Please help me solve my emotional problems!

I have the following advice for you in this situation:

If the other person doesn't tell you personally that he likes you, don't be sentimental.

Keep your distance from her. It's okay to appreciate a person with a sublime aesthetic. We have to understand a truth, which is called love over time. Feelings, like drugs, can't be provoked, so you have to learn to hide.

Have more contact with other friends of the opposite sex to make your personality cheerful and open-minded. When you feel that you have a good impression of someone, then try to have more contact with other friends of the opposite sex, and it will be much better, and after a month or two, there will be nothing left. Don't push yourself into the corner.

Don't give up the whole forest for a tree. Study hard, middle school students, the princess or prince in your life is waiting for you to ...... by the Weiming Lake on the university campus, by the cherry blossom pavilion

You and her have not promised each other anything, no one needs to be responsible for anyone, the landlord gives up that kind of revenge, after many years you will understand how naïve you are now. Forget the past and start a new life, the future will be better.

Childish, you're just unwilling, you just have to ask yourself Why do you want to retaliate Why do you want to retaliate against others It's because you didn't confess that you missed it Even if she likes you You've never dated She can change the person she likes at any time, she has the right to do it What's more, what kind of revenge law do you want If she doesn't like you, you take the sky down and people don't take care of you Don't toss You really don't have this position...

You have to learn how to be a man now, first of all, you have to be open-minded to be a man, in fact, a lot of this thing is to blame yourself, since you like people, why don't you say it? Not only do you not say it, but you also talk back, this is a taboo in feelings! Then you have no right to hate others, learn the lesson.

Remind me that adolescent girls are generally much more mature than boys, and whoever you like in the future will have to say that you can't love face and play personality, or there will be no such store in this village.

First, why should you take revenge on someone, does he owe you anything? Second, you just heard her sister say that she has a crush on you, how can you be sure that what her sister said is the truth. Third, it's normal that you will come into contact with more friends of the opposite sex in your first year of high school, and it's easy to change your mind!

Fourth, did you do anything? You've been working on a passive square, do you think it's appropriate? Let's talk about my thoughts!

If I were you, I would take the initiative, because I am a northerner and am very direct in this regard, so I will talk to her face to face, if I like it, I can work harder if I like it or not, if I can't do it, I can only give up, and feelings can't be forced! What I said may have gone a little too far, sorry! But this is my truest opinion, I hope it can help you!

Don't mistake her easily, first find out if she really has someone you like, and find a way to confirm this first, which is what you need to figure out urgently.

The idea of the little brother is wrong.

Blame yourself for not having the courage to confess to others.

The two of you get along a bit of a tightrope ha, hehehe, but you still think it's impossible for you, it's good to think like this, most women are indecisive, so the point is that you master this degree, when you get along, whether intentionally or unintentionally, tangible or invisible, you have to emphasize to her that your relationship is just friends, you can always have a clear mind, for example, if she complains in front of you how unromantic her husband is, how unintimate, or not as good as you, You must not say that I am here, I will be good to you or something, you have to treat her like a buddy, little sweet, little romance is not needed, the difference between lovers and friends is that if she is angry, if it is a lover, she will coax her, and the words of friends are to comfort from an objective point of view.

Or the next time she asks you out, you might be better off by bringing the talkative woman you're nice to with and talking about something you like.

Friend, long pain is better than short pain, although now occasionally she still wants to be with you impulse, but you must believe that a woman, once she has her own family, has a husband who loves her very much, and has a lovely child, at this time she must be the happiest in the world, and will not let herself make mistakes again, she is reluctant to have a child. So, maybe not being in touch is the best way for you to get along. You can find something that suits you, I wish you happiness!

She's pretty selfish, don't you think?? She is married and still occupies your care for her, care, such a woman is not worthy of your love, if she really doesn't want to break up with you, and still loves you, why is she still decisively married, why do you continue to break off the thread with you, proving that she is a selfish and self-reliant woman, you make others happy for the sake of others, why don't you want to think about what your happiness is? ? What exactly are you after???

If it is really a woman who loves you, she will not get married, and she will not be pestering you after getting married! is a woman who really loves you, and will only let go after getting married, and will think about your happiness !! Think about it for yourself !!

Why is it impossible? There is no right or wrong in the relationship Life has been in the world for decades How can it be as good as it can be, Do you think you two still have true love If you are really reluctant You should take her over (if she doesn't have children) Otherwise, you can only cut through the mess quickly, otherwise the two of you will only fall deeper and deeper The situation will only get worse and worse Do you still want to contact him and her? Can you calmly meet her face to face and be a friend?

If you can, please continue to be friends and care about her or something (but this may affect his family, I don't think it's good) If you don't feel for her anymore and are just reluctant, please let go as soon as possible, so that neither of you has to be hurt too much, and the long pain is better than the short pain! So there are only two paths in front of you, either you go through a lot of obstacles together, or you stay away, or in the case of two people still have feelings, it's easy to have problems, and both of you are in pain, aren't you?

When you truly love someone, you can do anything for them willingly without thinking about anything in return. The best example of this is the love that parents have for their children. Between people of the opposite sex, in the initial stage of emotion, the motivation to possess each other accounts for a large proportion.

Possession here refers to treating the other person as one's own private property. When you interact with each other, slowly sublimate your feelings, and go further, you will find that true love is not possession, not regarding each other as your own private property, but silently blessing each other.

There are some things that cannot be hesitated and regretted. Now that the other party is married, let the other party live well in their own family and don't get distracted. Otherwise, it's not good for all three.

To come down is to leave the other party's sight and cut off communication. In this way, the other party can be dead to themselves, and their emotions will not stagnate outside the system.

This is called long pain is not as good as short pain.

