Why do today s children love to learn so much?

The child's lack of interest in learning is only superficial. The reasons behind this are many. First, study habits have not been formed. Second, my parents didn't set a good example. Third, the problem of learning ability.

1. Too early and too much learning will lead to children's boredom in school, and it is more important for children to like learning than to let children learn well. 2. Because the parent-child relationship is not good, parents instill too many truths in their children, blocking their children's empathy. 3. Excessive punishment will make children bored with learning, and parents should try to help children refuse punitive homework.

At present, most families are only children, parents do not have high requirements for their children, children, especially children aged 5-10 years old, are no longer as fond of learning as the previous generation, and even dislike books and school. It's a headache for parents.

For such children, don't force a change of interest, forced estimation will not work, you can guide, give him (her) some good learning ** to learn or watch some meaningful cartoons, so that they like learning first, like the fun that knowledge brings to them.

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Material life is too abundant.

If your child doesn't like to learn, remember to tell him these six words.

I don't know how hard life is.

Give him less money to spend and more interaction after school.

In the past, the conditions were not good, the children did not get anything better, this kind of material enjoyment was not better, this kind of family superior conditions, so there was no better pursuit of life goals. So you don't have to expect anything extravagantly.

One. Today's children's family conditions are very good and they have not suffered anything, so because they enjoy this superior condition, they will become very vain, and once they lose something, they will be very impatient, and even just want to live better and compare with each other. So once you get a little rough education, you will have a very strong rebellious mentality.

Two. Only after suffering. He will cherish the happy life now, and will know that the happy life is not easy to come by, but he has not suffered hardship, he soaks in sugar water every day, then he will feel that my current life should be like this, if I live a little harder, I can't accept it, especially if I didn't study well in the past, my parents beat it, he will feel that I should study hard, in order to get rid of the current poverty days, and make my life better.

Therefore, I will work harder, and I will not dislike my parents, and I will not complain about psychological problems because my parents beat me.

Three. In the past, children had no entertainment, no pastime, no mobile phones to play, and nothing to spend time, so just watching a TV is already a luxury, and even some families don't even have a TV, so these children don't feel the fun of this kind of amusement, the joy that games bring to themselves, and do they feel the sci-fi feeling of the existence of this wireless network of mobile phones? So give him something delicious and fun, and he is very satisfied, and for this purpose, he works hard to learn, and now the child.

It's all there, and. Many games, including family conditions, are very good, and they can't be satisfied with a little food and fun. So this little thing can't coax him, I don't study or don't learn.

In general, there are three main reasons, the foundation is too poor, and as learning becomes more and more difficult, I don't like to learn more and more.

The surrounding environment is too bad, parents often play mahjong, and they don't care about their children, the children are not affected well, and they don't like to learn.

1) The child is not interested in learning. First of all, parents should love learning, children have the ability to imitate from an early age, if parents love to learn, children will read and write like parents, and inspire children, there is a learning space and learning atmosphere, children love to learn. Parents teach by word and deed, imperceptibly observe the influence of children, and cultivate children's interest in learning;

2) The child goes to school relatively young, has poor learning ability, the teacher praises or encourages less, he feels inferior to others, the child is more inferior, and does not like to learn, so teachers and parents should encourage the child when he has achievements, no matter how big the achievement, as long as there is a little progress, the child can be praised, enhance the child's self-confidence, so that the child is interested in learning;

3) Children have physiological diseases or nutritional diseases in the process of growth and development, which will affect the development of physical strength or intelligence and affect learning.

In addition to the above, parents should choose the corresponding treatment method according to the reasons why the child does not like to learn, such as:

1) Change the way of learning: Some children do not like to learn, because the child is not interested in the existing learning content, or the teacher's teaching method is not able to understand the child, which leads to the child's lack of comprehension of knowledge, affecting academic performance, and the decline of learning self-confidence. It is necessary to communicate with the teacher in a timely manner to transform the way children learn, so that children can better understand the content of learning, and after the academic performance is gradually improved, the interest in learning will gradually increase;

2) Strengthen communication: Some children do not get along well with teachers and classmates when they are in school, such as teachers often criticize or get along unhappily with classmates, resulting in children not liking to learn or not loving to go to school. Parents need to communicate with teachers, classmates, and children in a timely manner, analyze the causes, and take targeted solutions.

3) **Disease: Some children do not like to learn, which may be due to attention deficit or mental retardation, resulting in a decline in children's academic performance and boredom with school. It is necessary to give corresponding intervention in time**, and after the symptoms improve, the child's interest in learning will also increase.

Today's children don't like to study, and in my opinion, today's parents don't like to study.

1. The pressure is not the same.

Today's parents have the slogan that they can't let their children lose at the starting line, and their children start the countdown to the college entrance examination from birth. Even if you find that your child is really not good at learning and is not suitable for learning in the process of growing up. Parents will not consider whether it is suitable or not, but think that their children are not competitive, do not work hard, and are sorry for their own efforts.

