We ve been together for more than two years, and now that my boyfriend is going abroad for 4 years,

Updated on society 2024-02-27
20 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Tell you from experience.

    The odds are less than winning the lottery.

    Know that you may not believe it, but time will tell. But what will you get when the time passes?

    Maybe you can never believe it without experiencing it; Even if you did what we said and divided; Four years from now, you're still asking the same question. People are always like that.

    It's also regret, for myself, in fact, for him, think about it.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Nothing is impossible.

    Feelings need a long test to be truly happy, bless you!!

    If the relationship can't withstand the test of three years and five years.

    What kind of love is that?

    Wishing you happiness!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It's still too young, and I think of my old self.

    Distance really changes everything.

    If you don't believe it, you can't. Went abroad.

    Your level is not the same, and there is very little common language.

    They are not there when they need each other.

    Especially when you need comfort.

    So. Prepare for the worst.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    No one dares to guarantee you in the future, no one can guarantee that a man will not change his mind for the rest of his life, let it be, you are always yours!!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It's man-made, I hope you have a lover and eventually become a family.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Summary. It's perfectly fine to be with your boyfriend for more than a year and go to his house for the New Year.

    I've been with my boyfriend for more than a year, okay to go to his house for the New Year.

    It's perfectly fine to be with your boyfriend for more than a year and go to his house for the New Year.

    But have you ever figured out that although it is said that it is the New Year, it is also said in disguise that you are their daughter-in-law.

    The pressure is still there.

    1. You haven't determined the relationship If the relationship between two people has not been determined, for this case, it is better for the girl not to go to the man's house, especially for the New Year, if you go to the man's house for the New Year, it is generally a prospective daughter-in-law. Therefore, before the relationship is confirmed, don't rush to the man's house, it's a bit inappropriate. 2. You have determined that the relationship has been determined and you are ready to get married, at this time, you can go to your boyfriend's house for the New Year, and meet your boyfriend's parents casually, but remember to bring some gifts, it seems impolite to be empty-handed, which will greatly reduce the impression of your boyfriend's parents.

    The relationship between you has not yet been determined, in this case, the girl should not go to each other's house, especially during the Chinese New Year. In the eyes of the elderly, I pay attention to these, generally the girls in my own family during the Chinese New Year, that is my prospective daughter-in-law, you think, even if there are not so many things, you went to meet a large family by yourself, and then broke up with your boyfriend, let his family think of you, your boyfriend may not have a good time.

    When you have determined the relationship, then it is a matter of time before you become someone's daughter-in-law, at this time to go to someone's house for the New Year, it is a kind of respect for the man, if your family and the man's family are not opposed, it is okay. But to remind you that if you want to go to the man's house for the New Year, then it is best to meet the man's family before, don't let the embarrassment between you, the most during the New Year is the seven aunts and eight aunts, and they will definitely pull you to talk non-stop, at this time, your future parents-in-law are your saviors.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It might be better not to get married for a while. Through these two years, you will have time for both yourself and each other to seriously consider whether you must be together in the future. If your relationship is still the same, or even better, after the test of time, it's not too late to get married.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    You can use these two years to test him, after the test of distance time and other environmental factors, if you still love each other after two years That is true love Communicate with him In fact, marriage is a matter of status Even if you are married now, you will still get together less and leave more It is better to use two years to verify the love between you I think if you and your boyfriend make this suggestion, he should agree After all, this is a good thing for both of you.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Married to him, his boyfriend's company sent him to work abroad for two years, and he could return to China after two years. It's not easy to find someone who loves you, you have to take the opportunity. Wishing you happiness!

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I advise you not to tie the knot, at least for now.

    The date you have been together is actually very short, and it can be said that you are still in love.

    And he doesn't know each other well enough, he hasn't gotten along with each other, and he can't know his way of doing things.

    The so-called hardship for truth, there is no test between you, let's wait for a while.

    The ignorance of first love fills you with fantasies and beautiful visions, but you have to face reality.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    1. Is this man good to you, is it the man you want?

    2. How is the relationship between you, is it stable?

    3. When he goes abroad, can you follow him? It's the kind that carries family members.

    4. Do you have confidence in him, only you know this, and you know him better than we know him.

    5. Are you ready for family and marriage?

    6. You can ask your parents to see what your parents say.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I think you already have the answer between the lines, but you don't dare to face it. Be brave, the relationship is to be operated by two people and trust each other, since you have doubts about him and waver, separate and find a suitable one for you. Don't hesitate any longer, I think the answer you actually always knew just didn't really want to take it.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I don't know what you've known each other for a year, what you've been through, and how your relationship is? If you have a very good relationship and know each other very well, then you can consider getting married, but I think it's best to get married after he comes back, two years, and not in the same country, it's really hard to guarantee a relationship. You can get married half a year after he returns to China, so if your relationship hasn't changed after two years, it is ideal to give each other half a year to adapt and get married again.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Lovers eventually become married. You're thinking too much, and it's understandable that it's called premarital panic. I wish you a happy marriage and an early birth of a precious son.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Reach the age of marriage. It's better for a woman to marry early. It's also good to go abroad. Try a new life.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Really loved. Let's end it!

    In this world, it is not easy to meet someone who loves ...... and loves himself

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Choking on food? You have nothing to lose, you are still young, and the wait for these two years is not long. Wouldn't it be too stupid to give up because you are afraid of change?

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    The path is yours to choose. It doesn't matter if the result is right or wrong, just don't regret it.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    There is some truth to your worries, which means that you are still an independent girl.

    In any case, there is one thing you should understand very well, that is, you are very young, this is the capital, it should be him who is anxious instead of you, if you wait another two years and you are only 24 years old, so you should be cautious and not blindly follow, for the following reasons:

    Marriage is a lifelong thing, and the personalities of two people should be suitable, and if the personalities are not compatible, it is difficult for the marriage to last long, and such examples abound.

    How to prove that the personalities of the two are suitable, two people can basically have a certain understanding after dating for a year, and it would be better if they could try to get married.

    Like you, who only stayed for a month and separated, in fact, the foundation is not very good, so it is recommended that you wait, there is no need to rush, if you really can't make up your mind, you can discuss with your elders or older brothers and sisters than you, and don't blindly follow.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    It doesn't matter if the result is right or wrong, just don't regret it.

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