What happened to the couples who chose to be Dink families now?

The Dink family came to us in China from Europe and the United States. The meaning of this value is that it is enough for two people to love each other, and not to have children, and this concept has caused many people in China to emulate. But!

This notion is out! I have seen a lot of blind dates, and I put my children in the first place. It can be seen that the Dink family is no longer popular in our country, maybe the person who asked the question doesn't know yet, right?

Yes, there was once someone who chose to be a Dink family. There are not many people who choose to be a Dink family, and half of them stick to it. Those who can't hold on will either part ways or have children.

No matter what happens to them, we have to face itNow the main stream is to have children, not to be a Dink family!

Evil is the first to be. Even if you don't like children, you have to think about your parents, if you don't have children, your parents will have no face, you can change your parents' views, but can you change the 5,000-year-old cultural heritage of the Chinese nation? Do you want your parents to bear the condemnation of 5,000 years of culture with you?

The risk of the Dink family is not only in the problem of offspring, but more importantly, the maintenance of the relationship between the two people. You have to know that everyone around you has children, but you don't have children. Then if there is a conflict in your family, it will be different from other families.

Then you will find it tricky to deal with the problem. If it is not handled well, it is easy to part ways.

In general, some of the couples in the Dink family are still together to continue Dink, some have parted ways, and some have changed their minds and decided to have children! I recommend that everyone have a child if they can have a child, and adopt one if they can't have a child. If two people love each other, then children will not affect your relationship.

30 years ago, how are the families who chose Dink doing now?

They can live a chic life for decades, but the last few years can be more lonely.

Many men will find someone else in their 40s because they miss children.

Although they were very chic in the front, they were not so happy in their later years.

There are also many regrets, and there are still very happy lives.

After many years, these couples are still very happy, they are very free, because they have no children, so many decisions are very casual and never restricted.

After many years, they are also relatively happy, because they are used to life without children and love each other.

In fact, most of the Dink couples, their later years are relatively lonely, especially some special festivals, which will really be very lonely, and many people will regret it.

is living very well, because the relationship between the two of them is particularly stable, and they don't need children to maintain the relationship between the two people, and the quality of life is relatively high.

Many of them regret it very much, because they are getting older and want to have a lot of laughter at home.

After many years, they will definitely choose a nursing home, after all, there are no children to give them a pension, but they will definitely be very rich, and they will generally choose to go to a high-end nursing home, and they will live a very happy life.

After many years, they are still living a very chic life, they don't have to take care of their children or grandchildren, and they have a lot of time to arrange freely every day.

Couples who choose Dink generally adopt a child after many years to raise them, and life flies very happily.

A small number of couples still feel that the world of two people is beautiful. Even if they don't have children, they are very happy, but as far as I know, most Dink couples still want to have children in their later years and want to enjoy family fun.

It's still very good. Because they knew what they would have to do in the future when they chose Dink, they didn't regret their decision even when they were old.

After many years, they were not happy, and they felt very sorry that they did not have a child, and the family was lifeless.

Many years later, they are also doing better, although they made such a choice at the beginning, but they have never regretted it.

They are living very freely, without the pressure and burden of raising children.

After many years, life is not bad, except for some who regret it halfway, the rest of the Dink couple's life is quite comfortable.

After many years, they have also lived very well, and their lives have always been very chic and comfortable, and the relationship between the husband and wife is also very good and unrestrained.

In recent years, with the acceleration of the pace of life and the improvement of living standards, the concept of childbearing of Chinese people is also changing. Although there is an ancient adage of "there are three unfilial pieties, and no queen is great", there are still some people who choose Dink, as long as they live happily in this life, they don't think about the next life.

There are two types of people who choose Dink families, one is that they cannot have children due to physical reasons and are unwilling to adopt other people's children, so they have to choose Dink.

The other is because of busy work, when you are young, you are busy working hard, you don't have time to think about having children, and when your career is successful, you lose the best opportunity to have children, or you subjectively and consciously don't want to have children, and you don't want to dedicate your youth to having children.

Coincidentally, these two kinds of people are among my relatives, and both of them are loving and happy. Without the fetters of children, they don't have to think about children's birth and upbringing, education, employment, and starting a family, and their lives are relatively simple.

It is simply to live the life of two people, each other is the only one of each other, as time goes by, these two relatives have also entered middle age, both of them have a fixed salary income, no worries about the elderly, and plan to be old in the future, life can not take care of themselves, go to the nursing home to spend the rest of their lives.

Of course, there are many Dink families, and the reasons for choosing Dink are also different, but no matter what the reason is, I believe that before choosing Dink, the decision was finally made after some careful consideration.

