I m getting married, and my mom wants me to ask my girlfriend s house to reduce the number of people

Why compress because of money So why don't you compress your family People are like this once in a lifetime If it's not decent, the family won't agree You can discuss it with your girlfriend first I think it's better not to compress it More can be more and more people are less than a few Happy events Everyone wants to be happy Why do you have to get along with these things Don't make everyone unhappy because of these.

The major events of a lifetime in life Anyway, that's it.

Besides, there are 40 tables on your side, and there are only 15 tables on the woman's side.

Just let the woman compress there.

It stands to reason that your girlfriend won't say yes.

You'd better tell your mom about it.

After all, it's okay to have a little fun when you get married.

Even if you spend a little more money, it will be a good fortune.

Don't be unhappy to save so much money.

I wish you a happy newlywed.

I think you should talk to your mother, what would you think about the woman's family, which is already much smaller than yours, to hear about this? Marriage is a happy thing, but it makes it difficult for your girlfriend to deal with. If the number of people in your family is really not compressed, just spend more money on dim sum!

To compress, first compress your family's people, please 40 tables are obviously a lot, compress to 30 tables, you tell your girlfriend, you will definitely be scolded by her.

If you want to compress it, you can compress it by yourself first! I'm talking to others! Do not do to others what you do not want to be done to yourself.

You don't have to tell your girlfriend, just tell your mother whether you want to get married or not, and it will save you money if you don't get married.

Why let the woman compress, why doesn't your mother compress, just let the family only borrow to your house is not more convenient! Now how can the man be like this!

Why don't you settle accounts, the more people you have, the more money you collect, and now you spend more, and you don't feel so much after the banquet.

Brother, you are all married, and you still listen to your mother, you are really your mother's good son!

But have you ever thought about your wife's face? Khan Yan!

Just say to your mother

There are many people who come and give red envelopes.

Cost-effective.

Sweat. Don't say okay.

It's a lifelong event.

If you say it, it will make the two families unhappy.

Hehe. But that's just my personal opinion.

I wish you a happy newlywed.

Tell her the truth.

If she doesn't agree with you.........

For the sake of love, spend more.

Dizzy, if a man is a human being, a female is not a human being? What does your girlfriend say to her family?

Let's tell your mom!

Don't people come and give gifts?

Sweat. Why isn't it your home compression?

Why do you let the woman press you to run 40 tables, did you even invite your ancestors??

Your mother is simply a psychopath, the most disgusting, this kind of unqualified woman, and she loves face and wants to save money, and she puts all the benefits in her pocket Selfish to death, tell your mother to die, tell your mother, a lowly woman like her, die early.

You can also go to the dead family of waste.

Your girlfriend is looking for the wrong person.

I don't have any ideas! Or swing together. Either that's a tourist marriage! I love to travel to get married! Save the hassle and be happier.

You let your mom squeeze her own numbers.

What the hell? There are a lot more of my own homes than my girlfriend's.

I'm embarrassed to let people compress.

It's good to get only one table at my girlfriend's house.

Your mom is satisfied?!

Needless to say. Your girlfriend is already cheap if she doesn't hit you. Cut

Of course, don't be too rigid. This kind of thing doesn't need to be said, it's like a demonstration.

Just count one copy with the two of you.

Of course, say hello in advance.

Exceptionally nice kind of hotel.

Tables are set according to the number of people.

If your girlfriend is not familiar with anyone.

It's better not to take it with you.

Is it married People look at the bride and groom.

Oh you can bring.

In fact, it should not be brought. Because the banquet space is limited. Everybody has one. There will be a severe shortage of places.

Ha ha..

You ask the other invited buddies if they bring their girlfriends, it doesn't matter if many people bring them, if they don't, it's not good for you to bring them alone.

Ask your classmates. Even if it's a classmate, I shouldn't mind. But then you have to tell him in advance.

But then you have to tell him in advance.

You can ask a master of ceremonies to preside over it and liven up the atmosphere.

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Why is this wedding so entangled?

If you don't invite other colleagues and don't invite him, he will feel that you look down on him. It's his business if you invite him or not, and it's your own problem if you don't.

For this situation, sometimes it makes us very entangled, but there is a way, you don't send a specific invitation sticker, just send the candy to her department, she wants to go, she will naturally go, don't want to go, we are courteous, and we won't say anything to each other!

The people who are happy to pay for the candy will thank you more, and now the people who are not pleasing to the treat will pay the same as the demand note.

Don't worry too much about this, see if there is any intersection between the two of you, if there is no intersection, it doesn't matter if you call it or not. If you have a good relationship, she won't mind if you call or not, she will come. Personal opinion, hehe.

Please is better than not please, people are helpless about the world.

When the time comes, I'll be the Hokage, and I think I have someone to do these trivial things.

K must be busy coming over, his girlfriend has a lot of family, he has a lot of friends, he chakrado, and the shadow clone is infinite!

Naruto can use shadow clones to separate 100 at once, even the chef and waiter are exempt.

What are you wary of? Naruto will have his decision.

This kind of question should be asked by Naruto, right, dear

The customs vary from place to place, and the family's economic situation is related to the behavior of the parents. In our case: the man and the woman run the wine together (mainly arranged by the man's family), and the cost of the wine is paid by the man's family.

The gift money given by the woman's relatives is generally collected by the woman's parents (usually the daughter and son-in-law will be given a red envelope first), and the man's gift money is also collected by the man's parents (of course, the son and daughter-in-law will also be given a red envelope at the wedding).

