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Anonymous users2024-02-05A family that is too traditional.
Understand your parents' behavior, and in this regard, often 80% of the time, it is the parents who are right.
But I'm now assuming you're the 20%, and you're the right one.
You have to ease the conflict between you. Fortune teller, hey, it's harmful.
If that's the case, why don't you try to find two more fortune tellers and tell your parents that if the other two fortune tellers both say that the man can't do it, then you give up (to be very sincere), which is a condition for you to give in, start from here, try it, will there be a different result :)
Of course, it's a gamble.
Having said that, sometimes, you still have to respect your parents in this regard, after all, you will live in the future, not quarrel. Unless you believe that your boyfriend will change his mind in your parents' minds in the future, if you don't have that confidence, you might as well let it go.
I know it's unfair to you, but the world isn't fair.
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Anonymous users2024-02-04Don't believe in fortune tellers, happiness comes from fortune telling, you don't rush to go against your parents, you have to enlighten them not to believe in fortune tellers, but on the other hand, you must also show proper persistence.
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Anonymous users2024-02-03That fortune teller was so hard to be a man by Lei P who was talking nonsense. You told your parents that it was your ignorance that ruined my happiness in this life. If you feel that your actions and choices can really make me happy, then I would rather be alone for the rest of my life.
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Anonymous users2024-02-02Your parents are good for you, but what about others?
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Anonymous users2024-02-01It is often said that love is a matter of two people, and when it comes to falling in love and talking about each other's longing for the future, they think that they can overcome all difficulties and embark on the palace of marriage, and then plan a happy life after marriage. I believe that most couples will go through such a psychological process, which is a sense of belonging, and it is also a plan for their future.
When it comes to you and me, I think that I should tell my parents that I naively thought that my parents would definitely support your planned life.
At this time, there will be two situations: first, the parents saw that the two young people were indeed a good match, and the family background was still in line with their tastes, so they hit it off and agreed, and then they were all happy.
However, in the second case, instead of criticizing your plans, your parents are judging each other's family circumstances. Including: the economy, the personality of the other party's parents, and even more, the medical history of the elders who moved out 5 generations ago, saying that after getting married and having a child, they may be like whoever they are, either dumb or demented.
Saying that the other party's job can't give you a happy life, and saying bullshit, it can be summed up in three words: disagree.
We love to the depths of our love, of course, we don't understand our parents' arrogant reasons, and we still can't resist our parents if we refute and gamble.
They thought they had come and said, "You have lost the battle of lips and tongues." Young people, if you don't admit defeat, you can't debate, can't elope?
Child, have you ever calmed down and thought that what your parents said is really right? The union of two people is not only that you are in love, you love him, he loves you, and incidentally, you also love everything in their family, he loves everything in your family even more, and your future children. Have you thought about it?
The problem of personality is really a big problem, even if you have a great sense of tolerance, after living for a long time, tolerance will become narrow-minded. Over time, you wrap yourself in a ball, and either they tell you to get out, or you yourself roll away with a reunion body.
One more point, the background of your parents, have you considered it? The slightest mistake in their morality will be the subject of a quarrel in the future. Of course, no one is morally wrong, but once it is broken, both sides will have the right to provoke the other in the future.
This also warns us that when we fall in love, we must not make our family history too clear, and that irrelevant past events should become private. So, do you think it's necessary to ask your parents for advice when you fall in love?
Friends, fight for it, many people don't fight for it, just let love go by, maybe it will be much better slowly, take my mother to see first, my mother's heart is soft, and I will fight hard.
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