My boyfriend has a very bad temper and is very short tempered, should we get married?

In fact, the interaction between people is like this, at the beginning, it is easy to say anything, but after slowly getting acquainted, some of the other party's little temper will be revealed.

Speaking of which, I would like to ask you a question: Do you silently ask yourself, do you love him? Is he good to himself?

If you love him, you should learn to tolerate everything about him, use your love to influence him, and make him have no temper;

And if he really loves you and is good to you, you can't deny him because he has a bad temper, it's not easy to find a lover, you have to learn to cherish each other and tolerate each other;

Marriage is a lifelong thing, before you get married, you must ask your heart, whether he is worth it for him and endure for him.

Think about your original intention of getting married, think about your previous experiences, everyone has good and bad sides, see which of his good and bad prevails, in fact, the answer is easy to unravel.

I advise you not to have anything to do with him. This kind of man is not a man, with a small belly, no measurement at all, and now he is like this to you before he is married Once you are married, he will be even more violent, and some small things may become big thingsLife is so long, do you think you will spend the rest of your life in quarrels and regrets?

As for your concerns, although it will be a little embarrassing to break up, some people will chew on the root of their tongues. But they'll forget about it after a while, or you can change jobs.

He has the same temper as I do

If you describe it, he's one of those very possessive men, which means that he has the final say in everything

As for the question of bargaining with a fortune teller, it depends on who it is, some people don't care about money, but some people don't, because it's really hard to make money, and if it were me, I'd definitely bargain

It's come to this point, if you feel that you have real feelings, then go ahead, if you don't have any feelings, then what other ideas do you think for yourself

His temper must be changed Driving on the road is not okay Two big living people in it As for whether you have any bad habits or something I don't know if you have any bad habits If you have it, you have to reflect on it yourself The boss is not small If there is no big problem, the two of them will live a good life together

Personally, I think marriage is important, and there is nothing to worry about at work. Jobs can be changed, but marriage is not just about changing. With such machismo, I don't think my life was going to be easy when I married him.

After a quick look at your description above, I don't think this boyfriend is too suitable for marriage, because you will have a long life in the future! If you do this for the rest of your life, you will be more miserable. But you have to be careful, because after all, you've been together for so long.

From a man's point of view, don't tie the knot. Otherwise, you will definitely regret it for a lifetime, and instead of a painful life and a tangled divorce, it is better to make up your mind now. Remember, remember, remember ......

His psychology is not yet old enough to get married, so let's say goodbye.

Don't want it! It's hard to think ?? you and your children in the future

After the two get married, they have to get along for a lifetime, if they worry about some trivial things all day long, what if the time of the life is so long?

In a word, you can't marry him.

Isn't it already over? Of course, divorce is possible, but why not get married early and prevent it?

You've only been together for half a year and you're ready to get married, you're too hasty.

Gossip "is a moment. My happiness is a lifetime.

Hmph、Grumpy stinky man、Orbe。

Such a man should break up. Just for your own sake. It's also for his sake.

Since there is no feeling of happiness together. What else to talk about getting married. I read your description after that.

I think you're worse than a junior high school student falling in love. If he loves you, he will work hard and earn money. Instead of playing games at home.

I want to ask you, what do you love about him? Does he love you?

If it were me, I would never get engaged to him, a man is so calculating with his girlfriend, he will not hurt you in the future, if you get married and have children, he would rather play games than work hard to earn more money, it means that he is a very lazy person, and he can't earn the child's milk powder money.

I think the shortcomings you mentioned in the title boil down to the fact that he doesn't have a sense of responsibility and doesn't know how old your boyfriend is. If it's still young, then maybe it will be better in a few years. It's not easy for two people to walk together.

I think you're disgusted with him right now, and you're not as good as him. All you see is his shortcomings. I think he still has merit and attraction for you, otherwise you wouldn't be so entangled now.

I think you should be patient and enlighten him. Don't complain about him when you quarrel, it's not good, that's not good. When you are both happy, you talk to him something from your heart.

Say what kind of hope you have for him. I hope you will be in a state in the future or something. Let's see if it's going to be a little better.

Landlord, in fact, the most important thing for two people to be together is to be happy! But you're not happy now, let alone after you get married! Sometimes people who love each other don't have to worry too much about each other, but if the other party does too much, it will make you very disgusted, which will only make you feel that this man is stingy!

It's better to separate as soon as the two of them are unhappy together, and don't get married and divorce when the time comes! Better a finger off than always aching! Break up if it's right!

Don't think about it that much!

You can already see from your account that you are disappointed in him, and your attitude is obvious, why should you seek other people's opinions? Maybe you want to be a little more justified and separate from him. So, I can tell you very clearly that such a boyfriend, it's good to divide early, otherwise there will be endless skin in the future

I'm speechless I'm glad you dare that you haven't married him and have no children, if that's the case you really won't be saved I'm younger than you But I'm married My husband is better than him I still think some things are not good He that, alas, look at what you wrote If it were someone else, would you laugh at that woman for being stupid I suggest you give him one last chance to talk to him or find a way to let him know what he should care about you It's okay to be separated for a while I think it's hard for you to leave him Otherwise it wouldn't be like this May you find happiness.

Hahahaha, if you want to say that, this man shouldn't be in anyone's hands! Have you ever wondered if you have the same shortcomings that make others see them that way? Does he have anything you like, you keep saying that he is not good, in fact, he still has advantages, otherwise, no fool will go to the point of talking about marriage with such a person.

