How does companionship gnawing the elderly ruin children?

Companionship is gnawing at the old for children, growth and life are particularly unfavorable, and there is this kind of feeling that you have something to rely on, and when you encounter something, you push all the things in your heart to your parents.

Companionship gnawing is a subtle way of gnawing the old, so that children do not know it, and parents arrange everything properly, depriving children of the experience of dealing with problems and solving problems, and slowly destroying a child.

I think that companionship gnawing is the kind of subtly ruined child, parents have always been by the child's side, help make decisions about everything, and let the child obey the arrangement, which will make the child particularly unassertive.

Companionship is gnawing at the elderly, which will make children feel that even if they don't work hard, someone will support them, which will develop some bad habits that they are lazy and lazy.

This is a very normal phenomenon in today's society, but it is also wrong, which will make the child lose his ability to take care of himself, which is not conducive to the growth of the child.

Companionship gnawing will make children develop a concept of relying on parents for everything, and have the feeling of reaching out for food to open their mouths, which will ruin the child's ability to take care of himself.

Companionship is a very common way to educate children in China. He did not exercise the child's own hands-on ability and life ability, but only pursued companionship and doting.

1. What does it mean to accompany the elderly?Companionship gnawing the old means that middle-aged people do not work and live completely with the pension of the elderly, but they do not admit that their behavior is gnawing on the elderly, but think that they are taking care of the elderly, which is a manifestation of self-sacrificing filial piety. On the one hand, the old people who have been gnawed hope that their children can still start a family and have a job normally. But the elderly do feel that the child is around 24 hours a day to take care of himself, which is very helpful to his body and mood, and the old man will complain while not being able to leave the child, so that the child can be insured in his own name.

Second, is it right to accompany the old manIn fact, at the beginning, many of us will question the companionship of the elderly, thinking that they just don't want to face the reality, so they spend their time and energy on the elderly, and they can get money. We will stand on the moral high ground and criticize them, as if criticizing them can show how independent and great we are. But they actually have shining points, because they go to serve the elderly around the clock, so that the other children of the elderly can not have so many burdens, taking care of the elderly is not an easy thing, even if they are not taking care of the paralyzed elderly, they can earn at least 5,000 yuan a month when they go outside.

3. Are there many people who choose to accompany the elderly?When the elderly are young, they don't need to be accompanied by their children, so it is not right to accompany the elderly, and many people who want to gnaw at the old will carry out academic gnawing on the old, which is an excuse to take the postgraduate examination by themselves, and then spend it at home after endless study. It is this part of the people who were actively unemployed early when they were young, or who were passively unemployed when the unit was in a recession, and most of them would choose to accompany the elderly. There seems to be nothing wrong with accompanying the old for a while, but when the old man is a hundred years old, these people will have the feeling that the sky is falling, and they will no longer enjoy the pension of the elderly, and they will no longer have a wife and children, and their brothers and sisters will always be almost, but fortunately, parents should leave real estate for their children who take care of themselves wholeheartedly.

I think it must be filial piety, after all, it is good to be able to spend more time with my parents.

I think it's both, but the root cause is a social problem, because there is a huge mismatch between housing prices and wages right now.

It is to let the children go to the social annihilation hall as soon as possible to be independent, not to fall in love too much, their promotion to the hidden should let them have the ability to withstand pressure, and also have the strength to decompose the difficulties themselves, so that the children can live a better life.

At a very young age, children should be cultivated with correct values and a repentant and quiet outlook on life, so that they can have their own ideal goals, and let them develop the habit of obtaining the fruits of labor with their own hands from an early age.

It is very intolerable for everyone to gnaw on the old family, so parents should pretend to teach their children the correct way of doing things when their children are very young, and parents should set an example, be filial to their parents, and set an example for their children.

Different families have different views, whether to do filial piety or gnaw at the old, only the people in it know in their hearts.

