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The parents of the daughter who divorced just felt sad. How can you marry such a man, parents all over the world are for their children, no matter who is right or wrong, they are on the side of their children, at this time the parents are just helpless, sad, and tell their parents well, how filial piety, they have the conditions to take their parents to their side, take good care of filial piety, divorce will also take into account your parents, it means that you are a filial daughter, divorce in this world is normal, want to open a little, time can dilute everything,
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If divorce is the best choice, two people can be happy, then why not let the daughter be happy, parents just want to see their children happy, sometimes going with the flow is the best arrangement, divorce can still find happiness, life is short, if you have to be like this, the children are still your baby before, and the parents still love as always, after all, they all want their children to be happy.
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Divorce is your own business, and it doesn't have much to do with your parents.
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1 Don't be angry, don't ask about the innocent, don't allow the child to divorce, sometimes the more parents are like this, it seems that they want to save the family, but it backfires and accelerates the breakdown of the family.
2. Nor can they be influenced by traditional ideas, because children are ashamed of divorce, and they are afraid that they will not be able to hold their heads up in front of others, so they should not be prevented from divorcing.
3. It is best to remain neutral, treat children's affairs objectively, believe that children are adults and can make wise choices for their families, but advise children to weigh the pros and cons and not be blindly impulsive;
4. Parents should not favor their children, only see what the other party is not, aggravate the conflict between the child and the wife, and make the problem worse;
5. Communicate sincerely with the children, understand their inner thoughts and needs, guide the children to see each other's needs and dissatisfactions, help them find the greatest common divisor, find common needs, and seek fundamental ways and effective ways to solve problems;
6 With sincere love and blessings for the two children, I hope that they can live happily with each other, and if they are in trouble, they are willing to help them without hesitation, and become a strong backing for them when they are in trouble.
7. If children are unable to solve the problem, they can seek help from a psychological counselor.
8 If the relationship between the two children breaks down and they are indeed inappropriate for each other, respect their choice, break up peacefully, and wish them to find their true happiness as soon as possible.
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I think that the road is for the daughter to walk by herself, and life is also experienced by the daughter herself, not by the parents. But the words of persuasion should be said, and if you insist on leaving, then support.
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I have seen a lot of news that my daughter has gone to a dead end after her parents disagree with her divorce, so when my daughter wants to divorce, I will definitely support him wholeheartedly.
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The daughter's marriage is her own decision, if she and her husband really can't get along, there are a lot of conflicts, and they are noisy every day and unhappy, and their parents should also support it. If they are just impulsive, but they are just divorced because of their daughter's willfulness, they should still be cautious and persuade her to be more tolerant in their marriage and cherish their marriage.
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As a parent, you should look at why your daughter wants to divorce, and you can't blindly support or oppose it. If it's just a trivial matter, parents should educate their daughters, because divorce is not worth it, and if it's a son-in-law who is sorry for his daughter, then support her daughter's divorce.
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Once there may be a lot of big and small problems in the marriage, if it is not a matter of principle, I think as a parent, I should first persuade the daughter and son-in-law to communicate well, and correct each other if the bad is good, and continue to work hard.
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What parents should do is to persuade the two of them first, if there is a chance to recover, they must seize that they can't divorce so easily, and if they really can't get it back, they must support their daughter to stand on their daughter's side.
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If the daughter wants to divorce, the parents can only support it, because this marriage is not something that the parents can decide, neither of them has feelings, and it is up to the daughter to choose for herself at this time.
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If the daughter wants to divorce, the parents must have persuaded her at first, and then they may go to the son-in-law and ask her why she wants to divorce her daughter, and in the end, if the persuasion is not effective, the two of them can only sigh and sigh, there is no way.
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Persuade your daughter not to divorce as much as possible, if it is really two people who have come to an end and there is no way to live together, don't force the children, the long pain is better than the short pain, respect the children's choice.
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If persuasion fails, the child must be divorced, then tell her that her parents will always love her and are always welcome if she wants to come back to live.
