What have you learned from social life?

First, you can't be blindly kind, sometimes kindness will be used by others and become their tools.

Second, do things conscientiously and don't be cheating and slippery, because all your behaviors and actions are seen by the leader.

Third, find a job that suits you and be a happy person.

I truly understood the saying: "Kindness is very precious, but kindness does not grow teeth, it is weak." "This is what a writer named Boboni said.

When I first entered the workplace, I wanted to be kind to others, and I often tolerated and tried not to have conflicts with them, but after a long time, I found that they had to make inches and constantly bullied me.

Our kindness should never be the first person to hurt us.

I know, not everyone is kind, in the beginning, don't be kind to others, but you can't treat everyone with malice and bad hearts. Then I also understood that a person must be bold, don't be afraid of losing face, many things, you need to have self-confidence, try to make yourself better.

I've just started college, but I've been exposed to a lot of social things, and I think the most important thing I've learned in social life is hard work and tactfulness. Slickness doesn't mean that you are the kind of sycophant, and you have to learn to be flexible, and then this society will never eliminate people who work hard.

I learned to rely on anyone rather than on myself. Learn more, watch more, and master more life tips. Try to solve the things you can solve yourself, and don't make trouble for others. In social life, we must learn to be independent and self-reliant, so as not to be eliminated and abandoned by society.

As long as you do everything carefully, your road can go more smoothly.

I have been working in the factory for the past few years, and I want to resign because of physical reasons, but the leader has not approved it.

During that time, I completely indulged myself, arrived late and left early, went to work and played on my mobile phone, anyway, I made all the mistakes I could, and my work was delayed a lot.

Although the leader approved it, my reputation among my colleagues was also bad, and everyone thought that I was a broken jar and not a stable person.

A while ago, when I went out to eat, a new friend also talked about it, of course he didn't know that it was me, but he just said that after I left, he also criticized me by name during the morning meeting.

When I first graduated, I was very arrogant, I didn't know how to be humble to others, and I only had one belief that "I got these things by my ability, and I didn't accept them to fight." So I got into a lot of trouble at work and offended a lot of people. After suffering a lot, my temper slowly became more relaxed, and I knew to avoid things when I encountered them, and my colleagues around me said that I was like a different person.

The best way to know is to experience it for yourself.

You can learn about social life through television, books, and more.

Have you tried to do it in every industry?

Learn about society through TV and mobile phones.

Withdraw more cash and listen to learn by yourself.

1. Insist on speaking Mandarin. In the process of speaking, you can know the pronunciation of words.

2. Insist on reading books and newspapers every day, develop a good habit of recognizing words and words, and inquiring if you don't understand.

3. Insist on keeping a diary and good writing habits.

4. Insist on practicing calligraphy and develop the habit of neat writing.

5. Write appropriately, write when you have the opportunity, and consolidate your language ability.

Through the above daily practice, the learning of strong Chinese is strengthened.

1.Experience and practice is the most intuitive way to understand the society, and it can be as consistent with the real society as possible, and will not be misled by broken insights, let alone deceived by people's mistakes.

Compared with people's physical behavior, people's spiritual consciousness should be more active and focused, and they should be aware of the differences in social forms, and in a broad sense, they should compare the differences between countries, religions, and cultures, and the differences between different world views, outlooks on life, and values in terms of individuals.

In fact, everyone's perception of society is absolutely different from others, and if people want to understand the truth of society, they cannot stop their understanding of society on their own superficial feelings, and they must systematize their own experience of society.

2.How we make these important or unimportant decisions depends on how we understand social life. We humans have powerful and efficient brains, and while our brains are amazing, they are far from perfect.

One of the manifestations of this imperfection is that the vast majority of us simply "know" a lot of things that are not correctly judged.

3.When you study in society, what you see and hear is the material you learn. Paying attention to this society, observing what is happening to it, and observing how it changes, helps us understand the world and speculate about future trends.

Chinese society is changing rapidly, and in the midst of such rapid social changes, where should we go from here? This is a question worth pondering.

Be careful in your own society, and at the same time, observe and experience different societies as much as possible. There are a million ways to live in life, and there are countless possibilities in society. Different societies can have different political systems, economic models, and cultural traditions, and understanding these differences can make us more tolerant and understand the world better.

Learn about social life in the following ways:

To put it bluntly, to participate in social practice is to participate in social life through labor and work, so as to understand the colorful social life. In this way, they can recognize their own shortcomings, and learn a lot of knowledge that cannot be learned in textbooks, and enrich themselves.

