I m getting a divorce, I m getting a divorce, what should I do!

Updated on society 2024-02-08
39 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Endure the labor pains and do what you should usually do, such as working hard The long pain of an unhappy marriage is not as good as the short pain, it is only in your twenties, and the road ahead is still long, you have to believe that there will always be someone who knows how to appreciate you!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It's still young. Get a good job. Let's find a good partner as soon as possible.!!

    If you haven't been divorced yet. Then you can find a time to have a good chat with your wife to see if there is anything that is misunderstood...Maybe. He really loves you.

    I wish you happiness and happinessHave fun every day...1

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I can't see why you want to get a divorce, just because of the bride price five years ago, it doesn't seem like it. I advise you to calm down first, and then carefully consider whether it is really to the point of divorce, and whether you have children, I hope you don't be impulsive and make a decision that you will not regret.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I'm also '81 years old, my husband is '79 years old, we've been in love until we got married, 8 years ago, and our marriage is also on a cliff.

    Bian: I also posted it that day, and I listened to a lot of suggestions from friends, and I finally chose to give up the idea of divorce.

    First, marriage is run by two people, and even if the other person makes a little mistake, two people should solve the problem.

    When it comes to the table, it should be well communicated, and it should be mutually understanding and tolerant, so that the family can be maintained.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    You're still young, and as a man, you should develop your career.

    Turn your post-divorce pain into strength and put it into work.

    I believe you will have something to achieve in your career.

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Abandon this meadow and find your own forest. There will always be someone who is right for you. Money can be earned again.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    First, it shows that you are too immature when you get married, second, money cannot be exchanged for trust, and third, believe that life is still beautiful and face it positively.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    You've been married for five years at the age of twenty-seven, and you're getting married too early.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    In this way, a good man is not afraid of not being without a woman.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    What should I do if I'm getting a divorce? So it's "about to get divorced"?

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I'm as old as you, and I'm not married.

    I want to open a little!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    The old does not go, and the new does not come.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    What should I do if I'm getting a divorce? So it's "about to get divorced"?

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Conditions for registration of divorce.

    Both men and women must divorce voluntarily.

    2. Both parties have full capacity for civil conduct.

    3. The parties hold a divorce agreement, which must contain the intention of both parties to divorce voluntarily and the consensus on matters such as child support, property and debt disposal.

    4. The parties concerned hold a marriage certificate issued by the marriage registration authority in the mainland or the Chinese embassy (consulate) abroad.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    It's normal to want a divorce, and it's better to leave if you can't get along emotionally. Just don't hurt each other anymore. After getting divorced, find a suitable place for yourself and spend the rest of your life happily.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    The two finally came together, but they still think clearly that they can't be impulsive in making decisions.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Male and female reason age children survive.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Clause.

    First, we should pay attention to the reasons for divorce and understand why we must go to the step of divorce, although it is easy to fall in love, it is not easy to get married, and do it and cherish it! There is an explanation for himself, and there is also an explanation for his elderly parents......

    Clause. Second, whether there are children, if there are children, we must consider the impact on children, how to face the pain of parental divorce and the issue of child custody, we must minimize the impact on children!

    Clause. 3. On the economic level, it is best to consult a lawyer for the handling of joint property and loans during the existence of the husband and wife relationship!

    Clause. Fourth, it is also the most important step, learn to adjust your mentality, go out for a walk, bravely face a new life, when a new relationship is coming, polish your eyes, choose the right person, and avoid repeating the mistakes of the past!

    Clause. 5. Divorce is easier said than done, think twice.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    If you have no objection to the division of the joint family property and the custody of the children, you can bring the marriage certificate to the marriage registration office to apply for a divorce by agreement. If the spouses have an objection to the division of joint property or to the custody of the children, they need to file a divorce lawsuit at the court of the domicile of the marriage registration authority. The court shall hear and decide on the divorce claim.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Divorce is a helpless choice, if there is really no way to divorce, it is also a relief for yourself, after all, this is a major event in life, think twice.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    What should I do if I'm getting a divorce? So it's "about to get divorced"?