The gift money should be collected by the woman herself, so that even if she marries, she is not afraid of being bullied, and the woman should collect the gift money by herself, and she is married by herself, not her parents.

Most of the gift money is given to parents, naturally it is the parents who take it, and if there are your classmates and colleagues who give it, the parents can give it to you.

According to the old custom, of course, the gift money was given to the woman's parents, but now many parents give the money they receive to their daughters. Pity the hearts of parents all over the world!

It's not good to say that this thing depends on the customs of each place.

1. Let your girlfriend do more work at her house, give 20,000 dowry first, and give the rest later.

The main thing is to show your abilities to your girlfriend and her family, and the life of ordinary people depends on the two of them and the management of harmony. If her family doesn't understand this, then you just wait for the next fate. Marriage is definitely a twisted melon, not sweet.

Ask your girlfriend! It's her who marries you! Or her parents marry you! You don't have to say anything to his parents! It works better to ask your girlfriend to talk about it! If she really resists the pressure to marry you, you have to cherish her!

100,000? Did you sell your daughter?? This is not popular in the city now, and those who have money do not give so much to the woman, but give the money to the young couple, and the woman is now accompanying the car and household appliances.

What does her family give her, you ask Yes, remember to remember that there are more broadcasts on TV now, but if you take the bride price, you don't get married if you don't get it enough, and you don't return it, saying that you didn't give it at all, because there is no evidence, if you want to give money, you must record a sound, like something, or find a witness...

The 100,000 yuan that their family wants, with a high-sounding reason, is, the guarantee, right? Dude, we have a similar encounter, but I can take 100,000, but my girlfriend's family wants 300,000, and I can't afford it.

I am also from Nan'an, and now the price is **, and even my wife is following**.

Get your girlfriend's consent first, and then talk to the other party's parents in a friendly voice.

If you can make the other party feel reliable, it is not necessary to give your daughter to you for free.

Do your best, let it be the fate of heaven.

Tell her she has no money. If you can marry or not, do you have any other way? Love needs money to pave the way, and money will burn love. Now the problem is that you don't have money, there is no other way, find a woman who doesn't care about money and is willing to fight with you to marry.

They are not marrying their daughters, they are selling their daughters, maybe they will let you give 100,000 yuan when they get married in the future, and if they don't give it, they will get divorced.

Such a marriage will not be happy.

What's your girlfriend's attitude?

If she wants, elope with her and wander the world.

If she is also a member of the family, she has no money and doesn't want to get married.

Then I advise you to look elsewhere.

If the marriage in exchange for money is unhappy, don't ask for it, find a woman who doesn't want money to marry.

All along, my love with her has been opposed by her family Are you sure you are in love My point of view is different from yours If he loves you, you won't appear in Know, if you love each other, there won't be my answer today Dude, think about it carefully You gave his family 100,000 Can you have a good life in the future She knows that your family has no money But she wants 100,000 And that? After you get married, the money must have been borrowed, will she accompany you to repay the money, or will she ask your elderly parents to pay it back? Of course, if she loves you, she wants this 100,000 yuan, just to give her parents an explanation, and after marriage, you husband and wife will bear this debt, then I can only say buddy, I congratulate you on finding a good wife, if you push this debt to your parents, you really have to think about your future, don't bully the poor boy.

Tell them the truth.

This is realistic, if you borrow it for this thing, and you two of you will have to have his parents in the future, if you accept your situation, you can still get married, if you don't accept it, do ideological work, you can't do it, I advise you to forget it, because the woman's family can't accept the reality that you can't take out the money, and they will still dislike you in the future, dislike you, dislike you, and if your girlfriend knows your situation and loves you very much, you can cook raw rice and cook rice.

bought a gun with 20,000 yuan, calmly ran to ICB C and shouted, I want to marry a wife!!

Pity the hearts of parents all over the world, in fact, her parents don't want money, but want to embarrass you, so that you can't marry your daughter, not to sell your daughter. In fact, I am a living example, my parents asked for my boyfriend's 50,000 yuan, and stipulated a two-month period, in fact, my boyfriend already had a loan of 50,000 yuan, in order to marry me, he borrowed 50,000 yuan, and now I came to Guangxi with him from Shandong, and now I have a debt of 100,000 yuan, and the pressure is really great, of which 5,000 is given by me, and then my parents found out about it and wanted me to go back to Shandong, saying that if I go back, I will return 50,000 yuan to him completely, a lot. But I've been here for more than two months, and I don't feel like life is as difficult as I thought, so I didn't go back.

These are enough to see the hearts of my parents, but I value this hard-won love too much, so I didn't break up, I didn't ask my parents to intercede for him at that time, but just secretly helped him, because I just wanted to give my parents an explanation. So if you can't take out the money, don't borrow it anymore, they don't want money, they wish you couldn't take out the money, even if you really borrow, the parents won't let their daughters follow them to repay the debt, they will definitely not ask for so much, and they will pay you back some.

Raw rice ripening rice is the best option if you can't afford it.

You are also poor, sweat to death.

Otherwise, let's change to a woman.

Ask the woman what she thinks?

If she feels the need.

Do you feel the need to continue?

What is a banknote?

Sell your daughter. Knowing your situation, you still have to ask for this price.

Is it to look up to your performance?

The reality is so cruel Forget it! 1 The heart of parents in the world!