Do people become ruthless only after being emotionally hit?

Hello landlord.

In my opinion. There are many stages of love. People like you belong to the stage of psychological need and inner satisfaction.

There is basically no right or wrong at a stage like yours. There is only love and unlove. It is also the most unstable stage.

Neither side understands enough. I don't even know myself. In terms of the value of life.

This stage of love is the most perfect and precious. There is no need to consider any external objective factors at all. Just start from the heart.

Your so-called desperation is just purely subjective emotional numbness and self-defense. Don't move on to the next relationship until you get out of the shadow of emotional trauma. The heart is not spelled out.

How to pretend to be someone else's good.。。

Different stages of love are appreciated by different people of the opposite sex as they continue to mature. Falling in love is just a prelude to marriage. When the time comes.

When you have a need for marriage... You will see love clearly. will recognize what you want.

At that time, people's hearts will become open-minded. Don't count the gains and losses in love. Because you know your goal is happiness.

We all have to pay for what we want. You and your boyfriend will understand it in a few years. It's just an ordinary love. Although it is one of you or two people who have lost the perfect love.

It's not that he has become ruthless, it's that he doesn't love you enough And the more you chase him like this, the more annoying he will be with you Give up You have to learn to be patient Resist calling **Contact him and can't help but send him a message After this time everything will be fine Girls must have backbone Love yourself Don't try to please men Let men chase you and please you.

Yes, because I poured too much affection into it before, but I didn't get it in return, so I was disheartened, and it was difficult to get back together.

I hate you so much! If it's me! It's the same! ~

It's not ordinary love that can be ruthless! It's not ruthless to anyone, either! He's only for you! You feel even reconciled! With your character, you haven't broken up again! ~

I find it difficult! ~

I don't speak well! But I hope you accept it! ~

Forget it! It's good for everyone!!

People only know how to cherish when they lose, it's really stupid He hates you because he loves you, and the deeper he hates, the deeper he loves, even if you are reconciled, there will be estrangement between you, and there are always some unspeakable knots in the psyche. It's better to face life calmly, this world is not a world where no one can live, live well, come on, bless you, it's good for everyone, isn't it.

From love to hate, love is deep, hate is cut, he loves you too much After breaking up with you Because you took the initiative to break up, so I resented it After separating from you, you turned back to him He was making trouble with you Persist for a while Although there is no eternal love in the world, there is no emotion that is not touching.

It should be ruthless, he is so good to you Why were you still so willful before Don't take care of his feelings, obviously love you so much, you still have to break up, I think you still use time to prove your love for him, since he loves you so much, he will come back when he calms down, good luck!

Let's look at the point, some people are really not suitable for nostalgia.

Not exactly, sometimes it can be ruthless for the sake of love.

Understand your boyfriend's thoughts, people are like this to lose to know how to cherish, what are you doing when he loves you.

Cherish the person in front of you, this boyfriend in front of you is also good to you, and you will feel the same way after missing him.

Don't be nostalgic for the delicacy of spring, summer is also very good.

He probably feels like your sister, and he is a very simple person, so he will divide it.

There are some things that you have to keep moving forward and not looking back.

If the blow is too big、Generally。

If you miss it, you can't go back.

It's not clear what it means to be emotional.

Miss it, miss it, girl, ask for a reward.

1.Time is the best medicine.

When faced with emotional setbacks, most people are overwhelmed in grief and unable to extricate themselves. This characteristic is most prominent in women, women's feelings are more delicate, and they like to miss the old. When women encounter emotional setbacks, some even have soft thoughts, feeling that their lives have no meaning.

In the face of this situation, the best way is time, time is the best medicine, which can heal the wounds in the heart. In the present, because we are experiencing these pains, it is difficult to get out for a while, but after a long time, everything will become a cloud of the past.

2.Relax and travel alone.

People always like to be cocooned and have to get along with themselves. Faced with a failed relationship, men and women have the same responsibility, don't blame yourself for anything and torture yourself every day. If you feel that you can't get out for a while, then learn to adjust your mood, we can choose to travel alone and give our mood a vacation.