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    There are two ways to get divorced:

    1. Divorce by agreement.

    Conditions for Voluntary Divorce of the Parties:

    First, the parties must have an agreement to divorce. An agreement between the husband and wife to dissolve the marriage relationship is a necessary condition for the parties to divorce voluntarily.

    Second, the parties must make appropriate dispositions of the children and property.

    2. Divorce by litigation.

    Conditions for unilateral divorce: Relationship breakdown.

    Article 32 of the Marriage Act stipulates that a divorce shall be granted if the relationship has indeed broken down and mediation fails. Therefore, the court grants a divorce on the condition that the relationship between the husband and wife has broken down.

    According to Article 32 of the Marriage Law, the main circumstances in which the relationship between husband and wife has broken down are as follows: 1. bigamy or cohabitation of a spouse with another person;

    2. Committing domestic violence or abusing or abandoning family members;

    3. Those who have bad habits such as gambling and drug abuse that they have repeatedly refused;

    4. Separated for two years due to emotional discord;

    V. Other circumstances that lead to the breakdown of the relationship between the husband and wife (In judicial practice, other circumstances that lead to the breakdown of the relationship between the husband and wife mainly refer to the following circumstances:

    1. One party suffers from a disease that is legally prohibited from marriage, or one party has physical defects and other reasons that prevent sexual intercourse and are difficult to have;

    2. Concealing mental illness before marriage and not being cured after marriage, or marrying the other party knowing that the other party has mental illness before marriage, or one party suffering from mental illness during the period of living together as husband and wife and not curing it for a long time;

    3. Lack of understanding before marriage, hasty marriage, failure to establish husband and wife relationship after marriage, and difficulty in living together;

    4. One party deceives the other party, or deceives the marriage certificate during marriage registration;

    5. After the two parties have gone through the marriage registration, they have not lived together, and there is no possibility of reconciliation;

    6. Arranged or sold marriage, and one party files for divorce immediately after the marriage is sold, or although they have lived together for many years, they have not established a relationship between husband and wife;

    7. One party commits adultery with another person, and there is still no repentance after education, and the party who is not at fault sues for divorce, or the party at fault sues for divorce, and the other party does not agree to the divorce, and after criticism, education, and punishment, or the people's court makes a judgment that the divorce is not allowed, and the party at fault sues for divorce again, there is no possibility of reconciliation;

    8. One party has been sentenced to long-term imprisonment in accordance with law, or has violated the law and committed a crime that seriously hurts the feelings of the husband and wife;

    9. Where one party's whereabouts have been unknown for two years, and the other party sues for divorce, and there is no whereabouts after being found through public announcement;

    10. The relationship between husband and wife has broken down due to other reasons.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    What should I do if I'm getting a divorce? So it's "about to get divorced"?

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    If both parties agree to divorce, go to the Marriage Registration Office of the Civil Affairs Bureau to agree to divorce. If one party wants to divorce, he can go to the court to sue for divorce, and divorce is these two legal channels.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    You want a divorce....

    Did your spouse agree?

    Does he want to leave? Do you think about your children?

    Why would you want to get a divorce.

    I advise you not to be too impulsive to divorce.

    Think about why you got married in the first place.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    If you leave, start again, and cherish it if you don't leave!

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Friend, what you mean by saying this means that you still have nostalgia for this feeling, since you have, don't leave regrets.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    When you are tired, find a place to be quiet, and don't always talk about divorce. Instead of being tired, it's better to take the whole family on a trip to relieve some stress.

    I once watched a story. It's two people who originally loved each other, but suddenly they feel that they don't love each other anymore, and they are very tired to get along together. Even want to separate.

    Later they decided to go on a long trip in the last month of their breakup. Commemorate the breakup.

    So, they drove to the Tibetan Plateau. There was talk and laughter along the way, as if I had returned to the past, and then I looked at the scenery, and my mood was much better, and I no longer felt pressured, and even became very relaxed. When they returned from their trip, they decided to start a new life. The breakup was never mentioned again.

    Sometimes when you are tired, you stop and rest, maybe your life is too busy and you have forgotten your original dream. That's how man lives for a lifetime. Maybe it's not that I'm tired, but that the whole family hasn't relaxed together for a long time.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    I also have this idea now, I don't know what to do, I spend every day in quarrels, and I obviously feel that he doesn't have me in his heart, it's really annoying, I am not leaving or not.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    BAI can divorce by mutual agreement or sue for divorce.