This puts a lot of pressure on today's children.

2. Demand varies.

Today's parents plan their children's lives from the moment they are born, arrange everything for them, and don't think about what their children need from you. This is also the saddest point: children are changing, and the way parents educate is still stuck in the old way.

Think that as long as their material needs are met, it will be fine.

3. There are differences in learning situations.

In the past, it was very easy for children to write homework after school, because parents didn't understand it, so it was all up to the children to play on their own. But now it's different, parents nowadays have a certain culture, and children will guide when they do their homework, which would have been a good thing. However, in the process of guidance, some parents take it for granted, resulting in the originally harmonious parent-child time becoming a battlefield.

The setting of "Spring and Autumn Vacation" is for the growth and development of children, mainly to let children get out of the classroom and books, and feel the beauty of natural scenery. Under the continuous development of society, the requirements for talents are getting higher and higher, in addition to learning to meet the standards, the overall quality must also keep up. For students, being in a tense learning atmosphere for a long time undoubtedly amplifies the pressure of learning, and the introduction of spring and autumn vacation can allow them to really get in touch with nature, broaden their horizons, and help improve their quality and all-round development.

After effective adjustment, you will have a positive attitude towards learning. Learning needs to be gradual, if you tighten the strings in learning every day, in addition to increasing the sense of tension, there is no real effect, but it is the interval of vacation can bring a new state.

But many of the problems that we often ignore are not that your parents have time to take their children to play after the holiday, and that parents who are not national civil servants do not have a vacation at all during the holidays. Especially for the common people in the service industry! Every year, during the Spring Festival, some people are only given 3 days off or take turns off, not to mention May Day!

Overtime! Overtime! There is a little overtime pay, but who doesn't want to spend time with their family and children?

It is estimated that the children will be more tired during the spring and autumn holidays, and many children will apply for different make-up classes because their parents do not have time to accompany them, and the family is also facing a certain financial burden.

It's not just that today's children don't like to learn, think about when you were a student, did you love learning?

Your child may not like to learn because he or she is not interested in learning content, lacks motivation to learn, or has other problems. Here are some tips for what to do if your child doesn't like to learn:

Generate interest. Explore your child's interests and hobbies and use this as a starting point to make them interested in learning content. For example, if your child likes to watch cartoons, you can find some educational animations related to the learning content.

Learn with your child. Learning with your child increases parent-child connection and understanding, and at the same time, it also allows your child to feel the importance of learning. In the learning process, interacting with children and solving problems can stimulate children's interest and motivation in learning.

Set clear goals and plans. Having clear goals and plans can help children understand their progress in their learning, as well as the tasks and goals they need to accomplish each day. At the same time, it can also make children aware of the importance and necessity of learning.

Develop a reward system. Establishing a reward system can motivate children to learn. Rewards don't have to be material rewards, but can also be parent-child activities or other non-material rewards. Children will work harder in anticipation of rewards.

Give appropriate freedom. In the learning process, giving children a certain amount of freedom to play and explore freely in learning can stimulate children's creativity and interest in learning.

It is important to note that each child is a unique individual and needs to be tailored to the solution. Listening patiently and understanding to your child, and working with them to solve problems, can help your child fall in love with learning. At the same time, parents should also set a good learning attitude and role model for their children.

Accompany. I remember when I was a child, most of the classmates in the class whose parents were teachers studied very well, of course, this is also very understandable, in the era when the cat dad was in elementary school, most parents were free-range to their children, and they were not enough to learn their children, but the teachers were different, not only to understand the laws of education, but also to tutor children.

In fact, a large part of children's dislike of learning is due to fear of difficulties. When we were children, we all heard the story of kitten fishing, in fact, children are just like the kittens in the story, in the face of the boring and boring fishing, they prefer some interesting things, which is also the fundamental reason why children are easily distracted when learning.

In particular, if the child is studying, the father is playing games next to him, the mother is watching TV, and the grandparents are chatting, so the child is more likely to be distracted in such a learning environment. My experience in this regard is to give children a quiet learning environment.

Parents can stay with their children while they are studying and do quiet things such as knitting, reading, writing, and so on. If the child is distracted while studying, parents can also gently knock on the table or book to remind the child, at this time parents must pay attention and do not reprimand the child, which will make the child nervous and more likely to be distracted.

Coaching. Another very important reason why children don't like to learn is that they are unwilling to face failure. Many parents don't understand this and think it's good to correct their mistakes.

But for children, failure in learning will seriously hit the child's enthusiasm for learning, and even cause the child to break down and cry, and the cat father's daughter often cries because she can't read an English word correctly.

For this problem, parents usually have to tell their children that it is normal to fail in the learning process, and the knowledge learned from mistakes will be stronger. In addition, parents should also take their children to do the wrong questions several times and tell the child that the mistake is **, until the child masters this knowledge point, so that over time the child will become more and more confident in learning.