What should I do if I meet a roommate who loves to take advantage?

If you eat it, you can buy it for one person, he wants him to get it himself, don't use yours, the pot can be borrowed from him but not broken, let him use the small things, and the private ones must be defended to the death, find a righteous and bright reason to completely eliminate it, warn first, and then do it, this kind of love will not be much better in the future.

You don't have to be polite to this kind of person, really, people who love to take advantage of them don't have strong self-esteem.

There's no need to be afraid of affecting the relationship, unless you don't care.

I told her directly, don't use my things in the future, and buy them yourself.

I have also met this kind of person, and later he came to my house to play, and we didn't ask him to eat together when we had dinner, and he could sit still.

I don't have any self-esteem at all.

This kind of person is selfish and stingy, that is, the villain in everyone's mouth, far from the villain and close to the gentleman, less intersection, if you can avoid it, avoid it, if you really can't avoid it, don't offend her, and you will be born in the future.

This is more normal, and I've encountered it, so try to avoid her when you do anything.

If you can't stand it and you can't kill it, then you can only dodge it.

It is recommended that the things you buy are disposable

Try not to put it in public areas.

1. Make yourself strong. Why do your colleagues always take advantage of you, and you can't blatantly resist? Maybe sometimes it's because of your low status and weak ability, and the other party bullies you unscrupulously.

Therefore, you must make yourself strong, if a certain Rini is the top boss of the other party, it is too late to please him, how dare he think of taking advantage of you!

2. Respond in the same way. If the colleague doesn't understand the other meaning of the other person's words, or is cheeky.

It's thicker, even if you understand it, you pretend not to understand, and still insist on going your own way and continue to take advantage of you, so you might as well choose to return to the other party in the same way. Once the other party feels that you were being taken advantage of, they will realize how bad it is to do so, and it will make others feel very uncomfortable in their hearts.

3. Crying poor in front of the other party. Since you know that you can't avoid this colleague, and you also know that this colleague's character is difficult to change, you might as well cry in front of the other party often, saying that you don't have Qian to eat, no Qian to buy clothes, and you have a credit card to pay back or something. The other party saw that you said that you didn't have qian all day long, so naturally he was embarrassed to take advantage of you.

4. Learn to say no to colleagues. When you encounter a colleague taking advantage of you, don't keep putting up with it, if you always blindly give in, the possessiveness in the other party's heart will definitely swell, and Zui will eventually get worse. Therefore, when you encounter a more serious love to take advantage, you must learn to say no to the other party, and never be afraid of the other party's identity or influence in the company.

5. Half-joking preaching. If this colleague likes to take advantage of others on weekdays, but can listen to the advice of others, once you encounter the other party is taking advantage of you, you may wish to express your views on the matter to the other party in a half-joking way. If the other party is thin-skinned and has a more cheerful personality, he will generally not be angry with you, and he is willing to accept your preaching, and he will not do this to you again in the future.

6. Distinguish the relationship between each other. If this colleague who loves to take advantage has been of great help to you, and the other party's advantage is not very serious, we can treat it calmly; However, if this colleague doesn't have a deep friendship with you on weekdays, then there is really no need to take advantage of you. Anyway, you know whether the other person's position in your mind is important or not, and it's okay to act according to such a relationship.

1. You also take advantage of him. If he takes what you eat, you can go to his place to get something, and if it's useless, you will take it, and it will not be as good as what he takes from you.

2. You make greater demands on him. Generally, "little cheap" is destined that you can't say anything to his face, otherwise you will become stingy, and he will shout as a good brother and friend. You don't have to think about retorting, "Who is your good brother?"

Then you can lend me 10,000 yuan, right? If you don't, 5,000 will do!

3. Dare to be afraid. Of course, it is the best situation for people to get along with each other and be self-conscious, but when you meet such unconscious people, it is difficult to have both, either you are unhappy for the sake of face, or you are not good-looking. So see if you yourself have the determination to slap him to his face and humiliate him.

4. The nature and direction of everything should be determined at the first time! When you know someone in the future and are not sure who he is, don't have too much actual contact with him; After determining who he is, if he is conscious, then it will be normal, if he is unconscious, then he will be rejected for the first time! Even a piece of paper and a toothpick must be refused!

Because this is not a matter of paper, but to directly keep him away from you, once such a person is on the body, you can't push it off, and you will get bored with his words after a few times, be careful that he slanders you everywhere!

1. Make a record and calculate it in time.

In order to take advantage, such colleagues will use procrastination methods, and the pursuit of colleagues will fool the past, and slowly the matter will be diluted, and they will have an excuse to deny it. Therefore, under normal circumstances, every time you do a good job, you must register it in time and let him liquidate, and never delay it until the next day, the longer it is delayed, the more it will only give him a chance to deny it.

2. Avoid money involvement.

If there is money involved between colleagues, it is best to be cautious, for example, if the colleague asks you to help pay for takeout and express delivery, or if the colleague asks you to borrow money, you can't take it lightly about money. Everyone is a part-time worker, and there is no need to let your colleagues take advantage of you for the sake of face.

3. Reduce contact and refuse to come and go.

If you learn that your colleague is this kind of person after getting along, you should reduce contact with him, or even refuse to associate with him, so as to avoid giving him the opportunity to seek benefits from you. For this type of person, keeping a distance is just enough.

