I don t understand what my boyfriend means

Since you proposed to him to break up, why do you care so much about his attitude now?

Are you just trying to test his reaction?

But you are worried that something will happen to him, send him a text message, **, may have given him a misunderstanding, he misunderstood that you are regretting, you ask him "are you okay", he may understand more as, you want to break up with him, worried that he can't accept the situation.

Hehe, isn't it embarrassing.

So, you have to ask yourself now what you want to do, if you regret it, then you might as well lower your posture and talk to him again, if you don't regret it, then feel free, and when his so-called calm passes, he will come to you.

After all, in men's values, being dumped by a girl is a very humiliating thing.

He may be thinking about it, or he just doesn't want to say more.

And I'll give you a suggestion, since it's divided, why do you have to call ** to ask about his situation.

Then he'll think you still like him.

To sum it up, it's up to him to agree and go find the next good man.

No, he's definitely sad, and of course, maybe a little puzzled and angry (just maybe). Your boyfriend must be a responsible person, someone who doesn't want to talk about things and cares about your feelings.

It depends on what you broke up for, if he really loves you, he will go to you if it's like you said. Needless to say. Even you know it yourself.

Maybe he really needs time to figure it out. It depends on your emotional foundation. Maybe he's not reluctant. It's just that if you want to divide it, then divide it completely.

If you care about you, you will be in a hurry to call ** to find you, in this case, he should have agreed, she should be embarrassed not to look for you or he thinks there is no need to look for you.

Do you love him? If you don't love, why care about what happens to him? Love? Why break up? Love can't be easily promised, and breaking up should not be said easily. Not everyone will be waiting where they are.

It's okay, what if you don't agree.

Or you should all really calm down.

He tells you that you don't know him well because he has met someone who knows and understands him better than you do.

2) He cares about you, but he also cares about the girl, and hesitates between the two of you.

3) As long as you try to understand him, you still have a chance to win him back. When he talks to you, he is actually giving you a chance to "make amends".

4) What a man wants is not for a woman to understand him at all, but for you to understand him. Men actually don't like their women to know themselves too well, but men must want their women to understand themselves very well.

So, you should understand how to do it.

1. Low emotional intelligence.

He said it because he wanted to show his strength, or he thought that two people who had a good relationship should point out each other's shortcomings and actively correct them. But he forgot that no matter how good the relationship is, it needs to be maintained.

2, Brother Taolu.

This kind of man deliberately suppresses you to send you a message that you have so many shortcomings to see that I still love you so much. When you feel that you really have a lot of shortcomings, then you will no longer be dominant in the relationship.

I guess when your boyfriend says that you don't understand him, he means that you don't understand his work, and you always lose your temper casually according to your own will.

It is useless for a man to love him and to get to know him, while a woman is just the opposite. If you quarrel often, after a long time, a man will get tired, they want a soul partner, so that they will feel happy, quarrels will make them afraid, and if they are timid, they will quarrel every day after getting married, they can't communicate, and they may give up. If you are not an unreasonable girl and love him, many times when you encounter problems, don't fight with him, especially when he expresses his opinion, whether you agree or not, you have to listen to him, if it is right, you will agree, he will think that you know the general, if you feel that his point of view you do not agree with then you can express your point of view euphemistically, and finally choose a consistent point of view, you will be very harmonious.

That's how I lost the person I loved, and if I could do it all over again, I would choose to listen more to the idea instead of talking to myself every time, and always arguing and ignoring him, who liked me very much from the beginning to didn't want to talk to me later.

This is because your boyfriend dislikes you Maybe it's because your ideas are relatively simple, and he likes to think more and doesn't want to tell you what he thinks, in this case, you still have to communicate more and observe his choices and behaviors Even if we don't know what a person is like, but we can guess what kind of person he is from what he does, makes friends, and likes things You are like this, in the final analysis, it is still the "inequality" of two people, not necessarily in status, it may be that the difference between the cultural and educational experience and personality of the two people is relatively large, and it needs to be slowly run-in Love is mutual attraction, and marriage is mutual patience.

You should be happy, because such a smart boy likes to show off in front of his girlfriend, which proves that he feels very accomplished in front of his girlfriend? (This is also a sign of the boy's strength?) You just show him your weakness. Give him confidence?

Hehe... You need a lot.

Communicate! Because it seems that they don't know each other very well what they want, they will quarrel more frequently after lack of communication!! Sometimes you can find more opportunities for two people to talk,,, or you can use a third party to tell you what you want or what you don't want!!

It's effective!! I'm like that, my boyfriend and I will also quarrel, as soon as the quarrel is over, he will go out to communicate with me, and sometimes when we are happy, we use a third party to tell us that we don't want that, you can be tactful! Hehe...

It's best not to hurt the other person!!

Your boyfriend is in a bad mood and has nothing to do, so it's good to vent his feelings. You will marry him and you will receive it. In the future, if you are angry at the unit, you will also come back to talk about things, which is called picking your nose and eyes.

So what's wrong with you? I don't think you said it.

I tell you, I don't really understand what your question means.

I'm like that too, and so is my boyfriend.

It may be that your thinking is too conservative.