    Article 31 of the Marriage Law of the People's Republic of China applies to both men and women.

    If the divorce is voluntary, the divorce shall be granted. Both parties must apply for divorce at the marriage registration office. A divorce certificate is issued when the marriage registration authority ascertains that the parties are indeed willing and that the issues of children and property have been properly addressed.

    Article 32: Where a man and a woman request a divorce, the relevant departments may conduct mediation or directly file a divorce lawsuit with the people's court.

    People's courts hearing divorce cases shall conduct mediation; If the relationship has indeed broken down and mediation fails, the divorce should be granted.

    In any of the following circumstances, if mediation fails, a divorce shall be granted:

    1) bigamy or cohabitation of a person with a spouse;

    2. Committing domestic violence or abusing or abandoning family members;

    3. Those who have bad habits such as gambling and drug abuse that they have repeatedly refused;

    4) Separated for two years due to emotional discord;

    5) Other circumstances that lead to the breakdown of the relationship between husband and wife.

    If one party is declared missing and the other party initiates divorce proceedings, the divorce shall be granted.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Ay.. bai。。。Me too. It's kind of looking for.

    Du is wrong. No.

    Zhi wanted to say more. whining dao!! Inside!!

    It will be held for now. My life should not be too easy. The main reason is because of her.

    If it weren't for her. I think I'm much better off now. I am currently planning to wait for my child to grow up.

    Let's think about whether to leave or not. And then one person passes. Women are not my pursuit in this life.

    You don't have to get married. This woman was not approved of by me in the first place. It's just that I was contradictory at the beginning, I didn't read people deeply, and I was naïve and simple.

    Sometimes the ancients said, "Women and villains are difficult to raise!" "It still makes sense!!

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    You are still growing, there are too few people and things you have contacted, people can't just like one person in their life, every relationship has a different harvest, the road is still very long, come on. In the real society, we must firmly believe that only with bread can love be secured.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    You are still young, don't be too discouraged, the love field is frustrated for a while, not a lifetime, divorce can only mean that your true love has not yet appeared, and the moment you appear, you will understand that the person you love most in your life turned out to be him! Believe that you are the best!

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Work hard and make your life more exciting, and having money and self is the king in these years

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Do you really plan to live the rest of your life alone? If you really live alone, it is very simple, there is almost no pressure in life, there is no need to face the troubles of marriage, and you can enjoy a great degree of freedom. The disadvantage is: you have to endure the tragic loneliness and loneliness!

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    If you copy.

    We are attacked because of love, so you want to bai

    Divorce is to avoid the problem du, because one.

    The woman you love can make you live forever, and you will find it again in the future! After all, it is certainly not a person's fault to get divorced! Of course, if you weren't together because of love in the first place, then encountering the current situation can be regarded as the retribution of your child's play!

    To be honest, the most pitiful thing is the child, why not use contraception if you don't have the confidence to live a lifetime? You can still divorce if you have children, and you just want to leave your parents and children behind, so it can be seen that the person who is wrong in marriage must be you! Because you are so selfish and know what is the most important thing between husband and wife?

    It's good communication! If you quarrel every time you communicate, you will only quarrel emotionally! It is said that women are emotional, and when they are angry, they can't control their emotions and say angry words, which is caused by the influence of estrogen, but you are a big man who is also excited and not calm, who is the one who is wrong?

    In addition to face-to-face communication, you can also send text messages and write letters to communicate, so as to avoid quarrels, have you used these methods? There are many ways and means that you have not applied and divorced lightly, who are you worthy of? It is said that women can be widowed for a lifetime, and there are very few men who can keep it!

    Do you want to live alone for the rest of your life, which means that neither the children nor the parents are your responsibility? You don't even deserve to be a man, just leave your wife and you! Why did she put up a show like you!!

  37. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    You won't live your whole life alone, people are social animals!

  38. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    Work hard and earn more money, and my wife will have it.

  39. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    I'm betting with you that you don't live alone for the rest of your life that person will show up very quickly.

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