There is a kind of friend named Lan Yan, who just cares about her silently. Closer than friends, but without the attachment of lovers. Always accompanied silently, and had no luxury for her. If you've watched the Japanese anime Nana, you'll know better, like Ty to Nana.

I have a few female friends, and I am like this with them, usually it feels very flat, but it is very warm when I think about it. Their boyfriends also knew about our relationship, but they both understood.

Leave her, don't hurt others, today's hesitation will only ruin the happiness of two people, as a man, you have to dare to take responsibility, unless you think you really dare to be with her and can give her happiness, otherwise, don't break the connection with others.

Since she made the decision to break up with her, let's keep the relationship as a friend, she already has a new life, and it shouldn't be like this anymore. But if you both like each other, and she can't be happy with her current husband, then make it clear to her husband as soon as possible, otherwise it will be painful and unfair to her husband.

Maybe letting go is a kind of wisdom, if you are like this, the more it hurts, let go early, maybe it can be good for each other. She is not yours now, and comfort and care are not your responsibility. Let it go.

It's fun for the two of you to talk about uselessness, you're going to be together for a long time, and since you can't be together, it's still.

I can only say that you have nothing else to pursue in life except for such a little thing.

People are emotional animals, in fact, it is not easy to meet people who love each other, maybe you are important to each other, why not deal with it well, to be an important person in the hearts of both parties. Maybe it's attachment, maybe it's love. Then keep it as you are and talk to her about how to deal with your relationship, communication is very important.

In the future, if she has something unhappy to find you, you can chat with her, enlighten her, you can be friends, although you are both married, but you can still be friends, as a friend, care about it.

I think, she loves you, people are fragile and selfish animals, but love is selfish, but if marriage is selfless, you think about it, her husband, what should I do?

And when they have children in the future, how are you going to deal with them? I think even if you can't bear it, you can do it as long as you decide.

Her life has nothing to do with you, she has a husband, what right do you have to take care of and love each other?

Since you defended in the first place? It doesn't matter to you whether you are happy or not, give you advice, don't do things that hurt other people's families.

Feel it with your heart! There is no technical way to solve this! I hope you can make the right choice for you! There is no replication to solve this kind of problem, only you, only you face this status quo! Bless you!

If you give up on your own initiative, she will definitely get better slowly, leaving her is the real happiness of the two of you, try it buddy! Just give up and don't forget.

Less contact and find your own happiness. It's good for both of you.

Let's go and find your own happiness She is not destined to be yours Time can ** all hurt.

If you think about it, when she is sad, she has her husband with you, and you will find that it is nothing.

,,, want to do it too. But I knew it couldn't be, and it would definitely not be good for her to have such frequent contact with us,,, no problem,,, just want to be safe.

I'm married, I'm worried about what I'm going to do in the future, and I'm living in the present.

At least there's nothing going on right now.

How to put it, change is sure to change. It is said that there is an albino period in the relationship, and so is marriage, and it must be sweet and sweet when you just get married, and you are also very filial and generous to each other's parents. Think about it, how many couples have you seen that the relationship has been as sweet and sweet as when they first got married?

Change is sure to change, but it's impossible to say whether it will change for better or worse. Most men will have extramarital affairs, and there are many divorces. I can't say for sure.

It's hard to say

I don't know what the landlord's intention is to post?

It's entirely possible for a man to become rich and bad, but their family is so rich that it's not easy to go out and find a girl

Besides, the girl now recognizes the money ......

First of all, you can't persuade others! If it's you! That can only be said to maintain the current life as much as possible! As for the change, it's not for anyone! But society is realistic! Good men are still bad for that! Ask for more blessings.

Feelings remain the same, never the same.

The two of them are a good match.

Let's start with a friend, but tell you in advance, what you can't get is what you cherish the most, sometimes you get it but it will disappoint you, try to understand him, and then make a decision. In short, no matter what happens in the future, you must love yourself well, so that you can love others better. After all, you're only a freshman now, and it's hard to talk about emotional things, but remember to cherish it and don't regret it, so that you can grow.

Hope it helps you o(o

Girls who have just entered college have beautiful visions, but at the same time, it is easy to think too much and think too complicated. You don't necessarily really like him, maybe you have a good feeling, but there is still a long way to go before you fall in love. Think about your heart.

Find an opportunity to walk together, and everything will fall into place after a long time.

What is the reason why you can't make it public, if the union of the two of you is a serious mistake in itself, then separation may not be a wrong choice, if that reason is just family background or something like that, I think it can be overcome, it's best to tell the story, the secret will always break out after a long time in your heart, so if you two want to find the answer, you must look directly at your own problems and be brave!

I'm the wind and give me points, if you don't give me points, I'll be ruthless.

Why not say it??? Let's talk to her family.

If you can, prove it to her family, and if not, let it go! Your girlfriend is also in pain.

The realistic approach is to listen to your family.

First, there is no law in China that prohibits premarital sex.

Second, Chinese law does not protect unmarried cohabitation.

Third: On the basis of no legal regulations, everything that happened between you before marriage was voluntary, and you gave yourself to him voluntarily, and he did not forcibly get you on the basis of your unwillingness.

Fourth: On the basis of your willingness, it is difficult for the law to clearly say who is responsible, and it is generally private between the two parties!

Fifth: If you have to sue him, it is recommended that you go to a local law firm for consultation, because you must hire a lawyer to fight a lawsuit, and the law firm will tell you what to do! We're talking a lot here, you'll have to hire a lawyer in the end!

Finally, I want to say to you: cherish yourself, since you were wrong once, learn a lesson, and pay more attention to your boyfriend next time.

Wishing you good health! If you're going to fight a lawsuit, I wish you victory!