How to solve the confession to the boy will keep the relationship as a friend, because it is not sui

Updated on psychology 2024-02-09
24 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Just keep the relationship you have!

    Or tell him! If you like it, you have to wait! See if he really likes you!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Make it clear directly, don't let him have the illusion that he can continue to develop, and say that he can continue to be friends, but it still depends on whether your friend can maintain his previous mentality and continue to date, and it is generally difficult to return to the feeling of being a friend before after being rejected, and it will always be a little embarrassing.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If you have feelings for him, tell him the truth, what you think now, tell him that it is not suitable for a relationship now, if he really loves you, he will always wait for you, tell him, what kind of life you want, if he loves you, he will try to give you instead of thinking about how to fall in love, but thinking about how to struggle to meet your requirements!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Just say, you are very good, but I don't want to fall in love yet, give some time and space, after getting to know each other, the right time, the right place, fall in love with the right person, just the so-called right time, place and people, fall in love with each other at the right time.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It's best to be honest with him about what you think, because "it's not suitable for a relationship right now". Of course, you also have to make it clear to him whether you like him or not, and if you like each other, you can make an agreement, so that you will have expectations for the future. And if you don't like him, tell him honestly, lest he wait for you.

    In short, make decisions that are good for both parties, be honest and calm when talking to him, don't be rash, and let him feel your sincerity. If he is a considerate and generous boy, he should understand you.

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Tell him what you really think, only by being honest with each other can you know his attitude, if you don't fall in love with him, he won't be friends with you, then it is obvious that this person's purpose is not pure, and there is nothing to be sorry for. The main thing is that your problem is very frugal, I don't know your specific situation

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Direct but not reckless, don't go around the corner.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Funny, laugh at him, hahahahaha, is there any mistake. My mother doesn't want to fall in love now.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    People who love you will have a good impression of you because of appreciation, liking, admiration, and so on. It shows that you are attractive, this is an affirmation of you as a person, don't feel that tactful rejection is playing ambiguous, everyone is not a child anymore, being rejected and rejected is actually a truth.

    Therefore, how high emotional intelligence is to reject the person who loves you often determines the direction of your life.

    In fact, there is nothing wrong with being liked, other people's deep affection for you, even if you don't like it, search for it but don't treat it with such a perfunctory attitude, which not only makes others sad, but also hurts others' self-esteem.

    Whoever confesses is unwilling to be rejected, everyone will feel faceless and sad, but in the face of that kind of thing that cannot be changed, it is helpless. When I met someone to confess, I was actually very embarrassed at first, and I didn't know how to refuse. Later, she felt that other people's confessions were also someone else's sincerity.

    Therefore, every time I met someone else's confession, I listened attentively, and finally refused it with a joke.

    A lot of times, people think it's taking advantage of it, but it's not. It's just that in this world, meeting itself is a rare thing, and it is even more rare to be able to come together. If you can't be together, changing the relationship is also a kind of cherishing.

    Everyone's emotional outlook is different, some people think that there is no real friendship between men and women, and some people think that men and women can become real buddies, friends, and girlfriends. In fact, what kind of relationship it is, it all depends on the direction of one's heart.

    If you feel that you are friends with him, then use the relationship of friends, if you want to develop further, then try to change the relationship, if you just want to be closer, then be a girlfriend. What you do is entirely up to you.

    When a woman confesses in the face of a man, she must pay attention not to hurt the man's self-esteem too much, and not to be too arrogant. Other people's liking for you is an affirmation and appreciation of you, don't be dismissive in the face of such feelings. Letter Cave.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Generally, rational refusal should not be too stiff, tactful, kind, show intentions, and at the same time make the other party feel sincere, so that it can not only achieve the effect of rejection, but also not hurt the feelings of friends.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I think we are more suitable to be friends, just like Lu Chong now, I am in front of you, you think I am very good, but you don't know what I look like in private, we are not suitable for being a couple at all, we maintain a friend relationship to be able to accompany us all the time.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    The boy confessed that he wanted to refuse the bridge pin and wanted to continue to be friends with him, so don't refuse, leave some hope for Min Yuyou, so that he can dismantle the gang. If you say no outright, it's hard to stay friends.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Generally speaking, the boy's file key confession is rejected, and everyone will feel very awkward, and it is normal to think that the other party will not be dug up for a while.

    As long as the girl's words when she rejects the other person do not hurt his self-esteem, you can maintain a friendship relationship in the future.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    If you want to express a relationship with the other party, and you don't want to be with him, then you can only maintain a relatively bland relationship with this boy, but don't get too close, and you can divert the topic when he asks you.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    In fact, it can be more arrogant, to put it politely, we are only good friends. I've always treated you as a brother and sister, and I hope that our friendship will be strong.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    First, we are not suitable for living together quietly, only suitable for being friends, second, we resolutely do not do things that exceed the general luck and closed friends, and third, we can lengthen the contact and meeting cycle, and we can't be together every day.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Just make it clear to the other party that you don't want to be boyfriend and girlfriend with the other party. It's good to just be a regular friend.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    In fact, the boy's confession has already refused, so don't keep a friend relationship anymore, the relationship between the two of you, in fact, is very clear. Or do you want to be a regular friend?

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    It's okay to say, I'm sorry, we can only be friends, we can't be husband and wife.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    I think the biggest difference between boys and girls is the difference between the observation points. When two friends of the opposite sex get along together, the most embarrassing thing is that I treat you as a buddy, but you fall in love with me. Such a situation is a dilemma for both of them.

    If you don't know, it is estimated that it will hurt the heart of one party, and it may be a lasting injury, because if you don't show your attitude all the time, it will make the other party stay in love, and if you continue like this, it will delay the other party, but if you say your true feelings, it is possible that two people can't even be the least friends. This is the most embarrassing situation.

    Zhang Junning and Qiu Ze are both celebrities, Qiu Ze is one of Zhang Junning's many admirers, when Qiu Ze expressed his admiration to Zhang Junning, Zhang Junning's answer was: Thank you for your love. This not only politely rejected Qiu Ze, but also protected Qiu Ze's face, so that neither of them would be embarrassed.

    After reading this news at that time, the first thing I thought about was not to feel a pity, why did Zhang Junning dislike Qiu Ze? But Zhang Junning is really a woman with high emotional intelligence, which really makes me admire it very much.

    There is no shortage of suitors for good girls, but a good relationship is based on liking each other. If it's just one party in unrequited love, such feelings don't make any sense. You said that you grew up with friends, which means that you know each other well, and your temperament is generally clear, in this case, it is better to decline politely.

    Share to give you a little method, which is also the wisest way to refuse, which is also the wisest way to refuse: Have you ever seen a good brother fall in love? I'm not gay, am you?

    After reading this sentence, do you have any feelings, is it very suitable for you to decline this male friend, I hope it will help you.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    In fact, it's good to say it directly, any refusal is actually a kind of harm.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Just when the other party made a joke, and then put his arm around each other's shoulders and said that we will still be brothers in the future.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    It can be forcibly explained as the love of brother and sister, and I haven't been tempted for so many years, please don't embarrass me.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    The best thing is that you think it's better for him to be a friend, and you don't want to lose the other person, so you can only be a friend.

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