Cancer, how do we choose for our loved ones?

Don't mind me saying bluntly: people nowadays have a strong fear of cancer, because the mortality rate of cancer is very high, why? The main reason is the choice of method.

Nowadays, most people choose Western medicine for surgery, radiotherapy and chemotherapy, but ignore the existence of Chinese medicine. In fact, the essence of Western medicine is to treat the symptoms but not the root cause, the rate is very high, and the chemotherapy and radiotherapy itself has carcinogenic properties, so it is difficult for patients with Western medicine to escape the fate of metastasis. And what about Chinese medicine?

This is the best scientific method, which can not only destroy the tumor, but also will not metastasize. It is precisely because of the current cancer patients who choose the methods of Western medicine** that the mortality rate is very high, which exacerbates the current situation of cancer fear.

The second reason for the fear of cancer is that the cost is too high and not something that ordinary people can afford. In 2010, according to the statistics of the relevant departments of our country, the average cost of adopting Western medicine was 200,000 yuan, while the average cost of traditional Chinese medicine was 50,000 yuan.

In the choice of specific methods, the main thing depends on which period it is, if it is early, it is generally possible to take traditional Chinese medicine. It is better to take surgery + traditional Chinese medicine in the middle stage, and surgery + traditional Chinese medicine is better in the late stage. If you can do it without chemoradiotherapy, it is best not to do it.

The traditional Chinese medicine I am talking about here includes traditional Chinese medicine such as herbal medicine, acupuncture, and massage.

It depends on the physical condition, economic conditions, and medical condition.

If possible, it is advisable to be positive**. If you are a little bit of a miss, you can choose a way to prolong your life and relieve your pain.

If there is hope, do it as much as possible

Getting sick is inevitable, even if there is no serious illness, it is inevitable to catch a cold or something like that, and only when you are sick can you know the discomfort of being sick, and you can't stop it no matter how much money you spend. Therefore, in our daily life, we must insist on exercising, eating reasonably, maintaining a good mood, cultivating noble sentiments and good living habits, so that we can stay away from diseases and be a healthy and positive person.

I am a cancer patient, I ask my family to tell me the truth directly, I think patients should have the right to know, although I can't accept the reality! But as a person concerned, I am glad that it is not sudden death or accident, there is ** value, there is time to arrange the rest of my life, survive chemotherapy, change my life habits, meet the sun every day with an optimistic attitude, and give back to the people who love you in different forms! Life has to go on, and death doesn't have to be rushed!

Born to die, we dance with cancer!

First of all, you have to understand cancer, so that patients should also understand it, and then it is active, go to the top three hospitals for consultation, if conditions permit, you can go online to see the relevant foreign programs and literature. At first, it will be difficult for the patient to accept and painful, and what to do at this time is to help the patient change his mentality. Food should be improved, exercise should be strengthened, and lifestyle must be healthy.

I am an early-stage patient with adenocarcinoma of the lungs. I had surgery more than two months ago, and I have always taken care of myself as much as I can, a daughter is working outside, and my husband is a wooden and careless person, so he can only know how to do it, and if you don't say it, you are a normal person. Often coughing and sore all night can't sleep, pity is a person in the carry, it doesn't feel like it's a thing for him, I cried and complained and didn't even want to live, and then I figured out that I want to live for myself, and if I feel uncomfortable, I immediately went to the hospital to call him, no one lives for you, wipe away your tears and fight for tomorrow.

I have kidney cancer, no surgery and no chemotherapy, life is the same as usual, just take some Chinese medicine every day (I pick some 'myself'), and it seems that there is not much change in a year, life is a day, just be happy.

My mother is in the advanced stage of lung cancer, and now she is hospitalized in the hospital, and she always runs to the hospital when she has this disease, and after a long time, she is naturally used to running in the hospital, I hope my mother can get better, but a few days ago, experts from the Beijing Third Hospital came to see the beat, and simply stated to me that my mother had a maximum of four months of survival, and suddenly had a big stumble in my heart, and then I thought to myself that what I could do was to accompany my mother, take care of my mother as much as possible, and race against what the doctor said, strong mother, you have to stand up tenaciously.

