I am studying abroad alone, what if I am homesick or lonely?

For many international students, especially young students, being in a foreign country will always face various problems and even challenges, one of which is homesickness. Chinese family concepts and family consciousness are very strong, especially during holidays and festivals, this feeling will be extremely strong. Here are some things you can do to alleviate homesickness when you're homesick abroad:

1.Eat hometown food.

Many people choose to go to Chinese restaurants to eat Chinese food when they are homesick, because the taste of hometown can always arouse their thousands of thoughts, but at the same time, it can also relieve their homesickness. In particular, some students who have just arrived in a foreign country may not be able to adapt to the eating habits of a foreign country in a short period of time, so it will be more intimate to eat a Chinese meal from time to time.

Modern communication technology is extremely developed, so if you are homesick, international students will usually choose to communicate with their parents and family members, chat, etc., talk to them about their recent situation, and at the same time can also gain a lot of encouragement and support, which are very important driving forces on their own way forward, so that students can muster up the courage to persevere.

3.Focus on learning.

Shifting attention to studying is also considered to be a very effective way to relieve homesickness. After all, the purpose of studying abroad is to enable yourself to continue to improve and improve. Many Chinese students who have studied abroad have told us:

Seeing that the American families around me can be lively every day, I will feel very lonely, and in order to relieve this emotion, I will choose to "ignore the things outside the window and only read the sages and sages". In this way, his achievements have indeed made a lot of progress at a stage, and his inner homesickness has gradually weakened.

5.Excursions.

American schools usually have a lot of holidays, some lasting up to two weeks, so during such a time, international students can feel more homesick, but in addition to enjoying happy family time with their host parents, you can also choose to travel to attractions near the school or just go shopping. Not only will this make you more familiar with your surroundings, but it will also kill time and change your mood.

I don't think about it when I'm busy.

During the day, few people think about it because they are busy.

At night, especially before bedtime, I start to feel homesick, and because I'm free, it's good to get busy.

Two or three months, three or four months, and then I went home.

**When you are homesick to communicate, call home**. Ask about the situation at home, how your parents' health and work are doing, and if anything special has happened in your home recently. Tell your parents about your recent situation, including some information about work, study, and entertainment.

Tell parents not to worry about themselves. Through communication, release some homesickness, which can alleviate the feeling of being particularly homesick.

Home webcam Install a webcam at home to see the condition of your parents at any time. When I was working, I missed my parents. You can pick up your mobile phone or pad and other devices at any time** The condition of the parents at home.

It is recommended to use Lenovo Lenovo Kanjiabao, and you can also hear their voices for conversations.

Study abroad in domestic universities.

University study abroad programs refer to some study abroad programs offered by domestic universities, where students will first take 1-3 years of domestic courses in China, and then complete the rest of the courses abroad, and finally obtain a degree certificate at home and abroad.

The study abroad programs offered by colleges and universities are generally divided into one-year pre-departure courses for studying abroad in China, two-year transfer credit courses in China, and three-year HND study abroad programs in China, as well as some degree extension programs based on these three programs. When students choose a study abroad program in a domestic university, the school's experience and whether the final degree can be certified to return to China.

Me too, I'm a freshman in the United States, and now it's winter time, and it's 13 hours worse than in China. Every morning when I get up, I feel a sense of loss, every minute is torment, I feel like I'm going to collapse, and it won't be good until my parents wake up and talk about it in the evening. After coming for three months, I found that I was not suitable for this path, and I couldn't stand homesickness.

Now I really want to go back to China to study.

There are only two paths in front of you, either hurry up and roll, or hold on wonderfully. I sometimes comfort myself like this, it's 3 o'clock in the morning in Vancouver, I just returned to the village for 2 days and I'm still jet lag, unusually homesick, come on, think about many people who are in a more painful situation than you, you will be a little more comfortable...

Homesick or something, what is there to think about, can they accompany you for a lifetime? So hurry up and try to see your developed appearance before they are old, you don't think about tea and dinner here every day, and if you break yourself, your parents will be more worried, right? If you're really sad, study hard, and after a while, really.

The countdown to leaving home for two days, it was very painful, I couldn't restrain myself when I thought of leaving, I couldn't imagine the day of the drop-off, in fact, I wanted to go alone, afraid of the parting scene.

I read a sentence before that if you don't read, don't exercise, and don't communicate with people, it's no wonder you're unhappy. I was in Germany, and I hadn't learned German for half a year when I came to German, and my English was terrible, so I couldn't communicate at all. This helplessness and loneliness is very profound, so loneliness and no one to speak has become the norm, play with the Chinese, feel that there is no progress, the language classes are all Syrian and Turkish, different cultures dare not make deep friends, and talking to a few Germans on the road is also a one-sided relationship.

It's important to learn the language well, but I also know that this is a process, so I can still make it clear what I need when I go out to do something, which is progress! Germans are actually cold on the outside and hot on the inside, and they have to take the initiative to make friends! It's difficult, but how to practice speaking without moving.

Just in China, I am very homesick now, not thinking about a specific person, nor thinking about a specific thing. Tomorrow is the winter solstice, and in the afternoon, there was a sudden discussion about what to eat on the winter solstice, and I remembered Brother LM, and I didn't miss it, I just thought about the food he cooked. I've been reading at night, and Brother LM called** came, and jokingly said that I was coming back, and when I came back, I could just celebrate my birthday at home, so this box was opened, and these little suppressed thoughts were spilled out, I don't want my parents, and I don't think much about Brother LM, in fact, I don't even think much about Xixi now, because time is really great, it can consume all your thoughts, but, today a sense of anxiety filled my whole body, and now this sense of anxiety is not so strong, I just feel a little uncomfortable, I'm not afraid, all emotions are temporary, all are temporary......!

I won't be so homesick next year.

It's the same as ordinary people going to college far away, the first two months can't hold it at all, and after half a year, they begin to gradually adapt, and they can sneak up in the local area after a year, but since they go abroad, it will really be different, and the environment is completely different from that in China, sometimes it often makes people feel depressed and uncomfortable. But it's just a matter of studying abroad, a few years, in a blink of an eye, abroad, eat well, sleep well, learn foreign languages well.

On every homesick night, look at the moon in the sky and imagine your loved ones who are thousands of miles away staring at you like this. Then you will realize that you have to become stronger silently, and have the ability to protect everything you want to protect, so that they don't have to worry about you anymore. People live their lives alone, right?

There are many people who can accompany you, and some can even be with you for a long time, but there are some roads that you have to walk alone, and you have to accept it if you don't accept it. Just like the bright moon, round or absent, bright or dark, it is its normal trajectory and cannot be changed.

In fact, meeting new people will solve problems very well. In fact, if you are on the right track, you will be very busy every day, how can you have time to miss home.