What should I do if my mother in law is very stingy and stingy?

I have some suggestions for dealing with family relationships:

1. Be humble, don't be a needle to each other about everything, give each other more opportunities to talk, think more about each other, avoid unnecessary conflicts, and family affection is priceless.

2. A surprise creates a dramatic effect, and often many contradictions are lost in jokes.

3. Divide responsibilities, assume your own responsibilities and obligations, do more for the family, and think less for yourself.

4. Dualized communication, many conflicts are due to the lack of communication between family members, which exacerbates the conflicts.

5. Be open-minded, life is short, we should create a harmonious society and a harmonious family, think about everything, don't worry about everything, don't intrigue, don't be greedy, be open-minded, and be grateful to live a relaxed and happy life.

She doesn't seem to be someone else, it's your husband's mother, if you look at these issues from your husband's standpoint, your mentality will change! Otherwise, you are also competing with yourself, and you can't get along with your husband, do you think he still has the heart to do business? Will the home still be secure?

In fact, what you said is not a matter of principle, more tolerance with each other, more understanding and communication, there is no big deal! Living a life, the old man will always have a different concept from the young people of the moment, and there is no way to force the old man to adapt to you, hehe!

Haha, if there is a treasure in the family, it depends on your perspective and attitude towards things.

This is called the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, what you said, the first half is secondary, and the key thing that makes you the most unhappy is actually ("often provoke the relationship between me and my husband, and she is always super happy after the end, the kind that can't be missed") isn't it?

With all due respect, from your description, it can be seen that your mother-in-law should be the kind of person who is not highly educated, who suffered hardships when she was young, and her experience is destined to make her a little civic tendency, and she likes to be extremely thrifty in her parents' short regard for money than fate?

When you meet this kind of mother-in-law, it is actually impossible for you to change her, she has lived all her life, and her personality is still a little stubborn, so it's okay if you don't change your husband. Therefore, if you want to change this status quo, it is basically impossible, the biggest comfort is that your husband can be sensible and not stupid, don't protect his mother indiscriminately, if your husband can't even tell the right and wrong position as I said, then your life is basically very miserable before your old man is ancient, and even if it deteriorates, it will affect the relationship between your husband and wife.

Of course, one of the best ways to solve the problem is to have your own house to go out and out of sight.

It's not a kind of luck to have such a mother-in-law, at least outsiders can't bully you! If you are bullied and your mother-in-law doesn't care, then drive her into a corner and whip a hundred! If you don't bother with her, it's over, just treat her as a child.

I believe what you said, because my mother-in-law is also such a person, she is not far from your mother-in-law, and he said that I took the money, not once, but several times, and now I don't live with him.

I think these are very similar to the ** inside, there are all kinds of people in the world, and if you talk to her less, you will avoid these less

1. I should be more generous than my parents-in-law

Mother-in-law is stingy with you, you can be generous to mother-in-law. Mother-in-law is reluctant to spend money, and when she gets old in the future, the rest of the money is not all your husband's, and in the current society, most mothers-in-law do not have many children. You usually buy more things for your parents-in-law, and over time, your mother-in-law will know your intentions, and she will think that you are a filial child.

2. Learn to be patient

We must have been very angry when we found out that my mother-in-law was stingy. Stingy people are not welcome when they go to **. But the stingy person here is your mother-in-law, so you must keep a good mentality, and don't sulk because of this kind of thing.

The body is one's own, and those who can endure it must endure.

3. Earn more money on your own

People of the mother-in-law's generation sometimes even have a full meal as a luxury, so this habit of their life has been preserved, because the mother-in-law is afraid of the feeling of eating this meal without a meal, so the daughter-in-law should give proper understanding.

Of course, mother-in-law slamming the door is also not good for the daughter-in-law's life, if you are gnawing the old clan, let alone the only way is to earn more money, and spend your own money with peace of mind, and your mother-in-law will not slam the door on you.

4. Communicate more with your mother-in-law

When you have nothing to do, you can talk to your mother-in-law. Some daughters-in-law don't like to talk to their mother-in-law, and even feel annoyed when they see their mother-in-law. If you don't like your mother-in-law yourself, how can you expect your mother-in-law to be generous to you.

5. Live separately from your mother-in-law

If you really don't have patience at all, or your temper is very short-tempered and can't tolerate a little grievance, then you will find a way to live separately from your mother-in-law. In this way, you will not see the benefits of your mother-in-law, and your mother-in-law will not be able to get your oil and water, and you will be clean.

Looking for your husband... The money wasn't given to you by your in-laws, you just need to take care of your husband.

Hello, it is a pleasure to serve you and give you the following answers: First of all, it is important to make it clear that the relationship between the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law is very important, therefore, when dealing with this situation, try to avoid the escalation of the conflict between the two parties. First of all, both parties should try to maintain communication, respect each other's views, try to avoid quarrels, understand each other's ideas, respect each other's feelings, communicate more, understand more, care more, be considerate, support, help, encourage, care, and love.

Secondly, both sides should try to avoid treating pettiness as an attack, but should proceed from reality, communicate more, understand more, care more, be more considerate, give more support, give more help, give more encouragement, give more care, and give more love, so as to improve the relationship between the two sides. Finally, both parties should communicate more, understand more, care more, be more considerate, support more, give more help, give more encouragement, give more care, and give more love, so as to improve the relationship between the two parties, so that both parties can live in harmony and establish a good family relationship.