What did my husband think when he took back his salary card?What should I do?

If he thinks he can manage his own money, you let him take care of it, but you have to ask him that the living expenses, water and electricity bills, and favor expenses are half of the family, and he wants to buy his own clothes and let him spend his own money, you don't care, try it later. Such a man really doesn't know how to cherish it.

Isn't the landlord's salary twice as high as his, then don't worry, in the future, public expenses, such as gas, water, electricity, meals, etc., will be shared equally by everyone to see how much money he can save.

If you still love him, you might as well leave it to him to manage, my wife's salary is the same as mine. But our wages are far worse than yours.

The closer the two people, the more polite they must be, so that they can last for a long time.

It is more rational and democratic to set up a plan where each person takes out a fixed amount of money every month and keeps it in a public passbook for living expenses, and keeps the rest of the money separately.

You can't take everything for granted just because you are a husband and wife, otherwise things will be reversed.

Maybe he wants to use the money but can't tell you... And also.. He probably thinks that a man has to put some money on him. So...

You're too strict to be like this, in fact, sometimes you can do a long line with one eye and one eye closed, and now he can't stand the fact that his colleagues want to save face and take the card away, which is the legendary mistake......

You can ask him to give a fixed amount of 500 yuan a month, and how he spends the rest is his business. The bad thing is that he is used to you buying him this and that, hey, if he doesn't dress well, people will think that his wife is not good. As long as the principle of fixing 500 yuan per month remains unchanged, you still have to give him back the opportunity to be a man's self-reliance After all, men have a lot of entertainment, and sometimes it's not easy to get it.

He really can't do it if he wants to pretend to be generous, let him pretend to suffer more, and he knows that this is not interesting.

My family's money is all in charge of it, there is no one's own difference, and if you have money, you save it together, and when you spend it, you are all together. . .

My husband will tell each other what he buys and what I buy myself.

I think that after marriage, couples can discuss more finances, and not all husbands' salary cards must be given to their wives because the rest of their lives are maintained by husband and wife, so I think this matter needs to be negotiated between husband and wife.

In my own thoughts, I think that the husband's salary card should be handed over to his wife for safekeeping, because the salary card for his wife can be regarded as a sense of security given by the husband to Tan Duan Qi after marriage, and she will be very relieved to devote herself to the family, because this card brings her husband's trust in herself and her love for herself, and after the woman devotes herself to the family, the man should give the salary card to his wife, after all, there is an old saying that is very good, the male is outside the female protagonist. Moreover, I think that handing over the salary card to my wife can limit my husband's indiscriminate spending to a certain extent, after all, many men will learn badly if they have money, so this is also to maintain family harmony. Or if his wife is lavish and will not take care of the funds after marriage, at this time, her husband's salary card also allows Ling not to hand it over to his wife, but the premise is to ask for his wife's consent.

In most families in our country, the husband will take the initiative to hand over his wife after marriage, and some people are financially independent from their wives, because both husband and wife are relatively independent, so it is also a very common thing for the husband and wife to negotiate independence in this case, not to mention that the current society requires equality between men and women, and women's independence has become the norm in this society, so they don't care about their husband's salary card, But what I care about is my husband's heart for me.

In general, the harmony of a family lies in the communication and tolerance between husband and wife, if it is just a quarrel over the little things in life, then the feelings between husband and wife will also be hurt, and such a marriage will not last long, so we must learn to understand and tolerate each other.

Summary. I never thought about asking for my husband's salary card, before I got married, my husband said that he wanted to give me the salary card, I didn't ask for it, I think a man is very faceless if he has no money for anything outside! What's more, if he is such a messy person, no matter how you stop it, it won't be effective.

I didn't ask for his salary card, but he treated me better! So I don't think it's necessary to have a payroll card. If your husband treats you well and has no vices, then you don't need to do that.

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The two of you have a conflict, or is it because you spend money arbitrarily, is it because you give money to your mother's family, don't think too much about things, even if he really shows something. You have to open your eyes and get through it early, take your time, I believe you will wait until he takes the initiative to give you the card to the ruler of the sky, come on.

I never thought about asking for my husband's salary card, before I got married, my husband said that he wanted to give the salary card to the hall for me, I didn't ask for it, I think a man is very faceless if there is something outside and he has no money! What's more, if he is such a messy person, no matter how you stop it, it won't be effective. I didn't ask for his salary card, but he was better for me!

So I don't think it's necessary to have a payroll card. If your husband treats you very well and doesn't have bad habits, then you don't need to do that.

Legal analysis: The property acquired during the marriage belongs to the joint property of the husband and wife, and can be negotiated first, and if the other party refuses, the other party can sue the other party.

The law is based on the rough evidence:

Civil Code of the People's Republic of China Article 1062 The following property acquired by a husband and wife during the existence of a marital relationship shall be the joint property of the husband and wife and shall be jointly owned by the husband and wife

1) Wages, bonuses, and remuneration for labor services;

2) Income from production, operation and investment;

3) income from intellectual property rights;

4) Inherited or donated property, except for the mausoleum cherry blossoms provided for in Item 3 of Article 1063 of this Law;

5) Other property that shall be jointly owned.

Husband and wife have equal rights to dispose of joint property.

He works in the suburbs of Shanghai and earns a lot of money, but he works very hard and often works overtime on weekends. For this reason, we can't see each other every day, and even the "weekend couple" is reluctant. Before getting married, I didn't care about his salary, but after I got married, I thought about it again and again, he likes to spend money indiscriminately, and he is a "moonlight clan" almost every month, so I proposed to let him hand in his salary card.

He wasn't very willing, but eventually agreed. However, it has been less than two months since he handed it in, and he has already asked for his salary card back several times. He said that I was making him feel uneasy now, and that a man who didn't have three or four thousand dollars on him was insecure.

I'm conflicted, I don't know if I'm really restricting men's freedom. We had a very bad time with this, am I really wrong?

Answer: Everyone wants to save face, especially men. If he wants you to keep his wallet, that's the best of both worlds; But if he resists it, it will be a trigger for family conflicts.

The lesser of two evils, weigh it up for yourself before making a choice.