If you don't like it, just divide it, and if you still like it, save it, it's up to you. Have a good talk with him, you don't like him like this, if he really hasn't changed, you can't stand it, points! Resolute points, hesitation will cause lifelong regrets.

Actually, you already have the answer in mind, don't you? It's just that you lack a reason to decide. Then I'll give you a reason to leave him:

You can try to imagine your married life, he doesn't pay for firewood, rice, oil and salt, he would rather spend the money in the virtual world than buy you a small gift, even if it is to buy you a piece of chocolate, the woman will be sweet for a long time. You will also be reduced to an ATM that he doesn't need to insert a card to show off to his fox friends.

If you break up with him now, you will definitely have to get back the 36,000, then, you give it to him, depending on how shameless he is, it is estimated that he will still plot your car, then you don't have to give him face, whether it is through legal means, or stabbing **, I think ** is very happy to broadcast this kind of show. Skimmed cleanly, and shared the profits.

It's very deserving, and it's better to look for it.

Then divide it, people have to respect each other.

We can't blindly accommodate, we should understand each other, and it's not okay to live a noisy life.

It is better to teach people to beat boys, and not to teach people to divide their wives!! My temper is the same as your boyfriend's, absolutely the same, you two just sit down and have a good talk and settle this matter!!

It's not okay to live like this, so talk to your boyfriend about his temper.

A big man, think clearly before you can register.

I'm also a grumpy!

But I don't lose my temper with my wife's family.

If you have a big temper with your family, especially your wife, (not to mention that you haven't got it yet), then you have to be careful to observe your character.

If the conditions are superior, you are usually not stingy, and I will say no to your recent situation!

If you are usually stingy too, but honor your parents. If you don't have a group of friends, you may be a man who lives a life, and a man who lives a normal life doesn't go there, hehe.

Is it because of money to lose your temper?

Do you lose your temper often?

Be careful! Observe if he has violent tendencies!

Don't regret it later!

Can't get married.

It's hard to be happy in this marriage.

Now hesitate. Regret it in the future.

Maybe he hates church weddings and wants to keep it simple, not like the TV series.

You ask your boyfriend to change his temper, but if he can, he can't get married, and he can't pull it down, so that he can fall in love with other women and abandon you in the future.

If it's really not suitable, just divide it, and it's not a way to delay it for too long.

It's better to think again.

The temper is so short-tempered, and it is the same after marriage.

I can't change my character.

Unless you change yourself, control your emotions.

First of all, you have only been in contact for two months, and the other party's temper makes you intolerable, so if you get married hastily, will your married life be sweet? If he still yells at you, or even scolds you, you will not tolerate it, you have to think about this clearly. Marriage is a woman's lifelong business, and she can't lose her mind because of one or two sweet words and impulsive feelings, of course, I know, you are not that kind of person.

The most important thing for both husband and wife is care and forbearance, if you can't stand your boyfriend's short temper, break up decisively, the long pain is better than the short pain, find a man who really loves himself and cares for himself. If you can endure and believe that your relationship will last, then please move on firmly. Don't hesitate, happiness is your own.

No matter what choice you make, don't say that you regret it, even if it's a wrong, painful choice, because in this way, you are worthy of your heart, and I sincerely hope that you will be happy. >_

In fact, you know how to do it in your heart, but you still have some concerns, or follow your ideas, this is a lifelong thing, and now you have seen the signs, why continue, after listening to your statement, I think there is really no need to continue, you have only been together for two months now, and after a long time, you don't have to rush to divide it, do you realize that you can live with this kind of person for a lifetime, do you think his character will be a good father in the future? I never deal with a boy with a bad temper, not to mention that your boyfriend is obviously of poor quality, you better break it up quickly, otherwise you will suffer in the future

You're right to be worried! A male.

Sheng, he is generally very good to his girlfriend when he is patting, and his bad temper will appear when he is married. It is recommended that you do not marry him, and persuade you to find a chance to break up with him, this kind of boy is not only not suitable for being a husband, but even a boyfriend is not qualified! Unreasonable, disrespectful of girls' ideas, too bad temper, and turning off the phone and ignoring girlfriends, absolutely don't get it!

Hurry up and break up, if you marry him, think about how you will live your life in the future? It's going to be painful for a lifetime! I wish you a quick solution to the problem and a happy day!

After reading your description, I feel that you and your boyfriend will not be happy in the future! Boys should be generous, considerate, and self-contained, a boy who loves to scold and lose his temper at every turn, first of all, there is a problem with his character, you are just beginning, he is like this, he doesn't know how to respect you at all, let alone take care of you in the future. I advise you to think carefully about your emotional destiny, think about what you really need, and what you want from your other half.

If he can't give you this, then you don't waste your time and your feelings! Find a boy who knows how to feel sorry for you and take care of you!

You tell him what you think, why do you get angry at every turn, or you put up with his anger, or he changes his temper. It is usually the boy who voluntarily admits his mistakes, even if he is right.

I have a feeling that he doesn't respect you at all.

You love him so much??

Don't score anything. It's just that there is a kind of person who scolds you, who actually cares about you, but he can't express it. So, you just ignore him, you bask him, you beg him, and then you become active, he becomes passive, and then you force him to tell the truth, not to curse.

If you have too much temper, if you get married, you won't be taken seriously.