When we grow up, when our parents are old, giving them enough time is an important factor that can make our parents' lives happier. But in real life, there are many people who gnaw at the old in the name of filial piety, and in the process of accompanying the elderly, all expenses are paid by the elderly, and this state of life is complained and blamed by many people.

I think that "companionship gnawing the old" is gnawing the old, but this is just my personal opinion. There are also such people around me, who live with their parents in their 30s, eat and chat with their parents every day, and all the expenses of the family are paid by their parents' pensions.

I think that this state of life is gnawing at old age, and at such an age, you should work hard to find your own life path, strive for a career of your own, and build your own family with your heart, so that your life path can be more exciting. Of course, I don't mean that it's wrong to accompany my parents, but my parents are inevitably getting old, and they are already in their 30s and still spending their parents' money, and I really feel a little ashamed.

There are constant situations in every family, and there is no need for outsiders to stand on the moral high ground to evaluate them. A lot of things are like this friend I thought was gnawing at the old man, and although I thought so, I never said it.

Because his parents don't think that their child's behavior is wrong, and they think that this kind of life is very good, and the family lives together happily and happily, what do I have to evaluate? As long as their family can live happily, I think whether it is filial piety or gnawing at the old, it is also their family's business.

In real life, some people always like to stand on the moral high ground and condemn others. However, under the pressure of life, it is difficult to give parents companionship and material things to parents. Some families value companionship, and parents enjoy it, and the so-called "companionship of the elderly" is also a good thing for them.

Every family has a scripture that is difficult to read, and living their own life well is more important than everything else.

I think it's gnawing at the old, because my parents don't need to be at home for a long time, and if you want to be accompanied, you can take your parents to you and then work by yourself.

It depends on how the parents decide, if the parents don't think anything and it is within the financial means, it is considered filial piety. But if it brings a financial burden to the family, it is not necessarily filial piety.

I think it's essentially about gnawing at the old. I think if you can't make your own money, you can use your parents' money, even if you are old.

It's unfilial, parents don't need you to gnaw on them all the time. You are a burden next to you, so it is right to leave your parents and eat yourself.

It's okay to accompany the elderly, but this can be separated from gnawing the old, just pay the living expenses with a salary, don't spend a penny to rub the pension of the elderly, or don't use accompanying the elderly as an excuse.

This kind of companionship is not filial piety, I think this kind of gnawing of the old must be because the parents are too doting, and family education is not good, will educate this kind of gnawing children.

This is not filial piety; Because young children lack the ability to survive independently and the doting psychology of their parents.

I don't think it's filial piety, because they have no choice but to rely on their parents at home, because they don't have the ability.

Companionship gnawing is definitely not filial, parents reach a certain age, they still need to bear the life of their children, this is not filial piety, now young children gnaw at ease, because they have not yet realized their mistakes.

In fact, this method makes the child become very dependent on himself, has no ability to be independent, and will not make money.

This kind of companionship will make children develop the habit of pampering, will make them form unenterprising thoughts, and will slowly lose the ability to survive, and when their parents die, they will only be at a loss.

Companionship gnawing on the old is really ruining the child. Because children need them to expand their own world, not parents to keep them around, and staying by their side is also harmful to children.

It's hard to do everything, and if you want to struggle, you have to leave your parents and can't accompany your parents. If you want to accompany your parents, you will be said to gnaw at the old.

Because people who gnaw on the old feel that this is what their parents should do, after all, their parents have been helping them do things since they were young, so they are very used to it.

Because this kind of person has no conscience and feels that he has done nothing wrong, he will gnaw at the old with peace of mind.

Because these people have been spoiled since childhood, they always feel that their parents should be responsible for their whole life, so they will feel at ease.

Personally, I think that most of these people don't know how to feel sorry for their parents, and they never understand others, they all belong to the more selfish type of people, it is difficult to make big achievements, and they have no responsibility, so it is very comfortable to gnaw at the old in their hearts.