Can you still be considered a lover if you haven t been in touch for 4 months? How to deal with it?

First of all, I think he still loves you, if he didn't, he wouldn't have arranged for you to go to Beijing to eat and live so well, and he wouldn't have paid attention to your log. Moreover, you are separated from each other, you have someone to chase, and he doesn't know the specific situation, jealousy and anger are inevitable, and after you quarrel, he took the initiative to apologize to you to show that he cares about you! But you asked him if he could stay with you at night, he refused, I think he hasn't fully agreed with you psychologically, think about it, he had an accident at home during that time, and no one would feel good, let alone spare energy to think about your affairs, it can be said that his seemingly excessive behavior is actually understandable.

My girlfriend and I are also separated, sometimes I am in a bad mood, and I will not contact her, which also leads to frequent conflicts between us, but I will be forgiven after I tell the reason why I don't contact her, I mean, maybe he cares a lot about you don't comfort him when he is in a bad mood, accompany him, even if it's a **, think about it, if he doesn't treat you as an important person, will he care so much? So, if you still love him, just say everything, writing a letter or emai is a good option, give it a try, how will you know if you don't try? If he loves you and is a man who is about to graduate, then he will contact you when he understands the truth of everything, I wish you happiness! l

Emotional problems still need to be clear, so as not to always leave a knot in your heart, you can't open it up, and you have to make it clear whether you divide it or not.

If he doesn't come to you, you go to him, you've been there once, and it's not a big deal to come again, and when you see it, he doesn't have you with your questions in the text message, and you think it's important to ask the questions you need to figure out at one time, and he always has to give you an answer to the face-to-face question.

If you don't remember clearly, write it down on paper before you see it, so that you don't forget some questions.

But you still have to think clearly, whether you really like him or not, you don't even know your emotional destination, and there is no need to say so much.

I don't think you guys have much drama, it's been four months. The ancients said that if you don't see each other for a day, such as every three autumns, what is the concept of four months, love can't withstand such a long period of cooling.

And a man really likes you, he won't be so cold and indifferent, no matter what he does, he will be kind to you.

I think what you want is also an answer, thinking that a relationship also needs to have a beginning and an end, not so inexplicable. Only after letting go of this paragraph and drawing an end to this end will you go to another paragraph, I hope your next relationship can reap the fruits!

You're all sure you're in a relationship, so why do you have to ask if four months of no contact is considered a lover? Of course, if you hadn't broken up in person, and if he loved you, he would have contacted you sooner or later.

The longer you talk about it, the more dangerous it becomes, it's better to send a text message to him to tell him what you really think, if two people quarrel, it's not that you can understand each other by saying psychological words.

Also, you're so nice, it's so hard to buy a plane ticket to find your boyfriend, if it were me, I don't think I would be able to do it!

It seems that you still care about him very much, I think you want to see him because you care about him and not because you are unwilling, and you still love him very much in your heart......You still don't want to see it, and if you do, it won't lead to anything, unless you say that you are seeking solace in your heart. If he has you in his heart, no matter what the situation, he will take time to pay attention to you, so I advise you not to go to him, forget him as soon as possible, and it will be a relief for yourself! The best thing to do is to keep yourself busy, or you can seek another relationship, when you fall in love with another person, you forget everything that was before, unless he is already ingrained in your heart ......

Whether you still love him or not, it's long overdue to break up depending on this situation. You go to him and say to him, 'Let's break up.'

Even if you just say this sentence and leave, he pretends to be dead and doesn't speak, you can't help it, in case you find a boyfriend in the future, that person comes to you again, and says that you are stepping on two boats!

I feel like I'm going to see him if I'm going to! In all fairness, people can't always live in the past, you also have your own life, love is a two-way charge, it's not money, it's love! If you should go, you will go, not to say peace and separation, just to give yourself an explanation!

I tried! What should be said is said, what should be done is done, even if you lose it, you will not regret it! Give yourself an explanation, give him an explanation, give this relationship an explanation!

Finally, I hope that a lover will eventually become a family!

If you don't hold hands, where can you break up?? It's like there's no expectation of disappointment,,, you're a crush, it's not .........

I'm a man, and I feel like he doesn't care much about you, don't waste your time, if he really cares about you, and you make a little mistake, he won't mind for long, and besides, men who are overly obsessed with games don't have much future, and women and men can't afford to waste their time.

Not in the same city, and I haven't seen each other for a long time, the other party probably thinks more realistically than you.

Goodbye what, is it possible to hug.

If you really can't let go, then face it bravely.

Or express it in the form of letters and e-mails, want to end or just express longing.

Let it go and save yourself a little bit of dignity.

Whether you give up or don't give up, don't let yourself seem too humble.

You didn't 'join hands' to deal with your happiness and boredom in the first place, and you couldn't break up.

Meet him and make it clear.

It's not because of love, it's because you're unwilling, don't see each other

If you can't let it go, face it bravely.

What are you still in love with 4 months, what concept do you know?

200 points

It's too long, can you simplify it?

Good boys a lot of ps: there are also a lot of bad ones