My dad has just been diagnosed with advanced lung cancer, the doctor said that even surgery is not necessary, and he didn't dare to move, because the tumor is growing on the side of the heart, my dad has been honest all his life, he grew up eating hundreds of meals, I really can't do anything, I don't even dare to tell my mother, I don't want to give my dad chemotherapy, I don't want him to suffer, I just want him to live a happy life, I will always be by his side when I leave, because if I go back often, he will definitely notice, Although I often cry secretly, but I will be strong, because I still have to take care of my mother, my wife said that if my father is really gone in the future, she does not want my mother to live with us, my plan is to take my mother to move out and live in a rented house with my mother, she raised me young, I have to support her old, everyone said I did the right thing?

My wife had a total of 10 chemotherapy treatments after surgery, and now a large area has metastasized, and what she thinks in her heart cannot be expressed in words.

I don't know what to do, it's a feeling that I shouldn't do it every day, very helpless, extremely helpless, every day is terrified, my heart is like a thousand pounds of boulders, I have to dream of going to the hospital every night, watching other people's homes happy and carefree, that taste can only be experienced by the parties, extremely tormented, not to mention .........

September 23, 2016 unforgettable、Cancer took away my father who has been with me for 41 years、Suddenly I felt that the meteor was gone、Maybe my father is not bothered by the pain, take good care of himself over there、The child silently prays for you。 During the hospitalization**, what I was most afraid of was waiting for the test results, my heart and blood were coagulated, I was a numb person at that time, I was afraid of the results, I was afraid of losing my father, and finally I took my father away, and I felt conflicted the moment I left, my father was not suffering from the pain and felt released, and I felt helpless and sad when I thought about losing my father.

My father's father was sick and hospitalized for about 20 days, my brother didn't contribute money or effort, I promised my father that as long as you have a breath of air, I will take care of you, maybe you die, the paper will not come to burn a sheet, Dad feels sorry for me to pay and do not cooperate **, helplessly after being discharged from the hospital....I had no choice but to find a few officials in the brigade to solve it, and my brother promised to give money and medicine....But the funeral expenses for the dead are also flat, and now I have no opinion on the equality of men and women! The sister-in-law said that he would accept the gift money, and all the expenses would be used to Pingtan! said that my father went to the hospital again, but my brother still didn't give me money, and it cost more than 20,000 yuan....I went to the Judicial Bureau to take care of it the next day, and my father said that my brother poured urine for him to drink!

The recording is still preserved! I have something to do in Chengdu, the front foot walks the back foot to get my dad back, three days back dad left, dad has been gone for more than three years, but I am sad when I think of my dad! How painful it hurts to feel that heartache and coldness.

My dad is also a cancer patient, found stage 3 lung cancer at the age of 50, underwent surgery in the tumor hospital**, is 61 years old, he is lucky, but unfortunately last year there was a development of primary gonadal lung cancer, bone metastasis has occurred, and now after 6 chemotherapy treatments, after evaluation, the doctor said that the overall is now very good, but it is during this evaluation process because of the low immunity caused by chemotherapy caused by influenza A caused by acute asthma attack, in the ICU for a whole week, just transferred to the care unit, The whole person can't move, and then the body needs to recover to a certain state and continue chemotherapy from three chemotherapy drugs to one chemotherapy drug, my father has always been very strong, every time the discomfort of chemotherapy, the pain all over the body has persevered, I hope to be able to accompany him more in the coming days, take care of him!

Dad was found to be early in the middle and lower end of esophageal cancer in 2017, and surgery and chemotherapy have been completed, and now I will go to the hospital for three months or half a year to check it, and each time the indicators are normal, my dad gets up early every day to exercise for half an hour, and then eats and fights the landlord to eat and fight the landlord, watch TV and sleep, always feel that this life is not too healthy, I want him to exercise more, and some people say, how happy how to come, every time I look at his thin appearance is still very distressed, and I watch him play in his own circle. I just watched quietly from afar at the gate of the community, and called him back at dinner, hoping that my parents in the world would be safe and healthy.

