My boyfriend thinks that Qixi Festival is not an important festival and does not have to be spent to

I think it's a bit too hasty to break up just because of the gift problem, but it can also be seen that the relationship between the two of you is not so deep, so it will lead to the breakdown of the relationship because of these material things.

I don't think Qixi Festival is really a particularly important day, but it has been jointly hyped by most businesses and has become a seemingly very important day, just like my boyfriend, he thinks that Qixi Festival is the Valentine's Day of the Cowherd and the Weaver Girl, and it has nothing to do with us, and in my opinion, I don't particularly pay attention to these forms of things, so we don't have any contradictions because of this.

If you really care about Tanabata or other Valentine's Day, then you can also directly explain your inner thoughts to your boyfriend, if your boyfriend likes you enough, he will indeed consider giving you a gift, but if you use a breakup to blackmail the other party to give yourself a gift and celebrate the holiday together, this will inevitably change the meaning of this day.

In general, I think that whether it is an ordinary day or a Valentine's Day, the most important thing is that two people should be able to know each other together, and be ready to stay together, and will not break the relationship because of some small things or things that the public does.

I think you're actually going a little too far, because festivals have always been a gimmick for businesses, but if you're not together, as long as the two of you are happy enough, you don't have to pay so much attention to the ceremony.

I think it's wrong to break up, because the words of Tanabata can only be said to be the traditional Valentine's Day, but if the two of you are in love, every day is Valentine's Day, and festivals are secondary, and real feelings are important for two people.

I think it's a bit too casual because my boyfriend doesn't want to break up on Tanabata, girls want to have a festival together, in order to give themselves a sense of ceremony, and boyfriends don't want to have a sense of ceremony, and boyfriends don't want to have it and shouldn't force it, it's still too hasty to break up.

The blessings of the festival are hypocritical, and the real emotions are revealed in ordinary times, so I think it's a pity to break up, if you want to spend Tanabata together, you can communicate with it.

I think it's still too much, no matter how to say that Qixi is a festival for couples, it is really inappropriate for him to say such a thing, every girl is eager for a romantic date on Qixi Festival.

Valentine's Day so many of our people should be Qixi Festival, this is a couple's festival, the boyfriend thinks it doesn't matter, that is, he doesn't care about you, even if it's a meal, such a boyfriend can be wanted.

He doesn't attach much importance to your relationship, and if he does, the two of you want to stay together every day like a holiday.

I think it is true that you shouldn't break up, but you should communicate with your boyfriend in a timely manner, understand his inner life state, and ask him why Qixi Festival is not an important festival.

Your thoughts are not the same, you have a good communication, negotiate, in fact, I think the real feelings are reflected in the bits and pieces of ordinary life, not what festivals are spent together.

Everyone's thoughts are different, maybe your friend really doesn't care about the holiday or whatever, but you really care, but both of you have to wake up to each other.

Whether he likes it or not, whether he cares about you or not, you can definitely feel it, he doesn't give gifts is small, he doesn't care that you are big.

Put aside the surface and talk about the substance: If you really like someone, even if you don't have a moderation, you can't help but express that I like you and I love you in various ways in daily life. The emotions of liking and love can't help but be revealed and can't be hidden.

It is divided into a heartfelt greeting, a homemade greeting card, and a small gift made by yourself, all of which are spiritual expressions, and spending money to buy things that girls like, which is a material expression. If it is the subject who says "none".

So this topic is actually "A man who doesn't like you, doesn't love you, and doesn't even bother to perfunctory you to do superficial things occupies your boyfriend's position and consumes your youth, do you want to give yourself a chance to leave the wrong person, to find true love again, and enjoy the sweetness brought by true love?" ”

Due to the development of free love, the concept of boyfriend in people's minds has also developed from a single male friend to a male partner in a couple. People's understanding of "boyfriend": "he is a man who has a relationship with you", now people are open, and there is also a relationship of friendship between men and women, people call it a male friend, and the difference is different emotions.

The answer is: leave the wrong person to have the right person, the key is that you do it right away, right away.

In the romantic Qixi Festival, many friends in love want to be able to receive romantic surprises from each other, especially female friends, who are especially eager to do so, but what should I do if my boyfriend does not have any indication on the Qixi Festival:

First of all, if the relationship between two people is very sweet and happy, then for yourself, every day is Valentine's Day, so there is no need to care too much about whether the boyfriend has expressed it on the day of Qixi Festival, after all, for the bigger boys, the most important thing is to cherish the emotions of the two people.

Secondly, if the boyfriend is a very romantic person, but Tanabata doesn't have any expression, then he has to find the reason very objectively, and if he gives other girls gifts or something, then the two of them have to talk about it. In real life, some boys will also have a situation of flowers, and it is best to give up as soon as possible for inappropriate relationships, which is also a good respect for themselves.

If your boyfriend has been busy with divination work, then you may be negligent, if you care about it very much, then you can remind you on the side or give your boyfriend a surprise, which is also very able to enhance the relationship, after all, in love, both parties have to pay is the best.