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There is no divorce, and generally fathers and mothers first have to see if their daughters have suffered any grievances and whether there is anything bad about crying?
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I think you should persuade her to talk about some of the relationship between divorce, and I hope she will think about it and make decisions again and again, it is not so easy to go out of a family and enter a family.
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If the daughter wants to divorce, the parents can enlighten him well, but there is no way to listen to her, and they can't force her, they can't go on, so they have to leave, it's just to enlighten her.
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Legal Analysis: The answer to the marriage of children with divorced parents is that although the parents are divorced, the parent-child relationship cannot be dissolved. You can choose to marry your children, including the wedding reception, where the biological parents are present as the officiant, and the stepfather and stepmother are not involved.
You can also get married while traveling, and go to your father's and mother's house in turn to recognize your relatives after returning from travel.
Legal basis: Article 1049 of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China A man and a woman who wish to marry shall apply for marriage registration in person at the marriage registration authority. Where the provisions of this Law are met, they shall be registered and a marriage certificate shall be issued.
The marriage relationship is established after the marriage is registered. Where marriage registration has not been completed, the registration shall be re-registered.
Article 1084:The relationship between parents and children is not extinguished by the divorce of the parents. After divorce, the children are still the children of both parents, regardless of whether they are raised directly by the father or mother.
After divorce, parents still have the right and obligation to raise, educate and protect their children.
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Don't be afraid, everyone wants to have a good family, don't be sad, you can ask what caused the divorce first, maybe there is room for savings. You also have to respect the choice of your parents, they must have thought about what you should do, but they must have a reason, it may be because of some things that led to the breakdown of the relationship, we as their children should also tolerate and understand them, both parties may really not be able to continue to get along with each other, forcing is the torture and torment of two people, I also have the same feelings as you, but you have to be calm, you will definitely overcome the difficulties, come on!!
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Understand your parents. Good step-by-step. Do what you have to do? And reassure your parents. And your parents love you.
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Because you're 20 years old, you can also learn a few things about your parents. At the very least, you know something about their personal temperament. What kind of personality are they?
You can understand everything, but you should also try to persuade them to reconcile or reconcile. But if you really can't live together, don't be too embarrassed by your parents, let them make their own choices. After all, it is mutual for two people to live together.
When there is a contradiction, they all say that they are right, and what they see is what is wrong with others. In this way, two people will not be happy when they live together. If they really can't live together, then you have to respect them.
In a few years, you should also deal with the object, and slowly you can understand that two people have a bad relationship, and living together is really unhappy. At this time, you are not too young, you can take care of yourself, so respect their choice. Marriage is not forced.
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It has nothing to do with you, it's a relationship between them and a couple, and it shouldn't involve you. Even if they divorce, the father is still the father and the mother is still the mother, and this cannot be changed. You and your brother are not too young to accept the results of your parents' divorce.
Think about it from another perspective, if you are a mother and you are unhappy in this relationship, whether to continue or stop the loss in time.
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If you're twenty years old, you should have some judgment of your own. If you usually live together, you should also know a thing or two about the conflict between your parents.
If your mother is in charge, I think divorce is a relief for her, and there is no need to tie two unsuitable people together for the sake of the so-called family integrity.
And in a sense, you're an adult, and your brother is 16 years old. Basically, he is also an independent person with civil capacity.
So divorce won't hurt you a lot either.
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Legal analysis: to see whether the children are adults, they will have their own judgment when they become adults, and they do not need their parents to bear the responsibility of raising them, and they can be persuaded to make peace or to leave; If the child is not an adult, it can be decided who will raise it in accordance with the law.
Parents have the obligation to raise and educate their children; Children have an obligation to support their parents. If the parents fail to fulfill the obligation to support them, the child who is a minor or who is unable to live independently has the right to demand maintenance from the parents. In the event that a child fails to fulfill his or her maintenance obligations, the parent who is unable to work or who is in difficulty in living has the right to demand maintenance from the child.
Legal basis: Article 26 of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China Parents have the obligation to raise, educate and protect their minor children.
Adult children have an obligation to their parents to support, support and protect them.
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