I am a cancer patient, and I have been diagnosed with terminal cancer, and I have been treated nine times in the past year and a half, and I have gone back by myself, what should I do when I go home, what should I eat, what I should drink, the support of my lover, the love of my family, I am happy every day, and I never treat myself as a patient.

It has been a year since I was declared stage 4 breast cancer, and in the first half of the year, the pressure was not on the disease itself, but on the tension of my family. In that half a year, all kinds of things I didn't like to eat were forced to swallow by my family with a sentence against cancer. The beef and mutton that you like to eat is completely forbidden.

Before buying vegetables, you should check whether the dish can be eaten and whether it should be eaten. At that time, I kept thinking, this kind of life is very tiring, and there is no fun at all? It's better to die.

But luckily, I still have a group of cute little friends who don't force me to eat things I don't like when I go out on the weekends together. Nor will I be reminded in my ear that I am a patient. Because of them, I found the balance of my life and my life, and I no longer wanted to die as I did at the beginning.

Although I still have to go back to chemotherapy regularly, when I leave the hospital, I am still the same as before.

Don't be afraid, where there are no accidents in life, cancer is cancer, and the life of a person Lord Yama will first formulate your death and then make life. Don't say that I have a big heart, I really did this, I also told my husband that if I really do something, I will never be allowed to be rescued, don't add more pain to me, I believe you understand why I said this. You must not say in front of the patient that you want to be strong, everything is the patient's own choice.

I am also a cancer patient, but I am positive**, optimistic, and now that the chemotherapy is over, I have regular check-ups and a good rest at home.

My father-in-law was diagnosed with advanced lung cancer in April this year, and he was diagnosed with advanced lung cancer in the targeted drug**, and it was only three months since he had two tumors in his back. He would like direct chemotherapy, but we hope that the targeted drugs can be the best, and if one generation fails, there will be three generations of chemotherapy at the end. There are at least three flags to go.

Hopefully alleviate his pain and prolong his life.

When the countdown of life has appeared in front of me, I will also choose to live my day wonderfully. First, the face of illness, physical pain and other malfunctions will. Let us suffer.

When cancer does not negate our dreams. Many times we are frustrated. Panic is the fear of cancer and uncertainty about the future.

But when we recognize cancer, we learn to look at it rationally and accept it. Nothing seems to be so scary anymore. Like many patients, the author felt helpless in the early stages of his diagnosis.

Scared, but he quickly adjusted himself and decided to plunge into this ongoing battle. In **, she always keeps her sanity and the doctor's **suitable plan for herself**, and faces it positively, in fact, cancer is not terrible, what is terrible is that we lose confidence because of it, no matter what? Remember, we can still chase our dreams as we did before.

Second. In the face of life, even if we are sick, we must continue to live, and maybe we can continue to live the way we used to live. Or maybe you have to give up the past for the sake of illness and make a huge change in your existing lifestyle.

The author of the book was once a professional elite. But since his diagnosis, he has learned to let go, put down his work, let go of his professional dreams, and return to life, a dish of firewood, rice, oil and salt can become a topic that he talks about. It is true that illness will break the original trajectory of our lives, but no matter what, life will continue to live with its resentment and the injustice of fate.

It's better to adjust your mood and live a happy life. Thirdly, in the face of the family, in the face of cancer, we have no way to get the family out of the fear of losing us and cannot take it away, they face cancer, the feeling of helplessness but we can do something for them, just like this author, in the last four years of her life, she calmly discussed with her husband, and the words of the second wife, he asked his brothers and sisters to take care of his parents. And prepare for the child's further education.

As a wife, daughter and mother, the author did not forget her duty, and she chose to face it with a smile. Faced with the loss of his own family after death, he gave them enough thought. Fourth.

In the face of death, in the face of pure death, the author said that I longed for death to make me full of what I lacked in this life. Everyone's life will end, and for most cancer patients, they just know in advance how their life will end. Fear or not, it's okay to see it as a happy ending.