How to deal with snobbery, how to deal with snobs

Psychologically despise her.

Stay away from her in behavior.

Ignore her from life.

Little classmate, what grade are you in now, this kind of person is not only in school, sometimes even teachers.

To be angry is to punish yourself for the mistakes of others, let's not be angry.

There are more such people, and people say that it is easy to stand outside of pain and persuade people who are suffering, and I don't think I am that kind of person. It's been two years since I graduated from college, and I've seen more people than you, and I've seen more of this kind of person in person, as a student cadre, she can contact you just to convey the teacher's task, collect your homework, or the next notice or something, she hates you, you also hate her, but if you are angry, she is not necessarily angry.

In fact, it is very simple to deal with this kind of person, open your mind and be generous, if she is really the kind of person you said, as you said, your intersection is only occasional, you do not have any intersection of interests, you do what you should do, such as completing homework on time - if you think that not handing over homework to her is a boycott of her, this is wrong, her task is to collect homework, your task is to write homework——, and when you convey notices, you don't have to pay attention to her attitude, only pay attention to her content. Wait a minute.

In a word: to deal with this kind of person, you are indifferent from the bottom of your heart, just do it, she can't affect everything about you!

Good luck

Snobbish people don't deal with him, they would rather offend the gentleman than the villain, live well, maybe the snob will make you very angry, as long as you live well, you will deal with him.

Stay away and be yourself. Not humble or arrogant, honor and disgrace are not shocked.

The best way to deal with snobbery is to live better than him, to make him envious and jealous, and he is helpless against you, which is the best counterattack for him. Ha ha.

How to deal with snobs?

In our lives, there are many people who live in a circle, and this is our small society! In such a society, there are various professions, different types of people. Like teachers, farmers, students, self-employed people, workers, workers, etc.

Among them, there are many very powerful, very powerful people. So, how do you deal with these people? My point is to have less contact with each other!

Because snobbery is often a villain.

I remember when I was still in Lijiawan Primary School, at that time, I was the director of the office. One day, a person came to the school, and it was said that a colleague had been introduced by my classmates. I received her very carefully.

After understanding, this person is a colleague of one of my classmates, and her son was transferred to Lijiawan Primary School that year. Because I don't know anyone, I heard that I am Wang Xiaoni's classmate. He knew Wang Xiaoni, so he took the initiative to come to me.

The conversation was about asking me to take care of his son, Yang Ka-shing. Because he is a colleague of his classmates, he also takes care of the children and often helps to check his homework and help with his homework. After several years of hard work, this child's learning has remained at the forefront of the school.

This person is also more receptive to me, and often introduces my management experience in class groups and other places. However, when this student graduates, this person suddenly becomes a different person, and it turns out that the appearance of greeting people when they meet is gone, and they are replaced by shaking their heads or looking away without knowing each other. I suddenly felt what it means to be a snob!

It's to use you, and when you're done, kick it away!

Through this incident, we have all summed up a truth together: for the person who often scolds you, don't ignore him. When these people can use you, they try their best to slap you up, like a grandson, but once you have no use for him, he will become unrecognizable, and he will kick you away when he is finished.

These people, we don't have to worry about anything with them, because there is no intersection with each other except students. Once the student leaves, the intersection naturally separates!

We must have our own standards and principles for getting along with each other. For those who have helped us, we must always be grateful and always think of the power of help! The grace of dripping water is reciprocated by a spring!

Among people, we must understand "benevolence, righteousness, courtesy, wisdom and faith", and have the idea of filial piety. People get along with each other, although there is an intersection, but it is only a gentleman's frank efforts! We must abandon the kind of flies and dogs, who constantly sell their conscience and inner things for economic gain!

After all, everything in the world has a certainty! Only people understand each other and treat guests with integrity, although the friendship between gentlemen is as light as water, but the heart is also open and happy!

What kind of people you get along with, what kind of measures you have to takeBeing flexible in dealing with interpersonal relationships is very important for our future development.

When we get along with sincere people, we should also be sincere. With hypocrites, we must not take their word for too much attention. So get along with the people of the forces, I thinkYou can work with them, but you can't have deep fellowship with them.

When they compliment you and compliment youYou have to keep your heartDon't be touted and fly lightly, I don't know the north and the south, I don't know how thick the sky is, you mustAbide by your own principles, because a person with principles and bottom lines will not be bad even if he can't achieve big things。If you are not strong-willed, in the midst of this touting,Break through the principle and bottom line, and this will be the handle of his backbite in the future.

Get along with the people of the power,It's good to be plain, you don't have to have deep friendshipsAs the saying goes, the friendship of a gentleman is as light as water, and the friendship of a villain is as sweet as liquor, and the so-called sweet is because they have an exchange of interests, so you have to be a gentlemanWhen you get along with anyone, you have to talk about it, be upright, and say everything to others, so what are you afraid of.

We can work together, we can do things together, but these kinds of people are not suitable to be friends. In the face of them, we must uphold the principle and bottom line of a gentleman, and at the same time, we must also do a good job of prevention, and just get along with them calmly.

