Knowing that your girlfriend has had a boyfriend before, do you want to ask them how far they have d

Updated on society 2024-02-09
20 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    This is generally not asked....Not to mention that you like her person, what you enjoy is the present and the future, and it has nothing to do with the past...Just say that your distrust of her has been revealed...You are conservative, you will not accept that she was not conservative before....The question is, does what has happened in the past mean that there will be something in the future...?! You know who your girlfriend is....Even if there is a past, you should be able to analyze what the impact of the past will be...If it's not suitable, it's not ideal, it's not going to make up....If the person is nice and suitable, there is no need to care about her past....Your tolerance of her is also a sign of love for her, and she will feel it....

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I advise you not! Let the past pass! After you ask, no matter how far they go, you will unconsciously compare them in the future!

    It will affect feelings! Love her and treat him well! What you have is the present, and her past has no effect on your present or future!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    In my personal experience, don't ask.

    The more you know, the more sad you feel. The girl's previous things, especially such things, if you always ask her, she will think that you have a small belly. If you really love her, and you still care so much about what she did before, just love her well.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Who hasn't been there? Who doesn't have a little secret in their hearts?

    If you really love her, don't take the initiative to ask, just be nice to her.

    If he asks you why he didn't ask her about her past, it is: I don't care about your past, I only care about your future. Then she will love you even more.

    If you really love her, don't really care about his past!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    If you can't stand it, don't ask.

    Normally, you should know a little bit more.

    After all, she's your girlfriend and you have the right to know.

    But the past is actually a thing of the past.

    Because none of you are living for the past, are you?

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It's better not to ask about this kind of thing, the less you know, the better, and it's better not to know that she once had a boyfriend.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If you really love her, don't ask, it's hard for men, just pass it!

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If you truly love her, forget about it.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    To this question, mine is: yes. Because love is a very beautiful and sacred thing, if you love someone, don't hide your love history from the other party, you should be honest with the other party about everything you have been in love with in the past, which is also fair and just for the other party, if you hide your love history, I think it is a kind of deception relative to the other party.

    Feelings obtained by deception will not be happy, and they will not last long.

    Only on the basis of mutual respect and loyalty can love gain the trust of the other party, and Lisheng can solve and support each other. Although love is selfish, and if you tell your love history, the other party may be taboo, but if you hide it, once he knows about your history in the future, then she will definitely not forgive you. At that time, it is the passive self.

    Some people may say that the history of love is already in the past, and there is no need to turn it out again, just keep her in your heart. But I think that since the other party sincerely loves you, and you sincerely love each other, you must have a mutually tolerant mentality, he really likes you, and he will not care that you have ever been in love, because many people are not successful in love at one time, and they all have the process of falling in love. The main thing is that now the two of you are in love, and this is a kind of fate.

    There is a person who said very well, the root of love happiness is honesty. When you meet the right person, you should tell yourself the history of love truthfully, which will make the other party trust you more and understand yourself, and at the same time, it will enhance the relationship between the two people. It will also let the relationship between the two undergo a real test, and the love that has withstood the test is the real love and the happy love.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Although it is a relatively embarrassing thing to talk about your previous relationship with your new partner, I personally think that in the process of dating, if your other half asks me about this aspect, it is more correct to confess my love history to the other party, and the reason why I say this is mainly based on the following factors.

    First of all, one of the most important prerequisites for couples to be together is mutual trust and mutual respect between each other, if you hide your love history from your other half, then it is obvious that there is a lack of respect and trust for each other, which will only make the other party have a very bad impression of themselves, and may even lead to the interruption of the relationship between two people, so in the process of dating, we should still be sincere enough, since the other party asked this question, You should be honest and clear to the other party, of course, the other party did not ask yourself this question, and there is no need to deliberately say it to the other party, so as not to make the other party feel that he still misses his former lover.

    On the other hand, in the process of dating, confessing his love history to the other party is also showing his attitude to a certain extent, indicating that he has completely let go of himself for the relationship he once had, and this is also to give the other party a reassurance, so that the other party can really trust himself in his heart, and more importantly, it is also a foreshadowing for the two people to get along in the future and avoid conflicts in the process of communication. The other party can ask about their previous love history, and it can also show that the other party cares about themselves very much, which is also a good thing for themselves.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Two killers of love:1Distance; 2.Curious!

    Distance is not only beautiful, but also poignant!

    Curiosity will make you know a lot of the past, a lot of secrets; In the end, you become a thing of the past, a secret.

    No matter how many girlfriends your boyfriend has had before, if he is willing to take the initiative to tell you, there are two reasons:

    It is to tell you that he has only you in his heart; So he has no secrets with you!

    It is to tell you how you are different from her ex; By extension: You're going to do it! That is: the shortcomings of the ex, just a floating pen, what you really want to say is the gap between you and the ex (i.e., you are not as good as or not as good as the ex).

    If your boyfriend doesn't want to tell you about your ex, state:

    Remembering the ex; (This could also be the ultimate reason for you to find out your boyfriend's secrets).

    It's probably too chaotic (whether it's a foolish act or a matter of nature, he doesn't want you to know).

    To sum up, if you can read your boyfriend's heart (i.e., see through whether he spends his heart or not), then why bother yourself?

    Sometimes, in a love story, "rare confusion" may be the only antidote to the fact that both parties grow old together, don't you think?

    Finally, I wish you happiness, bye.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    For the period of love, this is a minefield, be careful.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    You don't have to ask, since you chose him, you must value his person, it used to be in the past tense, meaningless, and besides, after you asked, he said it, will you feel nothing in your heart? Women are very sensitive, and they say they don't care, but they actually mind in their hearts, so why bother to make yourself unhappy, right?

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    In fact, to put it mildly, if you can't be friends when you break up, you can be a stranger, why keep pestering the past?

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Such a person, once there will be a second time. It's not worth nostalgia. Let's end it decisively!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Since you've broken up, don't get in touch. He is enthusiastic about you now, but he doesn't cherish it when he gets it, and he knows how to cherish it when he loses it.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    First of all, the problem is on yourself.

    Ex-"boyfriend, it's in the past tense, if you want to associate with someone, you shouldn't be separated from him!" Separated from him, why do you snoop on other people's privacy again? Who are you to ask him if he has a girlfriend?

    Does your "ex" boyfriend have a girlfriend and what does it have to do with you?

    A man who has a girlfriend and is very enthusiastic about his "ex-girlfriend" shows how bad his character is! Not only do you not stay away from him, but you even ask people if they still have girlfriends, and you are angry because they have girlfriends!

    You shouldn't come and ask us what your ex-boyfriend wants to do!

    Rather, we should ask what you want to do, right?

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Q: Is there anything else to say?

    I have low self-esteem when I ask questions, and I can't say it.

    Question: I asked him how he was doing, and he replied to me, so-so, how do I go on to answer dear, do you still like him? How long has it been since you broke up, and has he sent you a message to ask if you like it.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Personally, I don't think the reason or anything is important.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Gu Hong, a scholar from Jinling, came from a poor family and made a living selling calligraphy and paintings, and depended on his mother for his life.

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