If two people get along in a different place, then it is not so convenient to send surprises, in this case, maybe the other party is also thinking about making up for it in the future, in this case, you need to respect each other, after all, everyone has their own helplessness in real life, mutual understanding and tolerance is the most important.

If two people have been in conflict, Tanabata's boyfriend doesn't have any expression, maybe he hasn't found the step or he is also thinking about the relationship between the two people, so you need to give each other more space to think about it, so that it will be better conducive to the development of the relationship.

In fact, the Qixi Festival is just a form of existence, for the boyfriend does not have any expression of the problem, but also need to be able to understand comprehensively and objectively, no matter what, the sweetness and happiness of the relationship is the most important, and at the same time, two people also need to pay each other to tolerate and understand each other.

3. Everyone's way of thinking is different, if it is simple but consider breaking up on the wedding anniversary, then it is not necessary, and the decision should be made according to the real other party in life. In fact, it is necessary to analyze specific problems, if in other scenes of life, if you can really care about yourself, then there is no need to separate, if it is simply a wedding anniversary, it is also understandable, because everyone's life philosophy and lifestyle are different, so it is necessary to understand each other.

In fact, for us, two people together should understand each other, tolerate each other, and understand each other's process, so if it is simply just a holiday to consider separation, then it is completely unnecessary, on the other hand, a person's original family growth environment and education are different, due to the difference in life philosophy, so it is more necessary to understand each other's differences, respect each other, and be considerate of each other.

I think it still depends on his usual attitude towards you, if he is really good to you, then you shouldn't consider separating, he is just a festival, it is very likely that he is a person who does not pay attention to festivals.

Yes, this shows that in the boyfriend's heart, the two of them together are not an important thing, not worth celebrating, so they don't care about such things as anniversaries.

You can't consider breaking up with your boyfriend just because of this one reason, because sometimes your boyfriend may not be a person who pays attention to rituals. Then as a girlfriend, you want a gift, you can communicate with him and remind him that today is our holiday anniversary.

I think it should be separated. Life is only a few decades, girls have to go to work and take care of their families, usually tired and tired, even if there is no gift for the New Year's holiday, what is the meaning of such a day? It's better to separate.

It's true that you can consider separating, because such a boyfriend is not romantic at all, and from another point of view, there is no you in my heart.

I think yes, it means that your boyfriend doesn't value you, and he doesn't value the relationship between two people.

If your boyfriend never gives you a holiday anniversary, then it means that he is very stingy, and if he doesn't change, he can break up.

Personally, I don't think there is any need to think about separation, as long as the other party is good to me in daily life, and I can feel the love of the other party.

I wouldn't consider separating, because because he doesn't pay attention to these ritual things doesn't mean that he doesn't love me, it's just that he's a person who doesn't know how to be romantic.

Don't care too much about the sense of form, the festival anniversary is the product of modern business marketing, and you don't have to follow the festival if you have love in life.

I think we should separate because such a boyfriend is irresponsible, disregards your feelings, and does not respect your boyfriend.

I don't think it's necessary, maybe my boyfriend's personality is very arrogant, and I can't remember the days.

If the boy doesn't pay attention to the festival and you want to pay attention to it, then arrange it according to your own ideas, since it is a boyfriend and girlfriend, you respect his habits, then it is not a big deal for him to understand your mood and thoughts.

If you have the will, the boy still has all kinds of shirks, all kinds of refusals, all kinds of resistance, this is really strange. This in itself is not an execution ground, and besides, it's really okay to accompany your girlfriend.

Even if it does cost some money, it's not a big deal. Therefore, if you encounter all kinds of resistance, this is not too modest, it is really picking, and it is also picking on your girlfriend. However, in addition to being reluctant to spend money, it is also possible that the boys' economy is indeed not so rich.

In this case, it is recommended that girls understand it, just pay attention, and don't worry about the economic form.

Cook a meal together, make a cake, celebrate, and most importantly, spend it together, so it's up to you to analyze it yourself.

If your boyfriend knows about it, it's a bit too much to say if you don't send it, it can only mean that he doesn't care about you, and it's useless to mind a person who doesn't care about you.

But if your boyfriend doesn't know it, you can hint at it, and then see how he says, people, there is no complete perfection, and there are not so many warm men, if you meet a straight man, even if you take your ID card and imply that he is going to open a room, he will take you home with envy, and then go back to their respective homes and find their own mothers.

When you fall in love, you are happy with each other in the morning, not to compromise and seek perfection, so that love can last for a long time!

Not everyone thinks the holidays are important, and you and your boyfriend may have differences in values. If this question is important to you, it is advisable to communicate with your boyfriend first to express your expectations and thoughts about celebrating the holiday. If two people can understand and agree with each other's ideas, respect each other's choices, and compromise with each other, then they can spend happy time together.

But if you can't reach a consensus and the problem is very important to you, then breaking up is also an option.

If your boyfriend doesn't pay attention to the holidays, you're going to break up? Where is this scum? It's an exaggeration.

If you want to divide it, just share it, just find a boyfriend who values the festival.