I m not confident now, who can help me??

The main reason is that you pursue perfection, lest you do something you shouldn't do when you contact others, say inappropriate things, you lack this exercise since you were a child, and you are likely to have done more failed things, and you and the people around you feel that you are deficient in interacting with people. So you give yourself the conclusion that it is not possible. In order to cover up your timidity in this regard, you try to have as little contact with people as possible, and you lose a lot of opportunities to exercise.

It is good to pursue perfection, see the strengths of others, and recognize your own shortcomings, but if you think too much, it will hinder your own progress. It is recommended that when you see the strengths of others, you should learn more than envy. Analyze your own shortcomings and improve them later.

You know, no one is a saint. Even if you're a little worse than everyone else in some way, what does it matter? Ten fingers are not the same length when they stretch out, not to mention the differences between people.

So don't be afraid to make people laugh if you don't do it well, after all, it's better to do it than not to do it well. It's like a race, you take the first step bravely, you stick to the end, you may be last, but you run as hard as you can, you reach the finish line. Flowers and applause don't exactly belong to the top performers.

If you can't take the first step at all, that's sad.

Don't be afraid, no one is better than the other. Overcome timidity and do it bravely, you will make progress, accumulate small progress into big progress, and your character and ability will be greatly improved.

You can be specific. So we can all give you some details.

I'm not confident, I've never been confident, but you just have to keep doing your best.

You can tell us about every aspect, if you don't mind, you can get in touch with me, I hope I can help you well.

Feng Gong is not confident, it's okay!

Case-by-case analysis.

I used to have low self-esteem and was always dissatisfied with all aspects of myself, but now I am much better. I think first of all, I can't be too high-minded and set myself too high standards, so there will be pressure, and if I can't do it, of course I will feel inferior. Then, try to do what you can do, start with small things, so that you will generally succeed, remember how you felt when you succeeded, and slowly accumulate it.

Also, I think most people with low self-esteem are because they think that they can't do it because they compare with others, and they have to admit that they are born with a gap, and comparing with others shows that they are self-motivated, and if they compare with others all the time, they will definitely hit their self-confidence, so I think don't compare everything with others, and it would be good if you could be happy.

It is recommended that you try not to care too much about things, provided that you do well in your major, that is, you have a skill--- usually learn more things, increase your knowledge, and slowly it will be good, this is a transition period, don't worry about ---

Not confident because you don't trust yourself enough, you have to believe in yourself first.

You just have to look in the mirror every day and say, "I'm perfect, I'm great." "That's it, I tried, and it's not bad.

Teach you a way: exercise, who would dare to mess with you when you are strong?? You'll feel like you're NB too.

Do what you love, give yourself a sense of accomplishment, and develop self-confidence.

Because I'm fat, I'm embarrassed to go to the interview, and I feel like I'm not as good as others.

Believe that you are the best.

Friend, this is not to tell you what to say, you can be confident. I'll tell you about my experience, I'm a boy, and I used to be very unconfident, and I was too humble and annoyed when I looked at people who I thought were better than me.

But now I'm different, now I'm 22, because I'm constantly improving myself, improving my abilities, all aspects of my abilities, such as learning, socializing, dealing with people, and so on.

Only you have the heart, you want you to pay attention, work hard to make yourself grow, without thinking too much about the feelings of others, let yourself become complete, have confidence, have strength, you don't care whether you are confident or not. You have to know that confident people never mention the word self-confidence with others.

So, now is the time for you to improve your abilities in all aspects and be on your own.

People will dare to do it when they drink alcohol, this is inevitable, some things need to be done after drinking, some things should be done when they are particularly sober, alcohol is not a bad thing, but please take care of yourself, I myself like to drink, but there are some things I will never do after drinking. There are many things that you need to think about and pay attention to, but the key is yourself.

I don't understand, I've been learning, people live to learn, I just hope that the landlord can continue to improve.