When you meet a colleague who loves to take advantage, you either have to be generous and let him take advantage of it. Either treat others the way they do, but that will ruin the relationship.

Give someone a taste of their own medicine. As others do to you, you do to him.

Don't go deep friends, just talk about work.

You will meet all kinds of people in life. I had a roommate in high school who was like this, and I had a friend in college who was like this (greedy for a small bargain).

How you deal with it depends on what kind of mentality you have and what you have encountered.

If you just see someone else taking advantage of a small bargain, and you just happen to be unable to stand it, and you belong to the "talking" category, then you can choose to step forward and politely stop it. Otherwise, you can only watch, and you can't beat the cheeky with a stupid tongue. And you can't ignore the willingness of the party to be taken advantage of.

If you belong to the acorn reed that has been taken advantage of, I believe that when you notice it, most of your hearts will be unhappy. Then you have to seriously recall the number of times you were occupied and what you were occupied. Then consider whether you need to avoid the other person.

For example, when I was in high school, my roommate didn't buy toothpaste or paper, so he liked to rub me and others. After a long time, I felt uncomfortable, and the other roommates were in the same mood, so we made an appointment to hide the toothpaste and not bring paper. After a few days, he couldn't stand it anymore and went to buy it.

This kind of person who likes to rub your daily necessities, you have to help him develop "good habits".

For example, I have a friend in college, and as soon as I send him a message at noon, he likes to ask me to bring him all kinds of things; When you come to the door, you can start when you see food, and when you have eaten enough, you can put it in your pocket; What's even more excessive is that because he didn't eat during the experiment, you kindly bought him a cup of hot milk, and then as soon as you gave it to him, he borrowed flowers and offered Buddha to the teacher in front of you.

This kind of person, if you still want to maintain a relationship with him. You have to don't contact him unless you have to, or simply refuse his petty requests, or even debunk the reason why he asked you to buy something. (Because the things you buy are a few yuan, you often ask him for money and it seems that you are calculating).

Once you've bought something to eat, you need to hide it or find a roommate he's embarrassed to ask for it for you.

In general, when you are taken advantage of. Unless you don't want to maintain a relationship with each other, you have to endure it, or change yourself first.

There are also some people around me who love to be cheap, such as people who always don't take the initiative to pay after eating, or who always borrow things and don't pay them back, or who always ask others for help but never reciprocate. How do I deal with such people in general? I think it depends on the specific situation and relationship, and there are several possible ways to do it:

If it is someone I don't know well, I will try to avoid dealing with them, or explicitly refuse their unreasonable demands, and do not give them the opportunity to take advantage of me.

If it is a familiar person, I will try to communicate with them and let them understand that his blind behavior is unreasonable and hurts our friendship or family relationship. If they can correct it, I will forgive them, and if they can't, I will appropriately distance myself from them and no longer have a deep friendship with them.

If it is a person at work, I will respect their position and power, but I will also protect my own interests and rights and not let them bully or take advantage of me. If their behaviour involves breaking the law or violating the law, I will report or complain about them as soon as possible.

1.Straight plus size old say it.

If you feel uncomfortable, it's okay to tell the person how you feel directly, but be mindful of the way, be polite and non-aggressive. For example: I think we are equal friends and should not be taken advantage of.

2.Say you need help too.

When communicating with the other person, you can ask for help as well, as this will make both parties understand and accept each other. For example, I also need your help, but I think help is a two-way street, and you can't blindly take advantage of it.

3.Say no firmly.

If the other party keeps taking advantage of the other party and does not listen to advice, you can clearly tell the other party that this cannot continue. This requires us to stand firm, let the other side know our bottom line, and act accordingly.

In general, when we meet people who love to take advantage, we don't complain, don't retreat, have confidence and determination, protect our interests, and let ourselves have a voice and a sense of existence.

Of course, if it's a small bargain, it will be disposed of differently from person to person.

Here are some of my personal ways of dealing with it: Here are some experiences and lessons learned from dealing with people who take advantage of love:

1.Stick to your principles and bottom line.

When communicating and communicating with people who take advantage, you must stick to your principles and bottom line, and don't accommodate the other party. If you compromise, the other party will think that you are a bully and are more likely to take advantage of you.

2.Say how you feel.

Tell the other person directly how you feel and let the other person know what you think and what you are unhappy about. When expressing yourself, your voice should be firm and polite, and you should not speak ill of each other, let alone engage in personal attacks, otherwise it will lead to unnecessary disputes or even disputes.

3.Seek neutral coordination.

If you can't solve the conflict by yourself, you can seek the help of a neutral person, let the neutral person make a neutral understanding, analysis and coordination, and coordinate the relationship between the two parties. But don't hand over the contradictory solution to a third party; You should learn to deal with interpersonal conflicts independently.

4.Learn to say no.

Learning to refuse the other party's unreasonable demands and letting the other party know your bottom line and boundaries is the best way to protect your own interests. At the same time, the method of rejection can be in a tactful way, so that the other party does not feel bad.

In short, when dealing with those who take advantage, we must remain calm, firm our position, express our feelings, learn to refuse the other party's unreasonable demands, and seek useful coordination solutions.