love, but there is no money in it, and now it is very difficult to even rent a house, and often cannot be together. You can let both parents subsidize you for a while, and you have to work hard to save more money, so as to reduce your rental pressure.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Men don't dare to cry because it is shameful and timid to cry.

    zhi's is a useless performance. No dao man would think that his inner content was useless, so men didn't dare to cry.

    Women can't bear a man's crying because a man's crying provokes a woman's unconscious reaction: Can a man who can cry bring a sense of security to himself? Can it bring happiness?

    When both parties are unable to face the other's vulnerability, love cannot be sublimated, and the door to further affection cannot be opened. Both sides always feel like they can't get close, and they want to merge but can't get along.

    It's a feeling that is uncomfortable and can't be described, but it has to be expressed. So it can only be expressed in a grave, and the real meaning should be: on the road of love, I met a door that I couldn't walk through, and this door led to the fragility of the hearts of both parties.

    Marriage is never the grave of love, it's just that we can't walk through the door of vulnerability. Marriage is the sublimation of love, and it depends on how we walk through the door of vulnerability.

    It's not just marriages that have graves, but any relationship that involves intimacy. Because we would rather die than expose our vulnerability. Because in our experience, if we show vulnerability, we can be abandoned by our parents who are said to love us the most, and it is even harder for others to believe.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Wait until you have money later. Let's rent a house! I think so. Right now. It's just that I live in the factory.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Why? If you don't have money temporarily, you don't have to live together, but you can be good if you don't live together! As long as two people work together, have a common goal, and stand in a common goal, there is nothing difficult for you to work hard.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    People will always encounter difficulties, and this is also the time to test people, as the so-called real gold is not afraid of fire, difficulties will always pass, there will always be clouds and fog when the fog disperses, please give him some encouragement and understanding, a good woman can make his man more excellent and powerful, I believe you will be fine.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Can't afford to rent expensive ones, can't you afford to rent cheap ones! Distance.

    Far away, remote, naturally cheap! Yes or not.

    What about proprietary work?

    Far away from the company, get up early and take the bus to squeeze the subway.

    In fact, I think that when two people are together, no matter how rich they become in the future, the most memorable, the happiest, or the hard days they have gone through together! The warmth of each other is so beautiful.

    My personal feeling is this!

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    When I got married, I could say that I was destitute, not to mention having a house, not even savings, and even foreign debts, but my wife still chooses to be with me, but the two of us now have a small family through hard work, we have everything that others have, and I am also very satisfied, but more grateful to her, because I know that if it weren't for her existence, I wouldn't be able to have everything I have today.

    Therefore, even if two people who truly love each other can't afford to buy a house, they will be happy if they rent a house together after getting married, the key is whether the two people have a common language and common values, which is very important. Everything that two people have worked hard to get together, and they will cherish this rare emotion, so the husband and wife can be rich together, but they can't suffer together, and those marriages based on material often end up in divorce because of some changes.

    I highly recommend this kind of naked marriage couple, this is the end of marriage for the sake of true love. I remember after we got married, we moved three times, and finally bought a house with a down payment after three years of marriage, and now the mortgage on the house has been almost repaid, which is considered to be a foothold in this big city. A house cannot be said to be the foundation of a happy marriage, but Chinese are more traditional and think that having their own house is what it looks like to have a home.

    It has been almost 10 years since I got married together, and I feel that the relationship between me and my wife has always been like a state of love, perhaps it is the spirit of mutual affection and warmth between husband and wife that has always made our relationship particularly close. I also firmly believe that our love can continue to grow old, because I know that the love between us has long been sublimated into family affection, which is difficult to partAlthough life is very ordinary, they are so satisfied with each other.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Renting a house will make you happy, mainly depends on how the two people manage their married lives.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    It depends on whether you have a high demand for a house. If you don't have high requirements for a house after marriage, it's too late to buy a house after you struggle.

  38. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    will also be happy, happiness or not, it is not decided whether there is a house or not, even if there is a house, whether two people should be happy or unhappy.

  39. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    At first, you will feel happy but after a long time there is no fixed place to live, and you feel that it is okay, your parents may oppose it, thinking that the man has no future, which will have a great impact.

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    As long as the two of you report to each other, understand each other, and work hard together, you will definitely be happy. Renting a house is temporary, I believe that you are diligent and willing to work, everything will be there and you will be happy.

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    Both people can't afford to buy a house, and they live in a lot of rented houses when they get married, as long as the two people are in agreement, have the same three views, and know that working hard, it is completely fine to rent a house and get married first. After marriage, two people earn money together to make a down payment, help each other, supervise each other, make progress together, learn to live, and have joy in suffering. I believe that I will buy my own house soon.

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    If two people truly love each other and have the same goal, they will be happy even if they rent a house, but they must also have a plan to save money to buy a house, and they can't always rent a house.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    Long-term renting will definitely not be happy, if you want to live a better life, it is best for two people to save money to buy a house, after all, children's education problems, settlement and other problems need to have a house.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    You may be happy, but you will also have more problems to face. Families always need a stable environment, and renting a house sometimes requires moving, or rent, which is easy to produce insecurity, and it also has an impact on the relationship between two people.

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