I think about the past, but that person always shows up in front of you every now and then, you know

That's how the most familiar strangers come about. The past is gone, just live the present

Hehe, friend. If you truly love each other, then what you feel is not strange, but cramped and nervous. It is precisely because they have never been together and have not understood each other too deeply that there will be unknowns in their hearts, be brave, and true love ,,, sweet.

Time is changing, and so are people. When the person I once liked appeared in front of me, I wanted to be indifferent, because I didn't love it, and your rejection hurt so much at the beginning.

Hi cutie.

I was working overtime to write ppt, but I accidentally saw your problemIt's like seeing myself a long time ago, and I want to tell you my story.

A long time ago, I was also a little transparent in the class.

The grades are average, the appearance is mediocre, and he is still very fat when he is an adolescent, and ** is not good. The most important thing is that the character is not likable, and the person is very simple. But I really want to make friends with people, I want to express myself to others.

I try to get close to people who like my teachers and classmates, behave socially and cheerfully in front of them, and force myself to skip class with them when I want to do a good job. I didn't have that much pocket money, but I accommodated myself to buy snacks and take pictures with them (which was something of our time).

Later, I found out,I'm not happy, the people I accommodated, they never took me to heart.

The most embarrassing time, when I was out playing, before I could finish a sentence, several classmates laughed, not at me, but at another thing they knew together. It has nothing to do with me, but I'm just embarrassed there.

I was confused and asked myself, why should I care so much about what other people think? What the hell do they think of me? Will you think I'm bored, embarrassed, and don't want to play with me anymore?

I talked openly and honestly to one of them, and I found that they had forgotten about it, and she even asked me why I thought so. "Obviously, everyone likes you very much and is willing to play with you! ”

So, having said all that, I want to tell you,During adolescence, your mind and ideas will be sharp, and your perception of the world will be sensitive. Most of the time, this is a good thing, it will help you adjust and understand the adult world.

But sometimes, it will also give you some trouble, but it doesn't matter, you are still growing up, you are studying, you can sincerely talk to your friends and see what they think, there is nothing to be embarrassed about.

Or, you can ignore these at all, rememberEveryone is unique, and everyone who is themselves has a sparkle in their eyes!

When you go to work one day, you will find outReally good and high-level people are right about things and not people. They are good at solving problems with surgical precision, and they can also control life from a macro perspective.

Finally, I recommend you a movie-"Sunshine Sisters"., a Korean movie, although the name translates low, but it tells the story of children like us.

There is a scene in the film, which is the adult heroine reminiscing about her girlhood, walking through the familiar streets, as if she saw her little self nested on the bench on the street again. Finally, she sat down and smiled at herself after more than 20 years.

Believe me, someday,You'll know what this tear tastes like when you look back

After reading the replies of so many people above, I would also like to express my opinion.

That's why I don't want to raise children.

Whenever a child encounters a difficult situation, the first thing we think of is verbal encouragement and comfort, followed by a whole bunch of chicken soup. But these are very emotional words, are they objective, are they just words that we think are most likely to help children?

As many answers, you all say that you have to be confident, you have a lot of love, it's just the process of growing up and so on and so forth. But these are your assumptions, and the real thing is that you don't know what's going on, and you just start speculating from the child's words. Of course, the chicken soup you said thinks it's harmless, and it's okay if it's wrong.

But is this an objective answer, can this really help the child, will it be counterproductive, will it make him feel that everyone in this world really loves him and cares about him, it doesn't matter if he pays, just wait for the love of others?

If you only answer objectively from the description of this child, I think it can be analyzed like this:

There were only six birthday parties with my classmates, and I was one of them. This sentence shows that you are already one of the special six people in the class, and at this time it should be those who are not invited to the inferiority complex instead of you, even if you are the least verbal one among the six, it is more fortunate than the rest of the people who did not come.

Their parents are very familiar except for me, because I was invited by my classmates. It's hard for me to understand this sentence, theoretically birthday parties are all invited friends by the host, if you are the only student invited, then this birthday party is a party between you and the classmate who celebrated the birthday, and you should be more proud because only you are regarded as his only friend.

Later, I said two sentences, and no one paid attention to me. I can't tell if it's a problem with the way you express it, or if it's a problem with the upbringing of those children, or if it's unintentional and it's just that you're suspicious.

I feel like I'm really alive, I can't stand myself. Until here and what you said above, I think your feeling belongs to the adolescent psychology of many people when they are young, easy to think too much, lack of identity, girlish feelings, and the world in their hearts is still an idealized world. I believe that everyone had this kind of psychology when I was a child, although I was a boy, but I had similar thoughts when I was a child, and now that I have grown up, I also understand, you are just the pearl of your parents' palms, and you are just a dispensable person to others, even if you are good friends, you don't really love you so much.

Don't deliberately disguise yourself because of other people's opinions, it's not easy for people to live a lifetime, just pay a little attention to the way you communicate, don't think too much, find more hobbies, and live your life.

Everyone is born unique, and I believe that you must have your strengths and strengths.

Self-confidence is not necessarily completely ** social, it is enough to make one or two confidants when you are a student, you can progress together and grow up together with the kind of friends who are crazy, fearless socialization will only waste time.

At the birthday party of classmates, everyone will unconsciously pick up the birthday child and ignore other voices.

Those who deliberately ignore you may not mean to, just ask what you want to ask, and go directly to him and ask him face to face why it is more cost-effective to ignore yourself than to be sad silently alone.