3.Try to forget and distract yourself.

Everyone who has had a failed relationship knows that it is not easy to forget someone, but we still have to try to forget. There is no one right or wrong to break up, after all, they once loved each other, so why bother to forget it after breaking up? We must keep ourselves busy as a way to distract ourselves.

When you give full play to your value in your work, you will feel that everything is not a big deal, and you are the most important thing.

4.Make your own life plan.

Give yourself a positive mental build.

The major events in life are career and feelings. When neither goes well, it is very difficult to solve, but no matter how difficult it is, it still has to be faced. Only by having the courage to face it can there be hope, and only with hope can we draw a beautiful blueprint.

The most fearful thing in life is despair, the loss of dreams, like a bird without wings. After the emotional setback, we must make a good plan for life, and give ourselves positive psychological construction, believing that everything will be fine.

Hello, this happens to everyone. Life is not all the way smooth, there will always be such and such problems, don't be discouraged, there is no grass in the world, improve your learning, improve your connotation, let your career go further, you can have a more stable feeling.

If the relationship is hit, I have to go out to travel, take a walk, see nature, drink coffee, go to the Internet bar, take a bubble bath, I feel, I feel, to soothe my mood and live a better life.

When you get hit, change your mind, go to your friends to sing, dance. Don't take this matter seriously, so that things are fine, don't bother to ask, love blows are normal.

At this time, it is best to calm down first, and you can also travel to other places to relax, so that your emotions are less affected by your current feelings. In addition, you can also find some close friends of your own to confide in them, so that your heart will be better.

Heartache is just one of the possible consequences of love, just because the other person doesn't understand your love and doesn't cherish your love... Pray that He will wake up soon and make you feel happy with His love ...

After being sad and sad for a while, pack up your mood, eat and drink, sleep, do what you want to do, and don't turn around.

2. What can be held is true happiness. Some seemingly beautiful things have never belonged to them, and only those that can be grasped belong to them.

If the relationship is hit, it should also have the ability to repair itself, and everyone's emotions should be firm, even if they are hit, they should repair themselves.

If you've been hit and hurt in a relationship, try learning a new skill or keep yourself busy and don't think about it anymore.

1.has been in love for many years but has never confessed, and finally found out that she is a good match and has a boyfriend.

2.After the confession was rejected, he continued to pester, causing the other party to get bored and stay away.

3.He has been guarding her, but he did not show enough sincerity and determination and missed the opportunity.

4.Pursued online, but not recognized by the other party because they did not actually contact it.

5.Silently pay by the other party's side but are not understood and accepted by the other party.

These experiences may make people feel helpless and sad, but success and failure are both growth experiences, and only by constantly summarizing and improving in the experience of lack of socks can we grow better.

It's not a matter of becoming ruthless, it's a way to protect yourself from being hurt. This approach may seem unreasonable or extreme to others, but everyone has their own ideas and persistence.

I also had this experience, because I was afraid of being hurt, so I stayed away from all the people who were not good, lukewarm or even very good to Wo, and at that time Waugh only felt that as long as I didn't come near me again, I wouldn't be hurt again.

This practice is just out of a kind of self-protection, after all, people say that they are strong and strong, but there are still weak places, a soft part of the heart is stung, and they will be afraid of that feeling, afraid of being hurt again, so like a hedgehog, surround themselves and close them up, in order to expect that they will not be hurt again, give some time, let the sunshine re-enter the hurt heart, let it be, we will not always live in the dark, nor will we always draw the ground as a prison, circle the heart and stop.

We found that at the end of some relationships, women always seem very ruthless, which forms a sharp contrast with her previous affectionate clinginess, which makes men feel incomprehensible. Generally speaking, a truly "heartless" woman will have the following 3 manifestations!

When you are really ruthless, you should leave completely, and you will not pay attention to the retention of others.

When a woman is injured, she will be more ruthless than a man, and they will choose to leave without hesitation, and they will not leave a word.