Read more useful newspapers and books to enrich your knowledge.

Learn about the life of the social life through **, such as watching TV, Internet queries and so on.

Participate in more public welfare activities and expand your social relationships.

Gain a deeper understanding of social life.

Going to the society, the feeling is to be cautious in words and deeds!

You may think of yourself as a high student, feel that you have great potential, and you are unwilling to go along with those people.

In fact, you may not know that they used to have a positive and kind heart like you, but they were covered up by social habits, and they are also such people in their hearts. But life told him with facts that it was just too naïve to do so.

1. When others ask you, you will be unreservedly and discussive, do you think this is enthusiastic and talkative?

You may be seen by others as a talkative person, but in fact, you are? It seems to be too lonely, yes, lonely. You crave someone who might hear your heart and want to be resonated with.

But in the eyes of others, your talkative is like a fool.

2. Don't talk too much about the relationship between men and women, just listen to people complaining about themselves, otherwise, in the end, you will definitely not be a person inside and out.

In life, when your friend falls out of love, he will come to you for comfort, maybe when he is drinking, he will complain about the other party's badness, at this time you just listen silently, don't interject in the other party's time, say how the other party is not good. Once the two of them get back together, people will think that you are saying bad things about the person you are talking about, and you will end up being a different person inside and out.

3. Don't lend money to others casually.

When you owe money and don't pay it back, you will say that you are not a friend enough, this is simply to find your own guilt, maybe when he borrowed money with you repeatedly asked how sincere, you because of your soft-hearted and kind, is to help him, but please remember, if you choose to borrow money.

If you want to grind and have a 50% chance, you can't get this money back, and if you insist on it, you will not only lose money, but also lose friendship.

4. Don't think it's okay to introduce someone to others.

Don't accept unreliable people, the object you introduce, first think about whether you have a target, and introduce the object to others, which means that if the two parties are together, they will have to live for a lifetime, and if the relationship is good, it's just that.

If the relationship after marriage is particularly bad, then you, who pulled the red thread at the beginning, are you an unforgivable wicked person, and you have harmed the two of them for the rest of their lives.

5. At the critical time, you must see who is the big boss?

Standing in the wrong team ruins all the lessons of blood and tears, you must know how to distinguish between right and wrong, and everything is based on the interests of the company. Don't do things that go against your personality for the sake of your own private feelings.

When I went out from campus to society, I think the biggest feeling was that the list on my shoulders was heavier and the pressure was greater.

Because you are a child when you are in school, you don't have to worry about other things besides studying, for example, if you have no money, you reach out to your parents to ask for it, if you don't have anything to eat, your parents will buy it for you, and if you don't have anything to wear, your parents will also prepare it for you in time, you just take care of yourself and study hard. The rest of the mind doesn't need to itself.

But once you go from campus to society, it is completely different, because at this time you are already an adult, you need to rely on your own ability to work hard, you need to earn money to support yourself, and even need to earn money to improve the life of your family.

Therefore, after going out into the society to read dates, the most important thing is that you have to find a job that suits you to earn money to support your family, and you can no longer reach out to your parents to ask for money. You can't just stay at home and gnaw on the old. That's going to be laughed at.

And sometimes we can't find a job that suits us for a while, and at this time you have to make money, even if it is a particularly hard job, as long as you can make money, it is the best proof of your ability. Don't be picky about work, you can't have a particularly good job all at once, this requires you to slowly work hard to find, or rely on your efforts to fight, such an opportunity.

In short, after people end their student life and go to society, they must adapt to the changes in the rhythm of life, bravely accept the challenges of life, rely on their unremitting efforts to change their living conditions, and assume their responsibilities due to Xianggaodong.

Of course, I learned to be tactful.

Because if this society is particularly simple, it will only be bullied under normal circumstances. Hail stoves even oppress others, and will not give you a chance to get ahead, because everyone is competing in a sedan car.

The relationship between colleagues in the workplace is the relationship between collaboration and competition, and to put it bluntly, the relationship of interests. Then if you are not tactful, you may be used as a backing by others.

And if the newcomer in the workplace does not maintain the source and learn to be tactful, then you may be ignored and unable to learn anything in the process of work, and you will be treated as a good person. There is little value.

And in the workplace, there are gentlemen and villains, if we don't learn culture, then it's normal for villains to be in charge, in front of you.

And in the actual process, Yang Hua himself is the lubricant for the interests of the work, and it is good for the work, for the individual, and for everyone.

So this newcomer should learn to be tactful.