In fact, everyone will experience low self-esteem in their lives, being ignored and excluded, not being in the core circle, and so ......onIf you spend more time studying, become the dark horse of the class, or learn an art, sports, or travel more mountains and rivers, there will definitely be destined people who will find your shining point and are willing to become real good friends with you! You're really great!

Child, you are the best, you have surpassed your peers and started to think about relationships.

But don't stress too much.

Everyone can't love you all over the world, but you have to learn to love yourself first, and then you have to believe that there are some people who love you selflessly.

Love is not about caring for and accompanying all the time, inseparable, but being there when you need it, a kind of unconditional belief and dependence.

Knowing that netizens also have love, someone will definitely care about you.

In fact, there are many people in this world, they are born as if they don't exist, and their sense of existence is very low, but this does not mean that he is a failure, on the contrary, such people will generally be very successful, and you are the same, but you have a bad place, that is, you care too much about what others give you, and ignore when others give you good, for example, when you only notice that others do not pay attention to you along the way, but there is really no one to say a word to you, think about it carefully, In fact, your friends are very concerned about you, just like at the dinner table, caring for you.

Study with peace of mind, when you are good enough, you are the center of the world, really the truth, you can really do whatever you want when you study well.

I don't think so, no matter how much you miss it, the other person is still living their own life.

Thoughts are like a meandering river, hovering in one's mind, making people indulge. But no matter how much you miss someone, I don't think he will feel it, because he can't see your performance, and he can't perceive your thoughts.

Everyone is an individual and may miss each other, but I don't believe that two people have feelings. When I was in a long distance from my first love, I missed each other every day, but I wasn't sure if he missed me. Actually, I know he should miss me too, but I don't feel it.

It's just that sometimes two people will send messages to each other at the same time, and it seems that there are some hearts, but this is actually just a habit of life.

When two people commute to work and when they are free, we know each other very well, and missing each other creates the illusion of having a heart, but this is not the feeling brought by missing, but the two people can't help but love deeply.

When you miss someone, the other person will not feel it, stop deceiving yourself. My first love and I have been separated for more than ten years, but I sometimes miss each other, but I'm sure he won't notice it at all. We haven't contacted him since we broke up, and we may have forgotten who I am.

In fact, there are many such examples in life, some people think that they miss someone and the other person will have feelings, but this is actually just an illusion. When you fall in love with someone or miss someone, every small action they make, you will make up in your mind a reason that matches your own wishes.

But that's not the real reason, it's just that you're deceiving yourself. When deceiving yourself becomes a habit, you may become immersed in this self-delusional mutual induction.

No matter what time it is, you should keep a shred of sanity, and the last reason will tell you that your thoughts will not have any effect on the other person.

If you miss it, you will see it, and when you stand in front of the other person, I think he must have feelings.

When you miss someone, then the other party will definitely feel it, because you miss the other person and you can also feel that you love him very much, so that the relationship between the two will get better and better.

I think there should actually be, because I think that human beings have the same feelings, and when you miss someone, they will definitely feel it.

The other person generally does not feel it. Unless you tell the other person about this kind of missing. Only then will the other person feel that you miss you.

I think when you miss someone, the other person will not feel it, otherwise that person will definitely appear in front of you, and if you don't appear, you don't feel that you are thinking about him.

When I'm missing someone, I don't think the other person should feel anything, because he doesn't know that I'm missing him.

No, there is no psychic in this world, and your unilateral emotional appeal will not make others resonate with you.

No. Because there is a saying that the heart is separated from the belly.

One of these is scientifically possible. Because human brain waves are mutually inducing, the magnetic field around the human body also interacts. But it's only possible.

Thoughts are like a gust of wind, unconsciously drifting away in the smoke and rain, hazy and beautiful; Missing is more like a cup of tea, a little bitter at first, but sweet aftertaste. Thoughts often arise inadvertently, either from a similar situation or because of someone else's words. The reason why people miss each other is because they can produce a more intense emotional experience together, and it is precisely because of the expansiveness of this emotion that people can't help but think about a person.

Those who can arouse our thoughts have a deeper intimacy with us, and it is precisely because of this intimacy that we become sensitive to sight, hearing, touch, and taste. In a person's heart, the more you like someone, the more you can't help but miss someone. Because of this intimacy and positive emotional experience, it will make you more interactive and more in tune with each other.

This is also the psychological "mutuality of expression" that matches the degree of intimacy of the conversation partner's self-disclosure.

Eventually, the two of you can do something in different geographies and gradually expand the scope of telepathy, which will not only solve your longing problems, but also deepen the understanding between the two of you.

The other party shouldn't feel it, because after all, the two people are very far away, and it is impossible to see through each other's hearts.

The first is to chat to see if the opposite sex has a crush on you.

If he is interested in you, he will talk to you often. If you don't reply to his messages, he will ask you what you are doing, and he will always think of ways to help you and make a family routine. When you reply to his message, he always feels that you have endless topics to talk about you, he will find a way not to make the chat become an awkward conversation, will tell you a lot of interesting things, and will take the initiative to confide in you and share his emotions such as entanglement and happiness.

If he doesn't mean something to you, you send him ten messages, maybe he only replies to you with one message or an oh, uh, ah, and sends you away. Or tell you that he's busy right now and hasn't looked for you since. You can feel that he doesn't want to talk to you, so he often has awkward conversations.

The second is that if it is interesting to you, he will care about your every move.

You are happy and he will laugh with you; You're upset, he'll come over and ask what's wrong with you. But if the opposite sex doesn't have a good impression of you, whether you're happy or sad, it has nothing to do with him. And he will find a way to avoid you and avoid you after knowing that you are interesting to him.