Do you think that leftover women deserve it? Everyone s opinion, 20 points!

This kind of thing is just a matter of fate, don't force it, otherwise you will regret it.

Not really. This society is inherently conditional. A lot of people spend a lot of time studying.

Naturally, it will delay other things. Emotional matters should not be forced. When you meet, you will naturally be together.

It doesn't do you any good to force it. I can't go into details. Why don't you add my friends?

I read an article that says that the current leftover women have three highs, high income, high education, and high requirements. Of course, not all leftover women are like this, I think with your academic qualifications, you should be more picky, and you have seen more, so you feel that it is boring to see such a thing. I'm just talking nonsense, looking at it dialectically.

Everyone has the right to be happy for themselves ...

There is nothing reserved that is not reserved ...

As long as it's legal and ethical.

Why not go for the most?

I think it's all their own difficulties Since they are all in graduate school, I think the main problem of LZ is that their circle is relatively small, and they can talk more with friends who work around them or engage in activities, so as to meet more friends, and it will be easier to meet people you like when the circle of friends is bigger. Also, I don't think it's a good idea to approach boys, but don't be too passive if you have the chance.

In fact, I think the conditions for leftover women are generally good, people just don't want to find, want to find it will be there immediately, but it's a bit of a lucky attitude, I personally only believe in fate, there is a chance that the north and the south can meet, maybe also find a foreigner, as long as you like it, I don't think you need to look too deliberately, and don't be too reserved, the current lady is generous, not reserved.

The real reason for the leftover women is:

At first, I was greedy for enjoyment. It's not that I don't want to get married, but I just don't want to take on the heavy responsibilities in marriage, so it's better to be comfortable. When you want to go home, you can go home at what time, you can eat with whoever you want, and you can also have a trip with your girlfriends at any time, all day long, unrestrained, fully enjoy life, "live up to your youth" is the slogan on her lips at that time.

When you are tired of this life, when will you consider getting married?

Covetousness for enjoyment, including her non-response in the relationship, not paying, at the beginning of every relationship, it is the boy who revolves around her, centered on her, and now I regret it, but at that time I only felt proud, I couldn't consider the feelings of others, and only put my own feelings first.

This mountain looks high to that mountain. When she was young, no matter what kind of object she found, she would not be content and cherished, and she didn't know that she was confident from **, and she always felt that there were better people waiting for her ahead. If you leave the one in front of you, you can meet a better one next.

Later, I figured out that my "self-confidence" was habitualized, because the boyfriends she had dated were very good to her, and even flattered her in every possible way, which directly led to her getting carried away and not being able to figure out her position.

is young and beautiful, but in the final analysis, he still doesn't know it, as if there is no one in this world who can be worthy of himself. I always have to compare with my friends around me, that's the kind of person I'm looking for, no matter what the conditions are better than what you're looking for.

The leftover daughter of the eldest head who has been unwilling to get married for a long time can really wait for the love she wants? It is difficult for older leftover women to find their favorite objects, which is true, but it is precisely because people have always asked for "favorites", and the requirements are relatively high, so they are left. If you really want to pick all the vegetables in the basket, if you don't pick or choose, anyone can marry if you keep them for three months.

just refuses to wronged himself.

Do you have to feel that you have wronged yourself, just to get married, how glorious it is? On the other hand, don't say "older leftover girls", even if you are a young girl, 20-24 years old, do you think it is really easy to find your favorite object? Otherwise, why didn't the "older leftover women" get married when they were young?

Isn't it because it's not easy? Moreover, how many people who get married are really with their favorite objects and true love for a long time? Keep you asked.,Most of the spikes are funny.,Get married when it's right.,Find a blind date and get married.,The conditions are okay to get married.。

It's just that there's nothing to love.

In fact, even ordinary men (not to mention those men who are poor at the bottom and can't get married) are not easy to find the object of their choice. But in general, they are even less picky, because many men don't care about love and don't value it; If the conditions are not very bad, they can marry someone.

In a society like China, those leftover women are often people who can withstand a certain amount of pressure. A lot of the conditions are not bad. If you don't have the opportunity, if you can't meet the right one, you won't settle. There's no problem with that. Moreover, the more time comes to this, the more uncompromising it becomes.

Here comes another topic: what can be reflected in the value of women? I believe that women, like men, are trying their best to have greater professional and social value; Regardless of whether there are leftover women or not, it is still possible to have a complete personality and social contributions.

But if you regard the value of women as marriage and having children, then of course you think that people are miserable.

This is a huge difference in values that is destined to be difficult to understand. Number of families.