What exists is reasonable, some people like to have more children and grandchildren, some people like to have only one good, and naturally some people choose not to have offspring, as long as the husband and wife reach a consensus and make a good choice, they can live happily ever after. If people drink water and know that they are warm and cold, they are not fish, but how can they know the joy of fish?

I think that as a majority of people with a sense of passing on the tradition, we should express our understanding and wish those Dink families a happy life.

No, as long as the relationship between the husband and wife is very good and voluntary, then they will definitely live a very happy life.

Of course this is not the case, after all, everyone's happiness is different, so it cannot be generalized.

No, some Dink families are also very happy, although they have no children, but the two people are very affectionate, and finally go through the rest of their lives.

In recent years, there have been many divorces with children, and children are not the link between happiness and happiness There are also happy children without children.

Some families choose not to have children and do Dink families, so what will a woman's life look like without children?

For most people, marrying the opposite sex after reaching a certain age and then having one or two children is a conventional life trajectory. But there are also families where couples choose not to have children for a variety of reasons, and this kind of family is called a "Dink family".

1.In fact, giving birth to a child is quite a painstaking thing, from pregnancy to the child's marriage and childbirth, parents need to be conscientious and full of care. Choosing to be a Dink, couples do not have to face the pressure of having children, they can focus on work and life, not only will reduce stress, but also have more time to be alone with each other, be able to immerse themselves in sweetness, and improve their sense of well-being.

2.There may be no one to provide for in old age.

Since he did not have children, it is likely that there is no one around him to provide for him in his old age. When people get old, they will be unable to move, and their health will become worse and worse than before, and the probability of getting sick will increase significantly. If you are sick, most of the time you can only take care of each other with two people, and you may envy the elderly who have children.

3.Grandma Wang and Grandpa Wang were the first Dink family, and now they are in their seventies. Through understanding, the husband and wife live a very good life, eat and drink every day, often go out for walks and sports, and occasionally go out to travel.

The two keep each other company, still having the same fun and deep emotions as they did when they were younger. Grandma Wang did not feel lonely, thinking that the pressure and troubles of not having children for decades were very relaxed, she and her wife lived happily and happily, and she did not regret choosing Dink at all.

4.is also Dink's Grandma Liu, her feelings are diametrically opposed to Grandma Wang. Grandma Liu's wife, who is in her seventies, died of illness a few years ago, and she spent a lot of money on illness.

Grandma Liu's brothers and sisters have also passed away one after another, and gradually, it is difficult for her to find someone to talk to in her ordinary life, and her life is even more difficult. She lives a lonely and helpless life, and often regrets and sighs when faced with an empty home: it would be nice to have a child at that time.

Choosing Dink became the thing she regretted the most.

For me, it is necessary to get married and have children, and it is a happy experience to have a stable home, a person who loves me and the crystallization of love for each other.

To a certain extent, children are not a necessity for marriage, children are the crystallization of love between both parties, and it is also the best time to have children when both parties are ready to take on this responsibility.

In fact, when I think back to my own growth, the impulse of love for the opposite sex in adolescence, and the talk about marriage in adulthood, perhaps more parents did not have a clear concept of reconciliation when they first entered marriage, "I need a child" and "What does this child mean to me". It's just that since this is a program, it completes the general execution of the mission of life.

It is more due to traditional concepts, as well as the pressure and gaze from parents or society, I feel that if two couples do not implement or plan to have a child, it will be very "different", just like the current lack of understanding and support for "Dink". Even if we face the "struggle" of "chickens and dogs" with children every day, we will still promote the concept of having children to the young people around us, is it the meaning of "we have entered the pit, not you and who you are".

There is no need for scientific reasons such as raising children to prevent old age, and socks are used to numb themselves. To this day, parents in the family are still running around for their children to help their children raise the next generation. Even if parents who are not involved in parenting tasks are taking care of themselves, if there is a real need to "prevent aging", maybe there are few things that children can do for their parents.

In order to participate in the growth of a life, a life starts from nothing, from small to large. Feel the wonder of a life, the surprise of two hearts beating in a body, the wonder of slight changes and fetal movements. Feel the tenacity of a life, and come to a world with complete trust.

In order to better understand yourself, to be a seed, a new life, and an understanding that comes to this world with trust. To better understand one's own state in the process of growth, to see and accompany the process of one's life growth, is to take care of and understand oneself in the process of growth.

In order to better understand life, it is with children that our lives are fully possible. It is with children that we can become parents and better understand our own demands, our own love and hatred.

I feel that I am still a baby, and I am afraid that I will not lose the group if I bring up a child, and it is too difficult to raise a baby, or I don't want the baby to come to this painful and happy world to practice!