Emotional problems I would like to ask everyone

In fact, I also had such confusion, I liked it for 3 years, and I haven't seen it for 3 years, and I played ** once in the last 3 years, and I talked for a long, long time, and then I dreamed of him, I always felt that I still couldn't let go of him, until I met my current boyfriend, I didn't know that I had actually let go of it a long time ago, just in fear of losing that feeling, I would struggle in my heart, my mind had been put down, but my heart was unwilling, so there would be such a situation, and now I finally found the original feeling in reality, to truly understand your heart.

You said that you can't get that feeling back in him, why do you remember what kind of feeling you remember because of the dream?

Dreams are beautiful and cannot be taken as reality.

If you want to rekindle, talk to him and see if it feels like in your dreams.

What's more, now he may already have the woman he loves.

Because I haven't felt that way for any guy since I broke up with him. At most, I like it. I haven't been in love. There is no heartbeat. ”

The above sentence, don't force your personal thoughts on the truth, no! To any man? There is no absoluteness in the world, that can only mean that you don't have a favorite object in front of you for the time being, not your feelings for others, don't think about absolutes in everything!

I will always believe that when fate comes, I will naturally meet a man or woman in my heartbeat! People are human beings, and they will change with the environment and the relationship between people, not a spotless appearance! Including your friend who said that the previous boyfriend is still the same, that's impossible, more or less changing!

You have to be convinced that once the relationship has passed, you should not look back at it, let it pass! The future is beautiful, but you don't yearn for the future!

I don't know how you were separated. First of all, I stood in your position and thought about it, the reason why you dreamed of that feeling, so that you can't extricate yourself now, and you are very confused now! It's because you haven't been with him for a long time, and suddenly when you see him himself, you will keep thinking about how you used to be with him, don't impulsively and blindly conclude that this is love, because you have both loved, and now you are separated, now you can also recall the feeling of love before, you are in this situation now!

By the way, tell you that the people who have loved each other, no matter the reason for parting, you will never forget it, there is love in your heart, there is hate, you can't forget it, so it's just a reminiscence feeling, you can't let this feeling make you repeat the same mistakes, personal analysis, just for reference!! I hope you find your love again.

Make it clear that the past is the past, that you are not in a balanced space, and that the distance will make your life not fit in, so just think of it as a good memory! Who doesn't have any regrets in life!

Believe in yourself, find your own happiness, everyone has good memories in their hearts, and they must be distinguished from reality. Focusing on reality is the best policy, and I hope to find my true self as soon as possible.

The past is always the past, you just want to get back to the old him, or look at the real him.