What am I going to do so I don t hurt him 30

Can you turn things into things by running away?

After all, it's been 5 years together.

I'm sure you've had a laugh.

There have been noises, too.

Can you treat it all at once as if it were nothing?

Man. Who can do nothing.

Just give him a chance.

I broke up with my first love for four years, for the same reason as you, but I didn't forgive him, because I am a person who pursues perfection, I am very sad when I think that he has been with other women, I know that I will be sad for a lifetime with him, and even say that I want to take revenge on him for being with someone else, I am also very painful, but don't I come here now? I advise you that long pain is better than short pain!

If you think you still love him, don't break up, if you think you don't love him anymore, break up, but I think you still love him because you're afraid that he will get hurt.

Sincere repentance is almost the same. Haven't you known him for 5 years? Forgive if you deserve to be forgiven, and don't let yourself regret it if you truly love each other.

If you really love him, give him a chance.

If you think about it and say break up because you don't love it, then say it quickly and don't run away, so that you will also be relieved, and you will no longer let the other party have expectations. If you are angry for a while, then you should think about it carefully, after all, the five-year relationship is not child's play, don't regret it for a lifetime. I don't know what he did wrong, but if you still have feelings for him, forgive him the next time he asks you.

Sometimes it's a little bit of an episode in your life, just when God gives you a gift of remembrance.

Men are almost like this, betraying you, and pretending to love you, this kind of man is called hypocrisy, hehe this is"Hypocrisy"** of the word.

People will always make mistakes, as long as you really like him, and he really likes you, you give him a chance, because I lost such an opportunity, and it's too late to regret it.

You don't want to break his heart yet? Why does he make you sad? Why did he betray you, what do you feel guilty about? It's really incomprehensible.

There will be a lot of setbacks, sadness, and disappointments on the road of love, which is not only a setback, but also a test of whether your relationship is strong, one party betrayed the other, maybe whoever you are, no one can bear it, but you can't ask everything to be perfect, everyone, even if you are excellent, it is inevitable that there will be mistakes, you can give him a chance, I think, your punishment for him is enough, let him know that without you, he is sad, very lost, even if he loses to another girl, Could it be that the power given to you by your five-year relationship can't defeat that girl in just one day? Have faith in yourself and believe in yourself while helping your boyfriend and you stand side by side. Go through this hurdle.

If there are so many regret pills to sell in the world, why should there be so many sad men and women!

When it's time to let go, you have to let go, and don't cause bigger problems in the future because of soft-heartedness.

You've been sentenced to say what you love the most, ridiculous!!

This kind of friend is not about to be lost.

Simple, huh? It's okay to tell him, you don't like him anymore anyway?

If I want to do not hurt others, I should do the following: 1. Obeying the rules and regulations and operating correctly is the basic guarantee that I will not harm others. 2. When working with multiple people or cross-working, they should cooperate with each other and take into account the safety of others. 3. Don't leave hidden dangers after work.

First of all, I will refuse with a tact, so that there will be no psychological impact on the other person. I think it's important to reject the other person clearly and tactfully, tell the other person, and let the other person understand what you think and feel. Secondly, let the other party understand that two people have no fate, and love cannot be forced without feelings, and don't play ambiguous with each other without feelings.

In addition to a tactful refusal, the following points need to be paid attention to in the process of rejection:

1. The way of rejection is determined according to the object Although you don't like the other party, if the other party is your classmate, friend or colleague, then you just need to be able to show your rejection attitude, don't say too hurtful, which will destroy the original relationship between you, and it will be very embarrassing to meet in the future.

2. Treat politely, don't take advantage of everyone who wants to have a person behind you who can affirm themselves at all times, if you have such a person waiting for you and loving you behind you, don't accept him because you don't like it, because this is unfair to him, you waste his time, energy, and even a lifetime of happiness.

3. Direct showdown refusal.

Through voice communication**, QQ voice, etc., this way is mainly not to face the other party, do not want to meet the other party. Pay attention to the topic quickly when calling, the tone of rejection should be firm, and the call should not be too long.

4. Please respect the other party Maybe the other party is not the type you like and can't meet your own conditions. Maybe you just don't like him in your heart No matter what, it's a beautiful thing to be appreciated and liked by the other party, you can't accept the other party, but don't hurt the other party.

Internalize the self-perception that prevents you from seeing your strengths, and think carefully about concretizing what you think is bad, down to everything and every detail. Accept them psychologically, no one is perfect, people's abilities are limited, and it is understandable that they are almost in some aspects, and they can work hard to do a little better.

Learn to say no. 1. Be embarrassed.

Embarrassment is a very flexible refusal, for example, when someone asks you to do something, you can tell the other person that you are going to do something very important next, and you may not be able to arrange the time. Because you already have other arrangements before the other person makes the request, you have promised someone something or arranged something important yourself, and out of a responsible attitude, you do not have the time and energy to help the other person.

When you say that, the other person often doesn't force or force you to do something, because the other person knows, because you do have other things to do, and you really don't have time to help him. As long as the reason is reasonable, the other person will definitely accept this strategy without hurting your relationship with the other person.

2. Be gentle when refusing.

Everyone has self-esteem, and when we reject others, we need to take into account the self-esteem of the other person. The same sentence, expressed in different tones and tones, will have different effects.

In other words, when refusing, in addition to expressing your own meaning clearly, the tone should be as amiable as possible. Use a gentle attitude to say the reason for your refusal, so that others feel that you are sincere, rather than deliberately refusing, so that the other party will not be embarrassed to blame you.