I think that the people who are powerful are those who are open-minded and like to associate with people who are rich and powerful. Usually I don't like to interact with this kind of person, but I don't see what I look up to see, after all, there will be an intersection in life, and it is inevitable to deal with them together, so in this kind of unavoidable interaction, I still found some small ways to interact with powerful people.

First of all, neither humble nor arrogant. A large number of people of the forces I have met have a common characteristic, that is, they will have different faces when facing different people. In the face of powerful and powerful people, those who are powerful will show a kind of "servility".

I don't know how to describe the feeling that they will have a groveling and flattering face, which makes people feel very uncomfortable. So when dealing with these people, I think the most important thing is not to be humble or arrogant. Because they like to make friends with powerful people, they will be a lot more stubborn when they have better resources, and they like to ask people to drink and instruct people.

So it is very important to be neither humble nor arrogant. First of all, you must have a hard attitude, and you will have an attitude towards people from any family, and you will not be treated differently.

Secondly, it is necessary to have your own attitude and distance. On the issue of the principle of personal friendship, I really don't have a good feeling for those powerful people. Although he will still be enthusiastic and active in daily interactions, he is actually resistant in his heart.

Because of the disunity of heart and action, I always maintain a sense of distance from those who are in power. I don't like to get too close to them, and I don't like to socialize with them too closely.

Actually, I think it's all up to the individual. If you have a correct mentality, you are still afraid of who is snobbish or not.

I don't get along much with snobbish people. Because I don't need them, and I despise snobs from the bottom of my heart, I scoff at them. It's just that there are many snobs among my relatives.

So I can't help it. I can only endure this inner unhappiness and deal with them. You can't show hatred for snobbish people.

Because people who are generally snobbish rely on their snobbery to have a certain social status. For example, my second aunt's brother-in-law's daughter-in-law, that is, her brother-in-law, I have to call her cousin. Every time the Chinese New Year, the people in the family always regard the two of them as guests.

As soon as I arrived at home, everyone was shushing and asking for warmth, isn't it just that there is some money at home, what is the big deal? Speaking of her snobbery, it really doesn't take time to find out. When I was in high school, she looked at me differently when I did well in my studies, and my cousin ate at the same table, and she always chatted with me after dinner.

It's really a family. My second aunt is also like that, but I am her own niece, and she can't clearly express her dislike for me. Now my cousin is working, and when it comes to the Chinese New Year, after everyone gets together, my cousin and the cousin talk endlessly in the house.

I prefer to stay away and I don't want to be isolated in my room, so I usually go to the kitchen and help my second aunt serve food. I'm a lot stronger now, so I don't feel discouraged by their disregard for others. So I basically ignore my cousin the whole time.

I think she's a bit blatantly snobbish. I pretended to ignore them.

Recently, my brother.

However, I think this way of dealing with it is a bit extreme, we should still use a sleek way to get along with such a person, meet a powerful person, first of all, must not have such a deep friendship, as the saying goes, the friendship of a gentleman is as light as water, you must keep a distance from such a person, you can't do business with them, and don't leak your secrets to such a person, because such a person generally has no dignity, no bottom line, maybe one day, he meets a person who is more worthy of stammering, You'll tell your secrets as a joke to others. Just treat such a person as an innocuous person.

Don't envy others, don't lose yourself. As long as your heart is not chaotic, it will be difficult for the outside world to change anything about you. Never let down your heart because it gives you all the love.

In fact, there are such people around me, do it simply, bye-bye!

If the city is not as deep as the other party, just pretend not to see it.

Don't get along unless you're upside down or rich.

It's about finding a way to understand the characteristics of this type of person.

Dear landlord.

Many things are always experienced before you know that you can't afford to gain or lose. Just like feelings, after the pain, you will know how to protect yourself; If you are stupid, you will know how to persist and give up in a timely manner. Many times, what we think is earth-shattering love is nothing more than a joke in the eyes of others.

Remember this and never love someone who doesn't love you. People who don't love you, no matter how much you sacrifice for them, they will only move their hearts of pity at most, and they may be a little sorry, but they can't make love, so it's not fair. Maybe love is an unreasonable game, and the person who is loved can always control the power of life and death of love, even if it is arrogant to lawlessness, it is also tolerated and spoiled.

In this world, if you don't love you, they will love you, and if you fall in love with someone who doesn't love you, it's destined to be just a pain and hurt for you... If you find that the only door in your world is no longer open for you, you don't have to wander around the door anymore, or hit your head and never wake up, learn to give up, and then turn around and look for a skylight that is open for you, where you can also see the stars in the sky...

Let me tell you, I have a deep understanding of it, because I have this kind of villain around me, she always pretends to be very good in front of the teacher (I am still a student), and her classmates hate her, and then we play a prank, that is, pretending to be a boy to write love letters to her, and she is also springy.

I don't think the current society can 54 this kind of villain, so I should play with them I feel good、、、 don't call me a villain, because I am doing the right thing for heaven and 、、、 relatives on behalf of justice, choose me

Ignore them, work yourself, improve your abilities, and let them go with jealousy.